Grounding, Basics

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One common side effect of being ungrounded is a lack of mental clarity, where it is hard to concentrate and focus as you used to (light headedness). Here are some common symptoms of being ungrounded:

-Loss of focus

-Feeling less intelligent

-Swift changing moods

-Hunger that can’t be satisfied

-Feeling more drained or fatigued than you’ve ever felt

-Anxieties that are not explainable

-Feeling everything and everyone around you

I talk a lot about grounding, and I’ve included additional methods and modes in the past, but I haven’t done a basic grounding blog as I figured it has been covered quite a bit on the internet. However, it has come up multiple times this past week so I decided to get it done. There are many YouTube meditations on this as well.

Do this when you get up in the morning and whenever you feel you are getting less grounded again. Grounding does not negatively affect your metaphysical abilities, think of it as you are washing them off in a waterfall, washing away the psychic “dirt” and when you come up again you can see clearer. Hopefully that helps some of you with your fears of grounding. If you have other fears of grounding, ask your archangels to heal them on all levels before you go to bed for the next 7 nights.

Method:

First imagine God sweeping away all the energies from the environments, family, friends, strangers that you may have absorbed and sprinkling them back towards where they came from. Then imagine any energy that you’ve left behind in the environment and with other people, including those you think a lot about like soulmates, coming back to you in a transmuted positive form, commonly seen in green.

Close your eyes and visualize black cords from the core of the earth extend up until they hook on to your feet, hips and end of your spine. I usually ask for this connection to core for 24 hours and wait for mother earth to acknowledge with a check mark clairvoyantly. Visualize the rest of your body turn into the branches and the leaves, extending into your energy field and your energy field turning a dark green as well as the rest of your body. Visualize air blowing away any energetic debris, then a waterfall wash over you to toss energies to the ground where they become soaked into the earth. Lastly visualize green fire surrounding you and your energy field, dissolving any negative energy or energies that no longer serve you. Using this process you will have used all 4 elements.

Imagine antennae that extend from the crown of your head open to a river of energy above you, representing the energy of others, their thoughts another spiritual information. Imagine those antennae retracting down back into your head.

Lastly if you’ve been doing a lot of spiritual work I highly recommend visualizing God turning down a nobb like you’re turning down the volume of something until you feel your energy become more grounded and less high vibrational. This will help bring you peace as well.

Sometimes after a very ungrounding reading I’ll take an actual shower, and light candles asking for grounding, open windows for air to blow in and put black stones in my pockets for additional intention. You should feel your feet become heavier, like putting on heavier boots and they should stay that way for the length of the time you ask. Lastly, visualize any portals open in your home closing (or around you if outside the home). I usually see a field of energy sweep through the home, closing any portals as it scans through like a copy machine.

You can also visualize your home grounding its energy as well. I usually see a forest in the home, with a stream of water in the middle, campfire, lightning bugs in the air, air blowing through the forest rustling the leaves. This way you are incorporating all 4 elements in your grounding visualization.

There are other guided meditations for grounding online but they do take rather a long period of time. In the morning I usually like to get going, so you can do this in the shower or in bed. Also, if you are clairsentient, check out my blog on how to maintain your energies so you can clear more of what no longer serves you.

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Destiny, Soul Mates and “Meant to Be”

I get this question a lot when doing psychic mediumship readings for others. “Are we meant to be?”, “Are we destined to be together?” or “Is it written in stone that we are to be together?”  I asked my Archangels and Jesus, who I usually connect to during a reading, what the answer was. It seems like there are several scenarios. One scenario is that two people are meant to meet, meant to be together to produce children who’s souls they are meant to journey with and learn from. In this scenario, they can still stay together or split at the end after the children are produced depending on free will and whether they work out their issues.  Our parents didn’t split as much as later generations because of cultural and familial pressure, not to mention it was much harder to be a single mother before the 1990’s.   The second scenario seems to be that the two are meant to meet in a lifetime, and learn relationship lessons with each other.  It doesn’t always mean they will be together in a romantic relationship but they were still meant to meet, which gets confusing to many of my clients.  The connection feels so strong they think the connection itself will do the work for them.  The length of the relationship in this latter scenario seems to rely more on whether they work on their issues.  Put into the mix people’s own pride, beliefs and fears and the relationship becomes more complex.

Many times I do receive that two people were meant to meet, but they may not always work out usually due to communication issues. Communication issues, commonly the lack of expressing emotion, feelings and their interest for the other person, is one of the most common scenarios I run into in relationship readings to date. Many of these issues arise from societal and cultural beliefs that we pick up from many different sources such as family, friends, media, movies and co-workers.  Many parents still tell boys to not show emotion, although hopefully that is taking a turn for the better from what I’ve seen of the millennial generation. This leaves many women wondering what their men think and want.  It leaves them frustrated, especially in the world of texting where women expect an immediate answer to their text as we know our cell phones are near us most of the time. We also tell ourselves to be independent and not rely on others, creating the anxious/avoidant (push/pull, chase/run) dynamic seen in attachment theory.  Other common scenarios I encounter is one person wants the other to reach out as they are too afraid to reach out themselves and not receive an answer (fear of rejection). If one person feels this way it is very possible the other person is feeling the same, leaving them in a stalemate.

