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Book Excerpt: Michelle and Hank

December 31, 2021Book, Soul MatesPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

An excerpt from my new book “Soul Mates and Twin Flames: Euphoria and Enchantment“:

“As I walked through the white Canadian winter land I noticed my feet made a very satisfying crunching sound as they compacted the snow beneath them. It was a beautiful sunny day after the winter storm, even though it was below freezing outside. I went up the stairs to the lodge and took off my hat and gloves on the porch. The porch around the lodge up in the forested mountains had thick logs for main entry columns that must have been about a foot in diameter. I could smell the pine and feel the moisture in the air from fresh snowfall. As I walked in the door to the lodge the smell of fresh pancakes overcame me and with it the smell of hot syrup. I think the smell reminded me of gingerbread but they ended up being cinnamon buttermilk pancakes that day. Starting to get hungry with thoughts of bacon dripping with syrup and fluffy pancake piled on my fork I turned to go to my room. Then I heard my cell phone ding.

The text was from Michelle and she wanted a same day reading. I continued to my room to change for breakfast and answered her back that I could get to her today.

During our reading Michelle told me she was about to lose her mind. I had spoken to Michelle for a couple years and she had a twin flame Hank who was being elusive and difficult. In an effort to bridge the gap between them she had enrolled in a number of energy healing classes in her local area with a different instructor.

“When I try to concentrate on my work thoughts of Hank just pop up and with it feelings of pain, sadness or anxiety. I’m not sure if he is going through something right now because we aren’t talking at the moment but it is definitely him. Can you look into this for me?” Hank was indeed going through something difficult…”

Does she find out what is wrong with Hank? Does she get back with him? Does he realize his feelings and reach out to her? Find out by reading my book, currently available on Amazon ebook, paperback and hardcover are all available.

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Book Excerpt: Mark and Claire

December 22, 2021Book, Soul MatesPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

*An excerpt from my new book “Soul Mates and Twin Flames: Euphoria and Enchantment“:

“Mark was willing to do almost anything to get back together with Claire. He was willing to change the things he did wrong in the past.

Mark continues, “I just know we can work out long term. I already have a picture in my head of us having a family together, a farm, children…I picture warm holidays together. What do I need to do for her to pay attention to me again? I know I can make it work out this time?”

I did see they had a twin flame connection. Losing someone who we feel was the once in a lifetime partner can be hard. It is filled with regret, sadness, and “what if” mental scenarios.

Mark met Claire 2 years ago at a spring state fair. They randomly bumped into each other, and started laughing about it over cotton candy. Mark and Claire walked around the fairground playing the games, finding the hidden Easter eggs, winning the stuffed animals at the booths, and enjoying the rides together. They shared a kiss at the end of the night, and looked into each other’s eyes, knowing they had to see each other after that. They dated for a short time, but all that was a couple years ago. The relationship fell to the wayside a couple years after that, even after that serendipitous meeting.

“I reach out to Claire about every month. She is very attractive, and has been selling jewelry on Etsy, and is active on social media. She has a huge following. But most of the time she ignores my texts. I want to get back together badly, what do I do?” Mark asks.

When reading Claire I saw that…”

Does she get back with him? Does she realize his feelings and reach out to him? Find out by reading my book, currently available on Amazon ebook, paperback and hardcover are all available. Ebook is currently on Sale, for 40% off only today, 12/22/2021!

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*Mark was switched from Hank, and the story rearranged for blog posting by author.

Book Excerpt: Marianne and Cody

December 21, 2021Book, Soul MatesPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

An excerpt from my new book “Soul Mates and Twin Flames: Euphoria and Enchantment“:

“I was walking along the beach in Oceanside during sunset on my vacation and I received a text message from a regular who was stressed out.

“I haven’t heard from Cody for 5 days, what should I do?” the text message said.

It was Marianne again. She and Cody had broken up two months prior. He told her he didn’t have feelings for her and when I read him I received the same. He was being honest with his feelings. However she was feeling anxious and very much wanted the relationship to continue.

She had reached out to him recently and he wasn’t answering.

