I had a reading the other day where the client (“Jane”) was asking why a man (“Dan”) left her for another woman. The guides started off the reading explaining he was afraid of being left and heartbroken from a breakup.
She understandably got confused as she was like, “he left me!”. As the guides continued to explain and unravel what it meant, they explained that subconsciously he was afraid of a break up and the fall out from that, which would lead him to feel depressed and down about himself. Ultimately that led him to feeling more comfortable doing the leaving in the relationship to avoid a potential breakup, so he is never abandoned.
I imagine someone with his fear would do a lot of this, like a stone skipping on the water, where he would be the first to leave every relationship just to avoid being left himself. This may give someone a sense of control, and a feeling of “it’s always them, not me”, in an attempt to protect himself. But ultimately it would lead to shorter relationships until he figures out why he keeps doing it.
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