To sum up, watch out for areas that you can learn and grow, be honest with compassion, and communicate out your problems with your partner in a wise, empathic way. Look past pride to see both sides of the issue and don’t rely on “meant to be” to carry your relationship until death do you part.

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Original article by Andrea Knight.  Do not copy or distribute without author’s permission.

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God and your Archangels Can Guide You Through Your Interests

Many people I do readings for wonder or worry that they aren’t in the right career or that they won’t be in the right place at the right time to meet someone special. In my experience, God and your Archangels can guide you through your positive feelings. In other words, they can make you feel interested in something you’ve cared about for a while or create a new interest in the moment. Then all one has to do is follow their positive feelings to meet that special someone or go in the right direction. So my recommendation has always been to follow your positive feelings when trying to figure out what to do with your day or life. That could be coffee, books, music, clubs, or amusement parks. Then you will receive more angelic signs, you will be happier and meet other people with similar interests. It sounds simple but many people struggle with doing what “is expected” by parents or what will make others like them even though it doesn’t bring them joy. So be independent, ask yourself what you want to do in the moment, notice the things that interest you and pursue them.  Note that interests can change and that is alright.  Follow your positive feelings and not only find yourself happier but also bringing more of what you want into your life.

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Self Healing

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There are a few methods that I learned in self healing my past that I wanted to share.

  1. “Healing through the decades”

Get into a meditative state (close your eyes and breathe in and out 3 times).  Imagine God and your angels sitting next to you.  Say:

  “Creator of all that is, please pull any negative emotions and negative energy from me when I was ages 0-10 years old.  Replace anything removed with healing energy that is best and highest for me.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

Wait and feel the energy being removed and replaced or until you intuitively know it is complete.  Then repeat the above prayer, replacing 0-10 with 11-20, then 21-30, until you reach your current age.  This will help with much of the anxiety and negative energy you have been feeling over the years.

2. “Stop the arguing”

Do you get into arguments with someone in your head over and over again concerning what happened in the past or some other reason?  I know some of you won’t want to do what I am about to tell you, but know that is your ego or some other negative side of you.  This prayer Heals significantly and I highly recommend it.  Just say the words, you don’t even have to feel it, or get to the wisdom of the situation before using it.  Mainly it is to release the energy that is no longer serving you and is bothering you (and probably only bothering you at this point).  It will still work even if you don’t feel humble enough to mean it fully at the time.  The healing will take care of that.

Think of situations that to this day still bother you.  Even if you don’t want to give this person anything, even if you hate them, or think you hate them, say this:

 “Creator of all that is, I’m sorry, I forgive myself and I forgive others concerning this situation.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

Wait and feel the energy being removed and replaced or until you intuitively know it is complete. There may be multiple reasons why you are going through this with someone else.  It could be due to someone’s insecurities, past lives,  a learning experience to make you more empathic or wise in the future. Whatever the reason, this helps to relieve a lot of that energy stuck in the past.

The other thing you can do daily to stay out of arguing with other people’s egos, shadow selves, or energies is to ask for this every morning:

 “Creator of all that is, please block me from connecting to others, unless I consciously ask for it or you feel it is important.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

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Client’s Love and Relationship Question

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LOVE & RELATIONSHIP QUESTION

A client the other day asked me why her relationship not working out if she and her love interest had so much in common.

The answers I received from spirit were two-fold.  One, soul connections are brought into our lives and there is often a purpose to it.  You may pick up on the uniqueness of the connection, however that doesn’t mean it will work out forever, or “til death do you part”.  Sometimes you learn something from them and move on.  Both partners need to work through their issues.  Spirit showed me paths splitting due to a fork in the road; in other words your life paths may not be parallel for the rest of your lives and it can cause a struggle or feeling of incompleteness later in the relationship.  Some couples, including soul connections & Soul Mates, are short term for various reasons.  The second message I received was to discuss my parents.  My parents have been married over 51 years and still going strong.  They are almost complete opposites; one extremely logical and the other very good at expressing her emotions.  In some ways they make up for what the other lacks and can be a very good paring.  Sometimes they don’t understand each other at all, but they accept it, or ask their children what the other means as we have become translators for each side.  They make it work doing their own thing as they are very independent people with unique interests.