Cody seemed like a nice guy. Very affectionate and straightforward about his feelings. He didn’t mislead Marianne into thinking he was interested or was “busy”, “it wasn’t the right timing” or anything else that would keep the person hooked and hoping for the future to get better between them. He was up front and honest that his feelings were not on the same page.

However Marianne didn’t let it go and continued to text and call him. Ultimately after a few calls and text readings with Marianne I discovered…”

Does she get back with him? Does he realize his feelings and reach out to her? Find out by reading my book, currently available on Amazon ebook, paperback and hardcover are all available.

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Bisexuality and Homosexuality, A Spiritual Perspective

December 1, 2020Love & Relationships, Soul MatesPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

By Andrea Knight

Most of my clients over the years have been heterosexual women asking about their boyfriends, so my new book on soul mates and twin flames uses that demographic as its main audience. However the info in the book, which would be useful to homosexuals as well, does note I have a blog that discusses homosexuality, so here it is for those interested in the subject.

Bisexuality and Homosexuality

Bisexuality and homosexuality is not a new or recent phenomenon, with literature and entertainment mentioning it as far back as the ancient Greeks. ¹⁴ Homosexual behaviors are observed in birds, big cats as well as the great apes. ¹⁵ There are a number of studies that measure attraction and sexual behavior, mostly through psychology, zoology and anthropology. More than one article mentions that scientists have cataloged more than 1000 species that exhibit homosexual behaviors on earth. ¹⁵

Let’s talk a little about the spiritual perspective. If you’ve lived enough past lives you’ve most likely lived as both genders, meaning you could have been a man in a previous life and a woman in this life. If you remember science and evolution, we started off as single celled organisms and eventually evolved into multicellular organisms with two genders. Simple celled beings clone themselves in a process of asexual reproduction (think cells or yeast copying themselves and splitting into 2). It is very possible life on other planets started off using cloning (asexual reproduction) because of its simplicity, as that is how much of the earth’s organisms started. It is also possible that something else entirely evolved on other planets not isolated to the 2 gender system we have here. The 2 genders that we know of evolved from a 9 step biochemical process determined by genetics.

Since our souls have lived on other planets and are from different areas of the universe, it is entirely possible we learned to love each other separate from any kind of gender and the fear around the sexual act as we see on earth. That may be part of the reason why some of my clients may fall in love or feel a strong connection with someone of the same gender, even admit to themselves that it feels significant as a soul mate connection. We may feel love and attraction based on their soul, their “vibe”, or another attribute other than gender. It would make sense as past life regressions show us to be either gender in past lives and life on other planets may evolve reproduction differently. However, fears of condemnation and lack of knowledge may hold many people back from engaging in a same sex relationship even if they feel this way.

Bisexual taboo

In my experience both in my readings and socially, some bisexuals have admitted to me they don’t like the label and are afraid of calling themselves bisexual, particularly millennials. I’ve met both bisexual women and men, with many starting off in heterosexual relationships exclusively until they decided to engage in same sex or both gender relationships. They have the ability to be loyal to one partner at a time, but they have acknowledged that they can have romantic, sexual or deep feelings for those of both genders. The bisexual taboo really arose in the 1990’s and has resulted in many bisexual people feeling they have to pick a side depending on who they are talking to. If a bisexual is with a crowd of homosexuals they will call themselves gay instead of bisexual, while simultaneously using the label “straight” when among heterosexuals.

I would recommend mediating on it a bit if you find yourself in this situation, see if you are truly interested in exploring your sexuality. If not, note it, understand it as we have had many past lives even on other planets in which sexuality may be different, give yourself a mental hug, and move on with how you want your romantic life to be.

Transitions

Some clients have either awakened to the fact they have been attracted to the same sex all along and were just suppressing it for familial / cultural reasons, or they become attracted to the same sex for the first time in their midlife. In the second scenario, when someone realized they are attracted to someone of the same sex for the first time after decades have passed in their lives, may be a situation where they have met a soul mate where the feeling is so strong it makes them think about things they wouldn’t usually. The first scenario (suppressing their interests for cultural/familial reasons) was quite common in Texas, where women were raised in a certain way before 1997 and moved forward with a heterosexual relationship because they thought they were doing “the right thing”. Usually in their 40’s or 50’s I found a number of women come out after their children were grown up and out of the house, ending their marriages and pursuing what they felt all along with a woman. In one case, a lady’s grown daughter had to tell her mother that she (the mother) was gay. The denial can be so deep that some ignore it and don’t admit it to themselves for much of their lives. After this conversation the mother did admit it and started to date and pursue same sex relationships.

