Category Archives: Love & Relationships

Rejection Breeds Obsession

March 18, 2021Love & Relationshipsattachment theory, breakup, celebrity obsession, ex boyfriend, obsession, rejection, rejection breeds obsession, romantic breakupPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

Emily gave me a call the other day and told me that Jonathan won’t take her calls anymore. She told me that he broke up with her last month and has been slowly disconnecting from her by not following up with her calls or texts. He kindly and gently let her know that she just wasn’t right for him and he’s been a nice gentleman about it ever since.

However Emily didn’t really absorb this information very well and she continued to chase after him. We can chalk this up to Attachment Theory and maybe you may be right, but I’m not quite getting that in this situation. Jonathan is not an avoidant personality. He seems like a very stable, kind man. He was very upfront and direct that he just wasn’t interested after they had been dating for 2 months. If you’re not quite feeling it for a person you should be able to disconnect, let go and move on, sometimes relationships don’t work out and sometimes you just don’t develop those “kind of feelings” for somebody your dating. My client in this case would be Emily (the names have been changed here for privacy reasons), but even through the reading and hearing from only her perspective I could tell he was a really great guy and doing all the right things in trying to empathetically let her go, but she really needed to get the point. So what is going on here?

A while ago I heard this phrase, “rejection breeds obsession”. I’ve seen it in my own life as well as in my clients. A lot of times you can say it’s Attachment Theory, although I’d say he was a stable personality type in this case. “Rejection breeds obsession” overlaps Attachment Theory in many ways. When someone gets rejected it’s like they have to prove to themselves and others that whatever they were rejected for wasn’t true, they have to patch it up or they have to fix it whether that subconsciously or consciously. Then they become obsessed and start chasing. It is like in their minds if they can turn things around the rejection will magically heal itself, although that isn’t always the case.

What I would recommend in these instances if this is happening to your friend is first let your friend know what is happening. Enlightenment is a good starting point. If they realize what they are doing and the reality of the situation that starts to open the heart to healing and moving on. It is like a light turns on and they can see clearly again. Your friend both on the surface and underneath the surface needs to let it go, get grief healing (get to acceptance and out of the denial, bargaining, sadness, anger and depression stages), or to acknowledge that it really is over. Then you can help point them to a new path with someone else.

This overlaps a bit with my other article on “Why we want someone we can’t have”. Some of the stories may be different but the principles are still there. Once someone is enlightened to what is going on they can start moving in a new, brighter direction with someone better.

Don’t believe in scarcity, there is more than one romantic option out there!

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References

Firestone, Lisa, PhD. “Why Are We Hooked on Rejection?” https://www.psychalive.org/why-are-we-hooked-on-rejection-2/

The Do’s and Don’ts of How to Behave with a Psychic Medium

February 8, 2021Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumshipfree psychic readings, free readings, how to treat a psychic medium, psychic boundaries, psychic high prices, psychic medium manners, psychic protection, when clients overstep boundaries, why are psychics expensive, why my psychic dumped me, why my psychic won't see mePsychic Medium Andrea Knight

I’ve had clients come to me and say that their favorite psychic won’t see them anymore or is now mysteriously “busy all the time”. This article is to help those keep the psychics they want and realize how they may have overstepped bounds in the past so they don’t repeat bad patterns. Some of this could be applied to many in the consulting, service, psychiatrist and counseling professions.

Psychic mediums are here to help. We want to help people and are caring individuals in general. Many of us are empaths, that can be why we are so good at this, but some can get drained if they don’t have enough clairsentient maintenance. Also understand since we are in a serving, counseling, consulting industry (one that is a booming billion dollar industry), we get very busy. On top of what individuals have to do in other jobs we do a lot of prep. Prep includes meditation, home energetic cleansing, grounding, centering, energy healing, spirit removal, training, on top of the marketing, accounting and business running. Oh yes, and we have to pay for our own benefits, no 401k match here, no paid vacations, no paid sick days. We have to save for that as we are sole proprietors.