Society today, probably because of movies and other forms of entertainment, make us feel that we are to match up and be completely like our mate, however 50+ years ago the opposite was believed.  The full spectrum of similarities and differences can work out potentially.  If you have differences, great!  That could make it interesting for you and they can turn out to be helpful to you in the future.

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Balance Chakras with Affirmations

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The following are affirmations for the main chakras along the body.  Affirmations are statements made in your mind, out loud or written that can help heal and balance you.  Better out loud or written, but still effective if repeated in your mind.  Typically people repeat each affirmation 3 times for intension.  Some have multiple that are effective so I’ve listed them with a 2 or 3.  Some of these came intuitively to me, some came from Reiki class, and others came from Louise Hay.

Feet: “I love to walk on mother earth.”
Feet 2: “It is safe to walk on mother earth.”

Ankle: “I deserve to rejoice in life. I accept all the pleasure life has to offer.”

Knees: “I am Flexible and Flowing”

Root (Safety): “I am safe”
Root 2 (Financial): “I trust the process of life.  All I need is taken care of.  I am Safe.”

Sacral:”I relate to others with ease.”

Solar Plexus: “I stand in my unique power.”

Heart:”I am love.”

Throat:”I express my truth.”

Third Eye:”I see things as they are.”

Crown:”I am connected to, and cared for by the divine in all ways and in all days.”

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Why am I not satisfied with what I have?

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I’ll keep it simple.  First, we are all connected spiritually, energetically.  Second, the most common “want” I hear when people manifest or do vision boards is abundance or money (even over love).  So, you have a whole bunch of people asking for more money, we are affected by the energy and connected, so where is the money going to come from?  You and me.  So we are constantly tugged to buy, buy, buy, consume, consume, consume so the money goes around and fulfills everyone’s want.  Doesn’t matter how much you have, the cycle seems to continue until we learn. 

What do I do?  I ask God to protect me from everyone asking for more abundance and money for the day.  I ask God to fill my emptiness and restore my right mind.  Then end it with please and thank you for intention.  Works great, that emptiness and want feeling just goes away. 

Second I recommend highly to use the affirmation “I appreciate what I have and own” 3 times out loud every day but especially on full and new moon days. Using a visualization with a feeling of contentment is great as well.

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Sexual Fears

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Many of us have had multiple past lives, and often times have been both genders. You don’t have to go too far in the past on earth to see that women were not treated that well in the bedroom or outside of it. Chances are high you probably did not have great sexual experiences in your past lives (or even this one for that matter). On top of that, if you were a woman in a past life you very well could have had a miscarriage or died during childbirth.

So you know you have some fears in that area, what can you do about it?

Sex, childbirth and gender issues (as well as relationship issues) tend to be centered around the sacral charka, or abdominal area. Now if we are talking about death during childbirth or a violation sexually, then that is Root chakra, or safety. The root chakra is best described as the area at the base of your spine. I would recommend healing both of these chakras at the same time for sexual issues.

The color for sacral chakra is orange and coordinates with sunstone, orange calcite, or copper. Moonstone is great on this area as well. The color for root chakra is red. My favorites are red tiger eye, and red jasper (some black stones are excellent as well such as black tourmaline, onyx, and obsidian. Black is usually grounding stones. Steer clear of “magic” stones such as Merlinite and Nummite.).  Red tiger eye is best for sexual issues including arousal.

Ask God to send you healers to best help heal your past life and current life sexual issues. You can be more specific if you’d like or keep it general. If you are not comfortable with talking to God, I recommend asking Archangel Raphael and Jesus or Mary or Buddha. Then meditate with the crystals listed above and/or concentrate on orange and red.

Affirmations:

Affirmations said out loud or written down are extremely useful and quick way to open and heal your chakras. Say or write down three times for intention.

Sacral: “I relate to others with ease” (3x)

Root: “I am safe and protected” (3x)

Lastly, imagine God’s big hand sweeping all sexual energies and entities away from you and storing them in a room far away in space to be sorted out by experts in that area. Imagine God replacing the energy with positive gold or green energy.

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Love Yourself Healing

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I’m sure by now you’ve read in many metaphysical articles to love yourself.  It is a common theme and life lesson for many to learn to love yourself and certainly one you’ll learn if you run into a twin flame or soul mate relationship.  So how does one do this?  For many it is far easier to unconditionally love someone else rather than yourself.  First step is recognizing the reasons why you do not, and then asking for it to be pulled and healed.

Common reasons why you may not (may include more, unique to your situation):

  • Your perception that your parents didn’t love you (for most of us they did, but as we grow older we realize they were under stress/busy/didn’t realize how they were being perceived)
  • Appearance/attractiveness issues – unrealistic expectations by society
  • Rejection by someone in the past, friendship, relationship, crush or family
  • Anger, negative thoughts we have had that we are ashamed of
  • Not achieving something (keeping up with the joneses, career, weight, etc)
  • Some sort of “sin” or breaking the rules
  • Worthiness/deserving

How to heal it:

Get in a relaxed place, ask God to send you Archangel Raphael and an ascended master such as Jesus, Mary, Buddha or someone else on that level you are comfortable with.  You can just go with God as well if you prefer.

