By Andrea Knight
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Good friends, where are they?

A client came in one day and said she broke it off with her friend, saying it was just too toxic for her. She was tired of the friends who preoccupied her mind during the day and put her in a bad mood. She asked, “Where are all the good friends?”

I asked the guides what they suggested. They said to look around at her current friend list. Who is being supportive, consistently, not afraid to communicate, and like her posts or watch her stories? Who is there for her but is not driving her nuts mentally to the point of emotional exhaustion? Who are not feeling competitive with? They said there are people out there not bringing you down emotionally or mentally, that are supportive, but they are not on your mind all the time so you aren’t thinking of them first.

She thought for a bit and agreed. She did have friends like this, they just didn’t drive her nuts so she wasn’t thinking of them as much. They liked her posts, commented, were caring and supportive, but since they didn’t bother her or make her wonder about their intentions, she didn’t think of them first.

Look at your friend list or think of friends that are there over the years, but don’t really “stir your pot”. Like many of us they are there. Once you start “seeing” these friends and acknowledging them, maybe even say a gratitude, then the universe may bring you more of this type of friend.

Let go of the toxic people in your life today and appreciate what has always been there, quietly supporting you; in essence being the real, ideal friend.

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*Daily Tip notes: Not all advice or tips are a one size fits all. Please note everyone’s situation may be different.