Mentors, How They Can Help You Achieve Your Goals

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We all have goals that we are trying to achieve whether it is weight loss, business success, or financial gain. Think of mentors as the guru that came before you and picked up knowledge along the way to do it better or faster. I can credit a number of mentors for being an inspiration to me and for leading the way in my journey for the past few years. I’ve had a successful business for the past 5 years and I’ve lost 150 pounds with mentors helping me along the way.

I highly recommend using mentors to inspire you and as a consistent reminder that you can achieve your goal. Their example can help you bypass any fears or beliefs you may have that your goal can not be achieved.  As an example, some fitness mentors I have are Kayla Itsines (@kayla_itsines), Jolene Blalock from Enterprise (@Jol3ne) and Christina Anstead from Christina on the Coast (HGTV). Each has influenced me in fitness or healthy eating practices. Christina inspired me with healthy eating mentioned on her show, Jolene with her fitness videos on Instagram and Kay Itsines with her blog and social media posts. When I think of these ladies I instantly feel like eating healthier or working out. Bless them for all their hard work and discipline.

I had a number of psychic and other business professionals that also helped me develop a successful business as a psychic medium.  Mentors can show you how to build your clientele, what websites to advertise with, how to continue to open your abilities or even the best way to do your business finances.

According to Feng Shui, you can place meaningful tokens in your Northwest corner of your home to bring mentors to you. They can be in person like a CPA, hiring manager, or nutritionist or they can be someone on social media that lifts your energy up when you see them in action. 

Mentors can give you a leg up as they can provide information to you that may have taken them years to master that will now take a shorter period of time for you. Also I use them to get “in the mood”, whether it is improving my knowledge, exercising or eating right. In addition, I check out my local library for additional reading material on areas that I’m improving on such as psychology, diet, recipes, and psychic mediumship. Authors can be mentors as well to steer you on the right direction. Think of mentors as the “cheat codes” to help you win the game faster.

Find mentors that mean something to you, motivate you, and put some quartz in your Northwest corner with the intention to bring the right mentors to you. They can escalate you faster to achieving your goals with their advice and example.

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Health & Fitness: Running

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When I first started running back in 1995 I didn’t really know that there were a few things to watch out for so you didn’t hurt yourself. I hurt my knee when I was 16 and never really knew why until I picked it up again in recent years. For those trying to lose weight or become more fit, here are the few things I’ve learned over the years:

  • Stretch: Stretch before and after you run. Sit on the ground, tuck one leg under so your foot touches your other thigh and touch your toes on the leg that is outstretched (or try your best). Do this for the other side. Second, make a butterfly shape with your legs by touching your feet together and stretch your hands past your feet. Third, lift your leg behind you holding on to your ankle. Forth, stretch both legs out and touch your ankles or feet. Do each of these for at least 15 seconds.
  • Find the right shoe for you. Look at the bottom of your current shoes. Where is the wear, on the inside or outside of the shoe? I found out I was supinated, which is when you wear out the outside of your tennis shoes and I ended up having pain on the outside of my legs around the ankles and shins after I exercised. Once you figure out if you are pronated, neutral or supinated, get the right shoe for you so you’ll have less pain. This has helped me significantly whether I’m walking, using the elliptical or running.
  • Posture: Swing your arms front and back, not cross them in front of you. Keep your arms bent at a comfortable, loose L shape. Also, have loose shoulders so you don’t have shoulder pain. Keep your head up and level, not strained, looking out to the horizon so your don’t have neck pain. Great free video to illustrate this whole process: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRkeBVMQSgg
  • Balance your weight: This might be difficult for those of you that dominate on one side of the body. I found my right side would hurt after running (hips, knee, shoulder and back). My right side would do much of the pulling and get most of the impact and this was happening automatically. My left side would feel perfectly fine and light as a cloud. Actively think about balancing the two sides, emphasizing the non-dominant side. Actively think that your non-dominant side has to pull its own weight.

Practice makes perfect, you might have to pay attention to your posture and balancing for a while before it becomes automatic. When you stretch and balance everything out you’ll experience less pain and actually have more endurance because your dominant side isn’t doing all the work anymore. My knee, back, shoulders, neck and hips don’t hurt anymore after running, so it is possible to correct for these common issues. Happy running!

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Addictions, some Metaphysical Explanations

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I’ve done some research over the years on addictions, in my case food, and in my family’s case alcohol.  Much of what I have read is science and psychology based, which has value by itself.  While the biological process certainly does play a role in how we feel and what we do, as does the mind, I wanted to know the spiritual side because I do know that is a piece of the puzzle as well.

During a reading I received that addictions and cravings for what you are addicted to sometimes arise when you are trying to shut something or someone up, like a feeling or a voice.  What you are trying to shut up may be anxiety, voices in your mind you don’t want to hear such as your ego or someone else’s, mixed in with your angels, guides or God.  You may be trying to numb a feeling such as grief or a heart break you haven’t quite healed from yet. Go here on my blog on how to heal grief.  If the divine is trying to warn you of something, this may cause some anxiety, from the higher vibration as well as other factors, and that is usually an indication to stop what you are doing and do a self check.  It was explained to me the higher the vibration, the more anxiety you may feel, particularly if you are not in the light.  More to come of this in my book to be published hopefully in 2019.

The recommendation is to stop. Stop. Do nothing. Let the anxiety ground.  Then just chill. Do Nothing for a while. 5-15 minutes of do nothing time. Don’t look at your phone, sit or lay down and do nothing.  If you are sensitive enough you will feel the energy go down from your head all the way down to you feet.  After the 15 minutes, thank your angels, guides and God for being there to bring them forth, imagine a while light around you and ask for guidance or whatever the problem seems to be. The problem may be you’re working too hard or doing too much. You may be using the addiction to get away from worries or work.  Its time to do nothing and receive guidance.

The other metaphysical reason for an addiction seems to be a combo of other people asking for more money and abundance as well as your actions in the past.  As others ask for more money, you may “answer the call” as I put it to buy what they are selling.  What you’ve enjoyed buying in the past is typically what you get pulled in buying again, essentially your actions and law of attraction.  So if you’ve felt happy buying chocolate cake, tortilla chips, going out to eat, alcohol etc. that may be what you are pulled into buying again.  This is with the combination with the physical and mental highs you receive from these actions.

Other non-metaphysical reasons for addictions usually involve serotonin, opioids and dopamine’s affect on your brain.  An excellent book that describes this is “The End of Overeating…” by David Kessler, MD.  Intellectually understanding why you feel a certain way can help you to stop yourself in your tracks, rise above the problem and find another solution.

Addiction provides an escape.  An escape from work, worries, distraction of the mind, what we don’t want to look at, as well as a mental high.  You are ignoring something, many times something deep inside.  My recommendation is to stop and do nothing, grief healing, or look into changing habits (actions).

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