If you’ve ever been let go by a psychic medium for being “too much maintainance“, I want to give you a few tips because we are a great resource to listen to your needs and give you guidance by spirit which other industries can’t do. I think the first step is understanding the maintaintence that goes into this job as I listed above. Here are some recommended do’s and don’ts so you can keep your favorite psychic medium:

Do’s:

Let us know after the reading what you received during your reading came true: totally OK!
Give us positive feedback: totally OK!
Give us short updates on how you are doing: totally OK!
Let us know we are your favorite psychic and what we say comes true: totally OK!
Ask questions about services when you have an intention to purchase a service, (not being a prelude to asking for a free service): totally OK!
Tell us you referred us to your friends and family: totally OK and appreciated!
Reach out to schedule your reading because you didn’t understand the system: totally OK!

Don’ts

Ask for a free reading. Reasons being are explained by this excellent article.
Tell us our prices are too high. We run a business, we have to market, we have to do or pay for accounting, we have to pay for our own benefits, and there’s maintenance and upkeep to doing this work for multiple reasons that other professionals don’t have to do (that takes time). You don’t see accountants that need to meditate before and after their work, cleanse their house, close portals, block negative entities from clients or anything along those lines. I keep my prices competitive wth real psychics and if you can schedule a reading next day or later my prices are discounted compared to instant.
Insult us because you are struggling with your beliefs or you are against psychics (skeptic). Don’t send us your crappy energy and entities because you’re struggling with your beliefs. Go directly to God and ask for your own credible eyewitness accounts so that you can strengthen your faith and beliefs. Don’t badger us, we don’t deserve it and then we have to clean the energy, more time away from work, family, rest.
Send us your energy to heal without a session or before/after your session. For most of us the divine, or spiritual energy healers do the heavy lifting, we don’t do it all ourselves. You are just draining us unnecessarily, cluttering our home with junky energy and interfering with someone else’s reading. How would you like it if I busted through your door without invitation and dumped 5 trash bags of filthy trash in your house, driping with goo on your clean carpet? No? Ask your energies to hold off sending anything until your session please. Some of this is corrected with awareness.
Falling in love with us: uhh….no. Strict boundaries please. Don’t even think of it. Google “transference” and note that a psychic listening, spending time as well as us delivering compliments from spirit may be misinterpreted as love per the 5 love languages. Creepy sexual energy gets blocked. Yuck.
Do readings on us. We can feel it, we know it, I block it. It is not necessary for you to know what is going on in my personal life for you to get a reading. Your intuition and guides or God will let you know if I’m the right Psychic medium for you. Boundaries please.
Write us long letters or a book-long complaint email about your boyfriend/circumstance without a paid reading. Asking us to see videos you made or something else that takes more than 5 minutes. We run businesses, we can get tired, if we have free time we choose spend it with friends and family. Please understand this and if you want time with us please schedule it like you would a psychiatrist. You wouldn’t do this with most people in other industries, please be understanding that we care but we need to have boundaries.

Unfortunately some of these things happened to me in the past or I’ve gained the clients because they did it to a different psychic and they had to find new one. Fortunately it hasn’t happened too terribly much. I think many clients who are being ignored by their loved ones are relieved to find someone that listens, who is empathetic, who understands, they receive the love from God and their angels when we connect. This might be confusing and may be misleading to some clients, however if you read this article and kind of look at what you’re doing maybe you can modify that behavior, understand that we are not in a romantic relationship with you and certain boundaries should be kept so not to strain the professional relationship we have.

I hope this helps, and if you want to schedule reading you can go to my readings page here. If you want to do some energy healing so that you can improve on your own metaphysical abilities or heal from grief you can go to my energy healing pages here. Talk to you soon!