I would observe and listen to these stories happen over and over again and it created a noticeable pattern. Social stigmas and fear keep people from expressing their full sexual selves or what they are attracted to. Since homosexuality is natural and we have past lives as either gender, it is to be expected that even with social stigmas in place that people will have these thoughts and desires anyway. ^{14 15 16}

I also noted that these women that came out later in their lives would have a prejudice against bisexuals. As I was organizing a meetup for a group of women one lady spoke out and said “no bisexuals allowed!” I found this odd since she was married to a man for 20+ years and even had children before dating women herself. What I realized was they saw themselves in these ladies, and were disappointed with themselves for waiting so long to come out. Their distaste for bisexuals was due to their own personal shame and they were projecting their dishonesty to other bisexuals.

There is nothing wrong with bisexuality, you don’t have to “pick a side”, these ladies are having an internal struggle and are triggered by something they dislike in themselves which they perceive as deceit in others. Open bisexuals may be mirroring to them their prolonged closeted selves, missing out on years of potential fulfilling relationships that was better than their marriages.

Someone’s soul can have love for someone that is not based on sexual organs or gender alone. You can unconditionally love someone regardless of gender because you have gotten to know them deeper. You may run into the instance in your life where you find you have a deep connection, maybe even attraction, to a person that is the same gender as you. The recommendation I have is ask God for guidance, if this is something to learn from or explore. If not, and it is just “agape” love or some other deep love, I recommend asking for acceptance and peace around it. Understand that you can feel connected and even attracted to someone regardless of gender. I haven’t personally received anything in readings yet that God, angels or celestial beings send homosexuals or bisexuals to a negative underworld due to their sexual orientation. From my experience it seems that other spiritual beings love heterosexuals, bisexuals, homosexuals, asexuals, and others without orientation being an issue.

Have questions or need to talk to your guides about love, relationships, career or something else? I have psychic readings available as well as energy healing. Also don’t forget to check out my book, “Soul Mates and Twin Flame Relationships: Euphoria and Enchantment” on Amazon!

References

14 Morris, PhD, Bonnie J. “History of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Social Movements.” George Washington University. Washington, D.C. 2009 American Psychological Association https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/history

15 Vincent Savolainen et al. Evolution of Homosexuality, Encyclopedia of Evolutionary Psychological Science (2017). DOI: 10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_3403-1

16 Bawagan, Juanita “Scientists explore the evolution of animal homosexuality.” MAY 2, 2019 Imperial College London Phys.org https://phys.org/news/2019-05-scientists-explore-evolution-animal-homosexuality.html

Heal the 3 R’s and Restore your Positive Feelings

May 13, 2020Healing, Soul Mates3rs, energy healing, heal regrets, heal rejection, heal resentment, regret, regrets, rejection, resentment, self healing, the 3 rsPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

Quick advice for the day. A client was experiencing this energetic, anxious pain in their chest area for a few months that was unusual for them as they usually don’t feel anxiety. Meditation and general asking for it to be healed wasn’t working for them. During the session I was reminded of “healing the 3 R’s”, rejections, resentments and regrets, which I had learned about through Theta Healing. I was shown multiple areas of their life, including career, family, and health. There were a number of events which they may have been carrying the 3 R’s for, so I asked God to pull any rejections, resentments and regrets in these events and replace with positive energy that was best and highest for them. The pain and anxiety went away, and is still gone for them.

I should note that I used to do this when I felt like my feelings for someone had faded or became negative. In the beginning of our relationship with someone we may feel a connection, happy, excited, or other positive loving feelings. Then as events unfold, and things don’t turn out as expected or wanted, rejection, resentment and regrets can build up. What I found is when I healed the 3 R’s between me and the other person my positive feelings came back, I felt love and affection for the person as I once did. Sometimes we want to get back to those positive feelings we’ve had for someone as we did before, this is one of the most effective ways I’ve used to get back to feeling positively about someone again.

