Quick advice for the day. A client was experiencing this energetic, anxious pain in their chest area for a few months that was unusual for them as they usually don’t feel anxiety. Meditation and general asking for it to be healed wasn’t working for them. During the session I was reminded of “healing the 3 R’s”, rejections, resentments and regrets, which I had learned about through Theta Healing. I was shown multiple areas of their life, including career, family, and health. There were a number of events which they may have been carrying the 3 R’s for, so I asked God to pull any rejections, resentments and regrets in these events and replace with positive energy that was best and highest for them. The pain and anxiety went away, and is still gone for them.
I should note that I used to do this when I felt like my feelings for someone had faded or became negative. In the beginning of our relationship with someone we may feel a connection, happy, excited, or other positive loving feelings. Then as events unfold, and things don’t turn out as expected or wanted, rejection, resentment and regrets can build up. What I found is when I healed the 3 R’s between me and the other person my positive feelings came back, I felt love and affection for the person as I once did. Sometimes we want to get back to those positive feelings we’ve had for someone as we did before, this is one of the most effective ways I’ve used to get back to feeling positively about someone again.
I hadn’t done this healing in a while and put a note on my calendar to go over new events that may cause this to resurface even for me. I should also note here that if you are holding anger or resentment in other areas that this may manifest in the kidneys as well so I highly recommend healing them weekly or monthly. These are areas that we don’t always concentrate on during the usual chakra healing, so it is good to come back to them every once and a while.
Lastly I want to add to heal your and the other love interest’s abandonment issues. You may not have done anything extreme to bring up these issues but sometimes we don’t have to do something big to trigger somebody’s abandonment fears. Also, sometimes unbeknownst to you, you may also have abandonment issues but cover them up with what you feel is strength or you protecting yourself. Sometimes when we put these walls up we’re really afraid of being left for one reason or another. I highly recommend healing abandonment both with you and your person of interest even though they may have been small acts on your part that may have made them feel fearful of you abandoning them, thereby raising any walls or making them more guarded than they need to be around you. These can cause rifts as well as hidden negativity that we are not always consciously aware of why they are there. I find healing the 3 R’s and abandonment issues to considerably help in restoring the positive feelings I have for someone else, particularly in relationships.