Bisexuality and Homosexuality, A Spiritual Perspective

December 1, 2020Love & Relationships, Soul MatesPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

By Andrea Knight

Most of my clients over the years have been heterosexual women asking about their boyfriends, so my new book on soul mates and twin flames uses that demographic as its main audience. However the info in the book, which would be useful to homosexuals as well, does note I have a blog that discusses homosexuality, so here it is for those interested in the subject.

Bisexuality and Homosexuality

Bisexuality and homosexuality is not a new or recent phenomenon, with literature and entertainment mentioning it as far back as the ancient Greeks. ¹⁴ Homosexual behaviors are observed in birds, big cats as well as the great apes. ¹⁵ There are a number of studies that measure attraction and sexual behavior, mostly through psychology, zoology and anthropology. More than one article mentions that scientists have cataloged more than 1000 species that exhibit homosexual behaviors on earth. ¹⁵

Let’s talk a little about the spiritual perspective. If you’ve lived enough past lives you’ve most likely lived as both genders, meaning you could have been a man in a previous life and a woman in this life. If you remember science and evolution, we started off as single celled organisms and eventually evolved into multicellular organisms with two genders. Simple celled beings clone themselves in a process of asexual reproduction (think cells or yeast copying themselves and splitting into 2). It is very possible life on other planets started off using cloning (asexual reproduction) because of its simplicity, as that is how much of the earth’s organisms started. It is also possible that something else entirely evolved on other planets not isolated to the 2 gender system we have here. The 2 genders that we know of evolved from a 9 step biochemical process determined by genetics.

Since our souls have lived on other planets and are from different areas of the universe, it is entirely possible we learned to love each other separate from any kind of gender and the fear around the sexual act as we see on earth. That may be part of the reason why some of my clients may fall in love or feel a strong connection with someone of the same gender, even admit to themselves that it feels significant as a soul mate connection. We may feel love and attraction based on their soul, their “vibe”, or another attribute other than gender. It would make sense as past life regressions show us to be either gender in past lives and life on other planets may evolve reproduction differently. However, fears of condemnation and lack of knowledge may hold many people back from engaging in a same sex relationship even if they feel this way.

Bisexual taboo

In my experience both in my readings and socially, some bisexuals have admitted to me they don’t like the label and are afraid of calling themselves bisexual, particularly millennials. I’ve met both bisexual women and men, with many starting off in heterosexual relationships exclusively until they decided to engage in same sex or both gender relationships. They have the ability to be loyal to one partner at a time, but they have acknowledged that they can have romantic, sexual or deep feelings for those of both genders. The bisexual taboo really arose in the 1990’s and has resulted in many bisexual people feeling they have to pick a side depending on who they are talking to. If a bisexual is with a crowd of homosexuals they will call themselves gay instead of bisexual, while simultaneously using the label “straight” when among heterosexuals.

I would recommend mediating on it a bit if you find yourself in this situation, see if you are truly interested in exploring your sexuality. If not, note it, understand it as we have had many past lives even on other planets in which sexuality may be different, give yourself a mental hug, and move on with how you want your romantic life to be.

Transitions

Some clients have either awakened to the fact they have been attracted to the same sex all along and were just suppressing it for familial / cultural reasons, or they become attracted to the same sex for the first time in their midlife. In the second scenario, when someone realized they are attracted to someone of the same sex for the first time after decades have passed in their lives, may be a situation where they have met a soul mate where the feeling is so strong it makes them think about things they wouldn’t usually. The first scenario (suppressing their interests for cultural/familial reasons) was quite common in Texas, where women were raised in a certain way before 1997 and moved forward with a heterosexual relationship because they thought they were doing “the right thing”. Usually in their 40’s or 50’s I found a number of women come out after their children were grown up and out of the house, ending their marriages and pursuing what they felt all along with a woman. In one case, a lady’s grown daughter had to tell her mother that she (the mother) was gay. The denial can be so deep that some ignore it and don’t admit it to themselves for much of their lives. After this conversation the mother did admit it and started to date and pursue same sex relationships.