I hadn’t done this healing in a while and put a note on my calendar to go over new events that may cause this to resurface even for me. I should also note here that if you are holding anger or resentment in other areas that this may manifest in the kidneys as well so I highly recommend healing them weekly or monthly. These are areas that we don’t always concentrate on during the usual chakra healing, so it is good to come back to them every once and a while.

Lastly I want to add to heal your and the other love interest’s abandonment issues. You may not have done anything extreme to bring up these issues but sometimes we don’t have to do something big to trigger somebody’s abandonment fears. Also, sometimes unbeknownst to you, you may also have abandonment issues but cover them up with what you feel is strength or you protecting yourself. Sometimes when we put these walls up we’re really afraid of being left for one reason or another. I highly recommend healing abandonment both with you and your person of interest even though they may have been small acts on your part that may have made them feel fearful of you abandoning them, thereby raising any walls or making them more guarded than they need to be around you. These can cause rifts as well as hidden negativity that we are not always consciously aware of why they are there. I find healing the 3 R’s and abandonment issues to considerably help in restoring the positive feelings I have for someone else, particularly in relationships.

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Heal the Healers!

March 31, 2020Angels, Healing, Psychic Mediumship, Soul Matesdominion angel, dominion angels, energy healing, energy secrets, fatigued, how to cure fatigue, how to feel better, how to have more energy, metaphysics, throne angel, throne angels, why do i feel fatiguedPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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You meditated, you did affirmations, you even put shields up like you are the starship Enterprise, but you still feel “off”, gunky or fatigued.

Heal the Healers

A couple things can be happening here. Many times when you’ve done all the work you can do by asking for shielding and protection, then you may be missing a piece of the puzzle that I have found. Cleanse and heal your angels, guides and protectors around you, and you in turn feel better.

For me, when I’ve done everything I can do including cleansing my environmental energy, feng shui/chi adjustments, what I am feeling is my guardians, healers and guides! The ones protecting and healing me are usually doing one or two things:

Absorbing it before it comes to me (but I feel them so I still feel it)
Mimicing how another person or the environment feels so I can read them/it.

During a reading for a new blog with a Throne level angel it made more sense as to why. They showed me that sometimes they will continue to “take the burden” and not heal themselves after the process, they just continue to carry the energy around them. As you become more sensitive to the beings and energies around you, you may start feeling the environment and angels as well as other beings around you more. During a Dominion blog reading I realize that sometimes my energies and entities that help with readings mimic the person or environment and I would just tell them to “reverse” and they would go back to feeling at peace.

The Method

What you do is visualize God cleansing and healing your guardians, healers and guides around you, all planes. Think in 3D, there are some right, left, front, back, top and bottom. I visualize them going through a “holy car wash”, with big brushes sweeping through them and bubbles all around to get them spit spot clean! If some are especially bad they may be low on energy so what I will do is imagine them switching out like you would switch out players in a soccer game. A new one would come down and they would go up into the white light to be cleansed, re-energized and to rest. Lastly, imagine their chakras healed and aligned just as you may do for yourself.

If some are difficult to clean I then visualize zooming out at a high level, until they are small and I visualize God transforming all of them into brilliant white light. Visualizing the problem “small” takes away some of the beliefs and doubts that this is hard and detailed work. It reinforces that this is easy for God to do as He controls so much more than one spirit. Visualize them getting a healing every once and a while, particularly if you are feeling “gunky”.

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How to Cut Cords (Revised)

March 3, 2020Healing, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingcord cutting, cut cords, divorce, energetic anxiety, energetic divorce, how to cut cords, separation, soul mate separation, Twin flame separationPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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Do you feel like you can’t get over someone even though they may not be good for you? Do you feel like every time you try to move on you feel like you can’t?

You may have spiritual cords connected to your ex lover, ex husband, or even ex friends. If you are trying to separate yourself and feel like you can’t, or someone else’s emotions are affecting you at seemingly random moments of the day, I recommend cord cutting as one step in a process of restoring your energy back to peace.