List out in your head or on paper why you think you don’t love or approve of yourself.  You may hear something in your mind about how you don’t deserve it or are not worthy.  After you list it out, ask God/Raphael/Jesus to pull these beliefs and fears and heal them in both past lives and current life (you can do this in your head and end with “it is done, it is done, it is done” followed by “and so it is”.  This establishes intention).  I like to do this while I am lying in bed before I go to sleep, which is very relaxing and I go to sleep easily afterwards.

Why do we need to love ourselves?  Well, a lot of what holds us back from being happy is we don’t think we are worthy or deserve, so we don’t go after what we want, or we don’t protect ourselves from others.  I found growing up I would be overly protective of others but when it came to protecting myself I wouldn’t put in much, if any, effort.  Many people are like this, you are not alone.  This is the easiest way I have found to get through this with very little training or effort.  Good luck!

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Information on the Fairy, also Known as Fairies (Faeries)

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I’ve had a few experiences with fairies (faeries) that I can share with you.  I’ve actually seen a few fairies in my life, one with my eyes open and another in a meditative state.  They can be really cool.  Here are a few things I have learned.

  • Having problems with training your pets or getting them to do what you want?  I’ve been told that fairies, divas and elementals can act as their guardians and guides.  Some people can have fairies around them consistently as well (I’ve noticed this with red haired or people with celtic heritage).  If you have trouble training your pet ask their fairies to help with whatever it is.  I would talk to the fairies out loud, or ask your angels to deliver the message if you are in a situation where you can’t.  I have had a lot of success with this and highly recommend it.
  • Lost pet?  Ask their fairies or fairies around you to guide your pet home.  Consistently this has worked for me, and my friends’ pets have guided themselves home, often times my friends will find the pet standing outside their door calling to them.
  • They can help you communicate with your pets (plants, stones, etc).  Just talk to your pet out loud and ask their fairy’s (ies) help with understanding between you.
  • They like it when you talk to them.  Also, they like organic fruits, nuts and home baked goods (as organic as possible).  If you want to thank them present them with a few of these things in a pretty dish and say out loud that this is for them and whatever message you want them to hear, such as thank you for returning my pet, playing with my pet, etc.  I usually light a candle or leave a few small crystals out (usually I do a ring of chakra crystals around a candle).  Any combination of these things (leaves, shells, stones, feathers) and a verbal statement letting them know you did this for them will be appreciated.  After I did this once, I saw my first fairy when I woke up in the middle of the night with my own eyes.  Very cool.
  • They can Heal You.  When I walk outside I ask God to send me any combination of fairies, divas and elementals that are best and highest for me to help me heal or ground to earth, and then ask that God send them something they want in return for helping me out.  I can usually feel them working right after that and feel great after my walk.
  • They can play with your animals.  When I first got my cat I felt bad every time I had to go to work, so I asked before I left that the fairies would play with her when I left.  Shorty there after I would see her chasing a little pink circle the size of an inch around the home.  Made me feel much better.
  • They like it when you do things for animals and the environment.  Picking up trash, cleaning up the neighborhood, and recycling are all easy things to do to show you care.
  • Whenever I ask the fairies, elementals or divas for anything, I go through God first and then ask God to give them something in return for helping me.  It’s kind of like when humans do work, they like to be paid for their time.  Same thing here. Also going through God first allows God to adjust for any energies or entities that are not in your best interest.

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Meditation with…Shells!

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I usually meditate with crystals and stones daily with Buddha and other healers. I like using the chakra sets and I have them in various shapes such as pyramids, double terminated points and angelic shapes to cover my main chakras (I sell them too, see my shop here). I usually meditate before I do readings, using a relaxed lying down posture in bed because it is more comfortable for me. meditation with shells, meditation with shells, meditation with shells
Recently I’ve been thinking about conch shells. I was attracted to them in stores and received the idea to meditate with them. So I picked a few up, held them in my left palm, and asked them “if they were mine”. I usually look for a warming sensation or a thumping to come from crystals, stones, or now, shells to indicate whether our energy works well together. After a few, I found one that felt stronger and bought it.

I continued to receive the idea intuitively to meditate with it so I did last night. I saw clairvoyantly to use it on my heart chakra more than once, so that is where I put it after cleansing it. This morning I noticed a big difference in how my love interest reacted to me and how I responded. After cleansing your shells, try using them for your meditations and use your intuition on which chakra or meridian to use them on for healing. I also assemble my own shell meditation sets, align them with the right chakras and sell them on my shop here.

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Happy shell healing!

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