I would observe and listen to these stories happen over and over again and it created a noticeable pattern. Social stigmas and fear keep people from expressing their full sexual selves or what they are attracted to. Since homosexuality is natural and we have past lives as either gender, it is to be expected that even with social stigmas in place that people will have these thoughts and desires anyway. ^{14 15 16}

I also noted that these women that came out later in their lives would have a prejudice against bisexuals. As I was organizing a meetup for a group of women one lady spoke out and said “no bisexuals allowed!” I found this odd since she was married to a man for 20+ years and even had children before dating women herself. What I realized was they saw themselves in these ladies, and were disappointed with themselves for waiting so long to come out. Their distaste for bisexuals was due to their own personal shame and they were projecting their dishonesty to other bisexuals.

There is nothing wrong with bisexuality, you don’t have to “pick a side”, these ladies are having an internal struggle and are triggered by something they dislike in themselves which they perceive as deceit in others. Open bisexuals may be mirroring to them their prolonged closeted selves, missing out on years of potential fulfilling relationships that was better than their marriages.

Someone’s soul can have love for someone that is not based on sexual organs or gender alone. You can unconditionally love someone regardless of gender because you have gotten to know them deeper. You may run into the instance in your life where you find you have a deep connection, maybe even attraction, to a person that is the same gender as you. The recommendation I have is ask God for guidance, if this is something to learn from or explore. If not, and it is just “agape” love or some other deep love, I recommend asking for acceptance and peace around it. Understand that you can feel connected and even attracted to someone regardless of gender. I haven’t personally received anything in readings yet that God, angels or celestial beings send homosexuals or bisexuals to a negative underworld due to their sexual orientation. From my experience it seems that other spiritual beings love heterosexuals, bisexuals, homosexuals, asexuals, and others without orientation being an issue.

Have questions or need to talk to your guides about love, relationships, career or something else? I have psychic readings available as well as energy healing. Also don’t forget to check out my book, “Soul Mates and Twin Flame Relationships: Euphoria and Enchantment” on Amazon!

References

14 Morris, PhD, Bonnie J. “History of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Social Movements.” George Washington University. Washington, D.C. 2009 American Psychological Association https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/history

15 Vincent Savolainen et al. Evolution of Homosexuality, Encyclopedia of Evolutionary Psychological Science (2017). DOI: 10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_3403-1

16 Bawagan, Juanita “Scientists explore the evolution of animal homosexuality.” MAY 2, 2019 Imperial College London Phys.org https://phys.org/news/2019-05-scientists-explore-evolution-animal-homosexuality.html

Beauty and Attractiveness

November 8, 2020Healing, Health and Fitness, Love & Relationships, weight lossattractive, attractiveness, beautyPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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By Andrea Knight

“We “think” we know this lesson, but the media’s influence can be pernicious. It affects even those most intelligent and book smart, so it is good to review again.”

Most of my readings are on love, relationships, and soulmates. Right now I can only think of writing this very long subject into bullet points for simplicity.