I should note that cord-cutting does not sever any potential for a relationship with this person in the future. Rather, it helps to restore peace between you and the other person and I find it feels very grounding as well. It helps remove some of the anxiety you may be experiencing concerning the person. Some strange things may happen as well including they may contact you, post on social media something that reminds them of you, think of you or something else after the cord cutting ceremony. You may even see angelic signs or messages concerning them after that for a period of time. Depending on where your relationship is and what you intend to do in the future you can either dismiss these or note them when they happen.

If this is a twin flame or soulmate connection that you’re trying to disconnect yourself from because the emotions have become too extreme this may be only one step in the process. Depending on what you want to do with the relationship there may be more steps as cord cutting alone I have found not to be enough to completely move on however it is a good step to take regardless. I have found some twin flame (& some soulmate) energies may come back to you even stronger than it was before as it does not want to separate. I should note briefly, as each situation is different, that this is not always a sign that you have to have a relationship in this life with that person. If the relationship was not working it just means the soul does not want to separate at this time, not that the physical person you are trying to have a relationship with will turn around their behavior. If you want further information on your particular situation I recommend going to the toolbar at the top of this page and looking under my psychic readings section for the right reading for you to talk to your angels and guides for guidance on your particular relationship.

Cord cutting method:

Imagine yourself in a white light. Thank your archangels and God for being there out loud. Say out loud “I command cords be removed between [name or other person] and myself. Please and thank you.” Visualize an Archangel like Michael or Raphael remove the chords one by one from your crown chakra all the way down to your root chakra. Imagine an archangel removing chords you have stuck to the other person from their chakras from the crown down to the root. Imagine archangels putting these cords in a bucket and setting them on fire until they are ash and blow away. If there’s anything else left in the bucket imagine a white flame burning that, even if it’s hard for it to burn away, until it disappears. Lastly, imagine the Archangel replacing the area where the cords were severed with Divine Light. Thank your angels and God for being here and imagine yourself grounding back into Earth.

Top 5 Items to Watch Out for After Becoming a Reiki Practitioner or Energy Healer

November 13, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Nature spirits and Elementals, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healing, weight lossabundance, chi, crystal healing, downward spiral, energy healer, energy healing, feng shui, grounding, hopeless, how to ground, improve love life, life falling apart, life spiraling, metaphysical, metaphysical crystals, prana, psychic medium, psychic reading, reiki, Reiki master, reiki practioner, the secret, theta healingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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After finishing Reiki you become more sensitive to energy, Chi. I’ve found over the years that those who enter into metaphysical studies may go through a number of trials, although not the same for all, including losing their job, losing their friends, having their love life turn upside down and separating from family. Here are a few tips to add to your items to watch out for and maintain in order for your life to go more smoothly.

1. Feng Shui. Follow this link to go into my blog specifically on this subject for more detail. As you become sensitive to others’ energies you’ll start to notice the energy of your home as well. As good feng shui can benefit you, inauspicious (negative) energy may not. I recommend looking around the home and check the elements (water, metal, fire, wood) you have in each of your corners and sides. I’ve heard of some clients even having tragedies happen to their family members after moving to a new home with inauspicious energy. Good feng shui can bring positive things to you automatically so it is something good to look after for that reason as well. I can also remotely scan your home and tell you of any problem areas you may have. Schedule a reading with me and we can discuss further.

2. Turn off feeling the 2nd and 3rd Plane of Existence for a while. 1st plane is crystals, rocks, soil and other inorganic materials on earth. 2nd plane consists of plants, nature spirits and elementals. 3rd plane is humans and animals. Crystals, shells and other earth, water, fire and air nature spirits work very well in the healing process. However not everything in these planes (plants, animals, humans) are happy or healthy. You might want to turn off feeling these planes after meditation or healing. Need further instruction on how to do this? Schedule a reading with me here, email, text and over the phone readings are available.

3. Clairsentient Maintenance. As you scan, absorb, heal and read others you need to cleanse your energies and return your own back to you. Here is my detailed blog on how to do this.

4. Ask to stop absorbing energies from others. This was revealed to me after a reading and a healing. Ask Archangel Raphael to come to you and have you stop absorbing the energies of others. You may feel the healing around your mid back around the heart and solar plexus. Be calm and allow the healing to continue until you feel it is done.

