By Andrea Knight
Copyright 2025, All Rights Reserved.

After going through another bad relationship a client asked what should she look for in order to find a good man. The guides used an excellent visualization that I thought I would pass on that looked similar to this:

They showed me a guy in a crowd, and the crowd started to part into two sides.  It was clear the man, who was parting the crowd to get to her, was focusing only on her and not on any of the other women. 

• Guides say, “does he reach out to you?”, 
• “Does he go slowly [in the relationship] as in doesn’t expect intimacy too fast?  Does he not expect the easy, fast and quick approach to the relationship?”
• “Is he only focusing on you in his relationships?”, think of the man in the crowd above.
• “Does he have the mindset that would be long-term and have patience and focus?”

Oftentimes my female clients find themselves stuck in relationships that are short-term or with “friends with benefits” type guys and wonder how they got here. 

I also do readings for men.  Just a reminder: guys that actually want commitment do exist. 

However there are many that don’t, and I thought the above list was a good set of points to look out for to help orient ladies better in relationships. 

So if you are in the dating pool some quick tips: There are many times in readings I will repeat to the client that he’s not focused only on her, that he does not reach out with enough frequency, and that he expects intimacy far too quickly.  See these characteristics as potential red flags when wading through the bachelors out there.

Are you wondering if your situation is the exception?  Stop by for a session and let’s ask your guides for their insight.

Ask your guides!  Schedule an appointment today.

Also don’t forget to read my book on Soul Mates on Amazon!

My Book on Amazon:

*Daily Tip notes: Not all advice or tips are a one size fits all. Please note everyone’s situation may be different.

**Disclaimers