98%+/- of my clients are heterosexual women
We judge beauty on outside perfection (thank you, Hollywood, media), and it causes issues for those not on the life path to create “outside” physical attractiveness in this life.
Outside beauty is a “Type” of perfection, not the only type of perfection or the only way to attract a person. You can perfect yourself in personality, kindness, unconditional love, intelligence, skills, career or in other ways.
Your or his path may be to perfect something else, business, spiritual, or other, we all have a place to make things go around this world.
He is perfecting something, you see it, you are attracted, loyal, but he is not perfect, “Hollywood perfect”, on the outside, you feel attracted or love him anyway, he doesn’t accept it fully and in his effort to perfect, he ignores you as he is compartmentalizing (focusing on something else in his life such as career, to “prove” himself good enough)
Women in these types of relationships where you are loving those on the inside, and are not anxious because of your insecurities and the lack of communication, may last the longest in the relationship. Anxious, insecure partners have many issues due to lack of consistent validation and reassurance. Those that are secure, know to leave him alone but stay loyal to perfect what is “his” skills, work or otherwise.
To those who feel they are unattractive: Sometimes those more beautiful than us, physical in this case, see something else in you, may be your unconditional love, long term stability, emotional stability, loyalty, humor or something else still. Those not “beautiful” on the outside don’t always receive love when it is given, so they may search to make themselves “better” in some way. The advice to them is to accept and believe it when love is given, they are seeing some other attractiveness that pulls them in. Work on your beliefs or “seeing” that you are attractive.
Clients come to me telling me their love interest isn’t receiving their love, not believing that they will really stay. It causes issues and bottom line it is beliefs to heal.
If you don’t have someone, you may know deep down your value, even if that is not on the outside, you wait it out, to be loyal to someone special. You keep yourself back because you see the value in yourself even if society or community does not on your face or body shape. This is the struggle, you know it, but others may not see it without getting to know you. Work on both feeling it within yourself using techniques I can teach you and radiating it out in your energy, so that when their energy interacts with you they get that message, and the person will feel pulled and attracted to you. Outside beauty is NOT the only thing that attracts another, Hollywood does us a great disservice here.
Attractiveness and perfection is not always on the outside. Even the most beautiful may see you as attractive. List out what makes you great, there is something there, they see it. Rise above the societal judgement, you are perfecting or improving something in your life, it just may not be outside of yourself ready to see upon first meeting you. Learning to receive the love when given is the other half of the equation.
Advice is to heal it, heal your beliefs, acknowledge what is happening within and rise above it. Ask God or archangels to help where you feel you can’t. My energy healing and training sessions are here so you can get started with Angels at your side.

I know you KNOW this, but have you looked at your patterns lately? Even though these themes are repeated in literature and other places, it can still affect us even when at the surface we know better.

If you are attractive and are attracted to those struggling with proving themselves to you (working late hours, concentrating on work, perfection in some other way, attraction theory), then ask God to help them realize and accept that you love them deeper than they think you do. Hollywood, commercials and magazines do us a great disservice in this area, not all attractiveness is on the outside. We “think” we know this lesson, but the media’s influence can be pernicious. It affects even those most intelligent and book smart, so it is good to review again.

I have many solutions to transform these feelings. I have been able to look in the mirror and see the attractive person underneath. Want more advice tailored specifically to you from your guides? Look at my psychic readings page or energy healing pages. Talk to you soon!

Top 5 Items to Watch Out for After Becoming a Reiki Practitioner or Energy Healer

November 13, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Nature spirits and Elementals, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healing, weight lossabundance, chi, crystal healing, downward spiral, energy healer, energy healing, feng shui, grounding, hopeless, how to ground, improve love life, life falling apart, life spiraling, metaphysical, metaphysical crystals, prana, psychic medium, psychic reading, reiki, Reiki master, reiki practioner, the secret, theta healingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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After finishing Reiki you become more sensitive to energy, Chi. I’ve found over the years that those who enter into metaphysical studies may go through a number of trials, although not the same for all, including losing their job, losing their friends, having their love life turn upside down and separating from family. Here are a few tips to add to your items to watch out for and maintain in order for your life to go more smoothly.

1. Feng Shui. Follow this link to go into my blog specifically on this subject for more detail. As you become sensitive to others’ energies you’ll start to notice the energy of your home as well. As good feng shui can benefit you, inauspicious (negative) energy may not. I recommend looking around the home and check the elements (water, metal, fire, wood) you have in each of your corners and sides. I’ve heard of some clients even having tragedies happen to their family members after moving to a new home with inauspicious energy. Good feng shui can bring positive things to you automatically so it is something good to look after for that reason as well. I can also remotely scan your home and tell you of any problem areas you may have. Schedule a reading with me and we can discuss further.