5. Ground. Can’t emphasize this enough. Think of grounding as washing off your spiritual windshield. When you cleanse the energies of others off of it, you can see clearer and feel more like yourself and less like others. When you are out of healing, meditations, and readings, be sure to do a proper and thorough grounding. This will protect you from weight gain, mania and lack of focus (brain fog). It could save your job and your life path. Follow this link to my grounding article.

Attracting the Wrong Men? Bad Patterns in Your Life? Law of Attraction Healing, Jacob’s Method

August 15, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, Soul Mates, theta healingattracting wrong men, attracting wrong partner, attracting wrong woman, diet, dieting, fear, gaining weight, how to not be so afraid, law of attraction, law of attraction not working, loa, lonely, lose weight, no love, no love life, removing fears, weight gain, weight loss, weight loss solution, yo yo dietingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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A new healing technique was revealed to me through meditation a week ago that has profoundly affected how I feel and think so I wanted to pass this along.law of attraction not working,law of attraction not working,law of attraction not working
In my readings Law of Attraction has popped up as one reason why some of my clients are having similar patterns in their weight, love life and other undesirable “one step forward, two steps back” patterns. The other being beliefs and fears, which actually is intertwined with this idea because beliefs may affect how you react, see or “feel” about the situation.

Law of Attraction and Karma Concepts

When I talk about Law of Attraction what I mean is when we put thought, feeling, action and words towards an idea. The feelings, thoughts and words can the attached to something we do want in our life but also something that may be unfavorable.

Recently when watching a Hindu guru talk about Karma he said that culture has twisted the term a bit into meaning revenge against another when basically it just means “action“. During my readings clients will ask me if those that hurt them will receive something negative in return, essentially if “karma will get them back”, and often times from angels and above I receive a no response. The reasoning is usually (to sum up generally) because there are various perspectives in each situation and the reasons why we do things that can be varied (energy, lessons, feelings, reacting to beliefs).

I do believe that we have spiritual aids on certain levels that protect us from ourselves and neutralize some of this but some of the patterns are still left behind so that we can notice them. This can bring us to a spiritual awakening or to give us hints on what we still need to heal.

Weight Pattern Healing (Yo-Yo dieting)

When I was healing one of my clients I received the thoughts and feelings they were putting towards losing weight since their pre-teens. Have you ever looked at a photo years back when you were thinner and remembered at that time the picture was taken you were unhappy with your body weight, but now you would kill to look that thin again? My client focused on their thighs as early as pre-teens, judging the size and look of them, feeling emotions of disappointment, grief, frustration and sadness. Over the years she may experienced energy and thoughts around feeling or looking fat, even though she may have looked better back then than she does now. Essentially my client had been putting thoughts and feelings out there such as “My thighs are big” “I’m fat”, “I’m ugly”, “My thighs are fat”, “My butt is too big”, and so on.

The energy and belief that “my thighs are too big” were repeated in her mind over and over again, even when they were thinner, with a feeling of disappointment since her pre-teens. Imagine that as a cloud of energy getting bigger and bigger over time as she continued to feel it and think it, even mention it to her friends. Then imagine energetic forces to “make beliefs come true” affecting how you feel or think, such as “I’m on a diet but really need chocolate cake right now”. Over time these feelings, thoughts and actions create a “cloud of energy” affecting how she felt, thought, acted and what she attracted, creating undesirable patterns. What psychologists recommend is creating habits, but if you’ve been down that path you have “to be good” and stick to the plan for weeks, resisting strong forces telling you to do otherwise. With this healing I noticed results with some patterns in less than 24 hours, a big difference and relief. Less resistance mentally and emotionally to do the things you really want to just because you made choices in the past before you knew about the power of action.

The Jacob LOA Healing Method

When I meditated, a celestial healer by the name of Jacob appeared to me, and gathered the cloud of energy created from undesirable patterns. He put that energy into a bucket, transforming it into a green energy. This essentially heals it or neutralizes it. Then this is replaced with positive beliefs such as “My thighs are thin”, “I am thin”, “I am happy thin”, “I have a healthy body”. Combined with the feelings of happiness or contentment, these were written as sentences.