2. Turn off feeling the 2nd and 3rd Plane of Existence for a while. 1st plane is crystals, rocks, soil and other inorganic materials on earth. 2nd plane consists of plants, nature spirits and elementals. 3rd plane is humans and animals. Crystals, shells and other earth, water, fire and air nature spirits work very well in the healing process. However not everything in these planes (plants, animals, humans) are happy or healthy. You might want to turn off feeling these planes after meditation or healing. Need further instruction on how to do this? Schedule a reading with me here, email, text and over the phone readings are available.

3. Clairsentient Maintenance. As you scan, absorb, heal and read others you need to cleanse your energies and return your own back to you. Here is my detailed blog on how to do this.

4. Ask to stop absorbing energies from others. This was revealed to me after a reading and a healing. Ask Archangel Raphael to come to you and have you stop absorbing the energies of others. You may feel the healing around your mid back around the heart and solar plexus. Be calm and allow the healing to continue until you feel it is done.

5. Ground. Can’t emphasize this enough. Think of grounding as washing off your spiritual windshield. When you cleanse the energies of others off of it, you can see clearer and feel more like yourself and less like others. When you are out of healing, meditations, and readings, be sure to do a proper and thorough grounding. This will protect you from weight gain, mania and lack of focus (brain fog). It could save your job and your life path. Follow this link to my grounding article.

Attracting the Wrong Men? Bad Patterns in Your Life? Law of Attraction Healing, Jacob’s Method

August 15, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, Soul Mates, theta healingattracting wrong men, attracting wrong partner, attracting wrong woman, diet, dieting, fear, gaining weight, how to not be so afraid, law of attraction, law of attraction not working, loa, lonely, lose weight, no love, no love life, removing fears, weight gain, weight loss, weight loss solution, yo yo dietingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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A new healing technique was revealed to me through meditation a week ago that has profoundly affected how I feel and think so I wanted to pass this along.law of attraction not working,law of attraction not working,law of attraction not working
In my readings Law of Attraction has popped up as one reason why some of my clients are having similar patterns in their weight, love life and other undesirable “one step forward, two steps back” patterns. The other being beliefs and fears, which actually is intertwined with this idea because beliefs may affect how you react, see or “feel” about the situation.

Law of Attraction and Karma Concepts

When I talk about Law of Attraction what I mean is when we put thought, feeling, action and words towards an idea. The feelings, thoughts and words can the attached to something we do want in our life but also something that may be unfavorable.

Recently when watching a Hindu guru talk about Karma he said that culture has twisted the term a bit into meaning revenge against another when basically it just means “action“. During my readings clients will ask me if those that hurt them will receive something negative in return, essentially if “karma will get them back”, and often times from angels and above I receive a no response. The reasoning is usually (to sum up generally) because there are various perspectives in each situation and the reasons why we do things that can be varied (energy, lessons, feelings, reacting to beliefs).

I do believe that we have spiritual aids on certain levels that protect us from ourselves and neutralize some of this but some of the patterns are still left behind so that we can notice them. This can bring us to a spiritual awakening or to give us hints on what we still need to heal.

Weight Pattern Healing (Yo-Yo dieting)

When I was healing one of my clients I received the thoughts and feelings they were putting towards losing weight since their pre-teens. Have you ever looked at a photo years back when you were thinner and remembered at that time the picture was taken you were unhappy with your body weight, but now you would kill to look that thin again? My client focused on their thighs as early as pre-teens, judging the size and look of them, feeling emotions of disappointment, grief, frustration and sadness. Over the years she may experienced energy and thoughts around feeling or looking fat, even though she may have looked better back then than she does now. Essentially my client had been putting thoughts and feelings out there such as “My thighs are big” “I’m fat”, “I’m ugly”, “My thighs are fat”, “My butt is too big”, and so on.

The energy and belief that “my thighs are too big” were repeated in her mind over and over again, even when they were thinner, with a feeling of disappointment since her pre-teens. Imagine that as a cloud of energy getting bigger and bigger over time as she continued to feel it and think it, even mention it to her friends. Then imagine energetic forces to “make beliefs come true” affecting how you feel or think, such as “I’m on a diet but really need chocolate cake right now”. Over time these feelings, thoughts and actions create a “cloud of energy” affecting how she felt, thought, acted and what she attracted, creating undesirable patterns. What psychologists recommend is creating habits, but if you’ve been down that path you have “to be good” and stick to the plan for weeks, resisting strong forces telling you to do otherwise. With this healing I noticed results with some patterns in less than 24 hours, a big difference and relief. Less resistance mentally and emotionally to do the things you really want to just because you made choices in the past before you knew about the power of action.

The Jacob LOA Healing Method

When I meditated, a celestial healer by the name of Jacob appeared to me, and gathered the cloud of energy created from undesirable patterns. He put that energy into a bucket, transforming it into a green energy. This essentially heals it or neutralizes it. Then this is replaced with positive beliefs such as “My thighs are thin”, “I am thin”, “I am happy thin”, “I have a healthy body”. Combined with the feelings of happiness or contentment, these were written as sentences.

Imagine those sentences being written once, then repeated until it forms a square (see attached illustration at top), then repeated over again behind that square until a cube is formed. Then imagine the cube being repeated until it is a square of cubes, then the square of cubes repeated behind itself creating a cube of cubes, filling the energy that was once the cloud of black energy. This was the visual representation showed to me as how to replace the negative feelings, actions and thoughts with something more positive. This cube of cubes of positive energy was then put into another bucket, turned green with fireworks exploding from the bucket, lighting up the sky. The healing is done when the fireworks stop. Don’t forget to ground when you are done!

I did some of this healing on myself for different areas of my life and noticed a positive difference within 24 hours for some patterns. Some example topics that I may have worked on with clients:

Suppressing happiness feelings or feelings of Joy to fit in or please others
Putting too much thought, energy, love into unrequited love
Running away from those interested in me but I’m not interested in (always a mismatch)
Dreading working, career, negative beliefs around career
Negative feelings towards coworkers, bosses, friends, family, etc
Disappointment in relationships, emotions around when romantic interests are disappointing, endings in relationships
Relationship fears (disease, death, loss of power, no respect, conflict, communication)
Waking up with enthusiasm instead of dread, not wanting to leave bed
Choosing healthy foods instead of sugar, unhealthy carbs (actions), replace with being happy with healthy foods and being thinner (this works!!!!)
Stacked up energy from the thoughts and words of others that I couldn’t do what I wanted (lose weight, be successful, make money)
Fear around the paranormal, reacting out of fear
Feelings around weight yo-yoing, size and look of different body parts
Caring about what someone thinks and doing what I think they’d want (starts with parents)
Using food or drink to celebrate or reward

We may react to instances in our life for various reasons, biological, mental, past lives or social. That doesn’t mean we are stuck with these negative patterns for the rest of our lives, there is a way to transform the energy just as it can be created. This is an awesome healing that works.

This is an original healing method, so please be respectful and reference the author and article when sharing with friends or clients.

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Energy Healer Paradox: Healers Attracting the Wrong Friends and Romantic Partners

July 8, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Past lives, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingbuddha, energy grounding, energy healing, energy vampires, fatigue, fatigued, grounding, healer, how to feel better, Jesus, law of attraction, love and relationships, love reading, making my life better, peace, psychic medium, psychic mediumship reading, psychic reading, reiki, relationship reading, theta healingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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By Andrea Knight

Have you noticed since your spiritual awakening and healing path you continue to have relationships with those who drag you down or need healing? Do you just want a relationship with someone that has their “stuff” together and not in need? Do you feel fatigued and drained?

I’ve been energy healing for years, and much of my readings/healing are about relationships. I found the same pattern occurring in my life where those I would date or court me would be people that would either show me things I needed to heal or need healing themselves. I knew there were people out there in better places in their lives and after so much healing over many years I knew I should be attracting someone great that didn’t drag me down.

During a reading for a client the answer was revealed to me by the angels. We put so much action, thought, feeling and energy into healing, we were attracting more healing, either of ourselves or others. Remember, Law of Attraction. So essentially I and this other healer that was a client were attracting more people who could show us what we needed to heal or people who we could heal.

Healers: time to take back your life. You want the life you were healing for, not to be constantly healing. Don’t get me wrong, it is good to heal yourself and others. Realize that if you get into the position of continually healing your life you are putting energy into “my relationships aren’t good enough”, “my life needs healing”, “I need to heal my life to feel better”, “my life isn’t good enough yet so I need to heal it”, “I’m not good enough” or “my life isn’t good enough yet”.

Solutions / Alternative actions:

Ask the Creator of All that is to cancel, clear, delete the energy you’ve put into healing your friends, family and romantic partners, and replace it with energy of those coming into your life (or already in it) that are stable, good people that you don’t need to constantly “fix”. This shouldn’t affect your business as you are only healing those in your personal life. I visualized this as a cloud of black/brown energy, Creator removing it, transforming it into a little green cloud. Visualize those that are stable and not needing major improvement coming to you now. You’ve put so much thought into what is not right, time to put on the brakes and go in a better direction. When I type this I see a car going down a dusty, rough, long road into grey energy, and turning 90 degrees onto a road with a bright horizon and beautiful colors. If you continue to heal do the above steps again every once and awhile to correct your course.
Take a break from healing for a while. Let the dust settle and enjoy the benefits. Tell yourself you are good enough now. Do some grounding. Notice the positive changes and concentrate on them. Do lists or meditations on what is going right in your life, not into what needs to improve. You may be constantly looking at things that need to be healed or improved and your energies are constantly “on” looking for opportunity areas.
Read my article on Empathy and Clairsentient maintenance to remove the energies of others and feel like yourself.

New healer’s tip: I’ve noticed lately with big projects where you are healing something with a large surface area it is helpful to “zoom out”, perceive this “problem” as small, then it is easier for the energy to transform because you’ve gotten around the belief that this issue is too big, but rather it is small. Then zoom back in on the energy and see the energy transformed but at a faster pace because you perceived it as small. Think of how big the universe is, and then mentally realize that this issue, or opportunity area, is actually quite small for God to heal. This will help with any negative belief systems you may have.

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The 5 Love Languages for Animals and Singles

May 27, 2019Animals, Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, theta healing5 love languages, animal, animal psychic, Animals, boyfriend act this way, five love languages, love, love and relationships, mediumship, pet, pet psychic, pets, psychic medium, relationships, singlePsychic Medium Andrea Knight

Many of my clients in the past have come to me wondering if they’ll ever receive love in their life without a partner. Many people have heard of the 5 love languages, and this book is usually put in the context of already established couples. However many of us do not have a romantic partner but still need our love tank filled so that we feel happier and more content in our daily lives.

What if I told you that you can receive love outside a romantic relationship? Everyone has heard of the Five Love Languages. I always knew my primary love language in the past was spending time with someone, but what does one do when they’re single and are not receiving love from another actual physical person?

The 5 love languages are:

+ Acts of service

+ Physical touch

+ Giving gifts

+ Words of Affirmation

+ Quality Time

Suggestions:

Acts of Service (receiving) –

+ Receive an energy healing or massage (also counts as physical touch)

+ Meditation with crystals asking healers (angels or higher) to help heal you. The higher on the scale like thrones, cherubim or seraphim are great if you are really feeling out of sorts. Work towards 15 minutes to an hour depending on where you are. Place a lot of black onyx and tourmaline along your legs and feet for reducing anxiety.

+ Go out to a restaurant or movie theater where you receive service without having to cleanup

+ Have someone else clean your home once a quarter or twice a year if you don’t currently have a service