Imagine those sentences being written once, then repeated until it forms a square (see attached illustration at top), then repeated over again behind that square until a cube is formed. Then imagine the cube being repeated until it is a square of cubes, then the square of cubes repeated behind itself creating a cube of cubes, filling the energy that was once the cloud of black energy. This was the visual representation showed to me as how to replace the negative feelings, actions and thoughts with something more positive. This cube of cubes of positive energy was then put into another bucket, turned green with fireworks exploding from the bucket, lighting up the sky. The healing is done when the fireworks stop. Don’t forget to ground when you are done!

I did some of this healing on myself for different areas of my life and noticed a positive difference within 24 hours for some patterns. Some example topics that I may have worked on with clients:

Suppressing happiness feelings or feelings of Joy to fit in or please others
Putting too much thought, energy, love into unrequited love
Running away from those interested in me but I’m not interested in (always a mismatch)
Dreading working, career, negative beliefs around career
Negative feelings towards coworkers, bosses, friends, family, etc
Disappointment in relationships, emotions around when romantic interests are disappointing, endings in relationships
Relationship fears (disease, death, loss of power, no respect, conflict, communication)
Waking up with enthusiasm instead of dread, not wanting to leave bed
Choosing healthy foods instead of sugar, unhealthy carbs (actions), replace with being happy with healthy foods and being thinner (this works!!!!)
Stacked up energy from the thoughts and words of others that I couldn’t do what I wanted (lose weight, be successful, make money)
Fear around the paranormal, reacting out of fear
Feelings around weight yo-yoing, size and look of different body parts
Caring about what someone thinks and doing what I think they’d want (starts with parents)
Using food or drink to celebrate or reward

We may react to instances in our life for various reasons, biological, mental, past lives or social. That doesn’t mean we are stuck with these negative patterns for the rest of our lives, there is a way to transform the energy just as it can be created. This is an awesome healing that works.

This is an original healing method, so please be respectful and reference the author and article when sharing with friends or clients.

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Energy Healer Paradox: Healers Attracting the Wrong Friends and Romantic Partners

July 8, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Past lives, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingbuddha, energy grounding, energy healing, energy vampires, fatigue, fatigued, grounding, healer, how to feel better, Jesus, law of attraction, love and relationships, love reading, making my life better, peace, psychic medium, psychic mediumship reading, psychic reading, reiki, relationship reading, theta healingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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By Andrea Knight

Have you noticed since your spiritual awakening and healing path you continue to have relationships with those who drag you down or need healing? Do you just want a relationship with someone that has their “stuff” together and not in need? Do you feel fatigued and drained?

I’ve been energy healing for years, and much of my readings/healing are about relationships. I found the same pattern occurring in my life where those I would date or court me would be people that would either show me things I needed to heal or need healing themselves. I knew there were people out there in better places in their lives and after so much healing over many years I knew I should be attracting someone great that didn’t drag me down.

During a reading for a client the answer was revealed to me by the angels. We put so much action, thought, feeling and energy into healing, we were attracting more healing, either of ourselves or others. Remember, Law of Attraction. So essentially I and this other healer that was a client were attracting more people who could show us what we needed to heal or people who we could heal.

Healers: time to take back your life. You want the life you were healing for, not to be constantly healing. Don’t get me wrong, it is good to heal yourself and others. Realize that if you get into the position of continually healing your life you are putting energy into “my relationships aren’t good enough”, “my life needs healing”, “I need to heal my life to feel better”, “my life isn’t good enough yet so I need to heal it”, “I’m not good enough” or “my life isn’t good enough yet”.

Solutions / Alternative actions:

Ask the Creator of All that is to cancel, clear, delete the energy you’ve put into healing your friends, family and romantic partners, and replace it with energy of those coming into your life (or already in it) that are stable, good people that you don’t need to constantly “fix”. This shouldn’t affect your business as you are only healing those in your personal life. I visualized this as a cloud of black/brown energy, Creator removing it, transforming it into a little green cloud. Visualize those that are stable and not needing major improvement coming to you now. You’ve put so much thought into what is not right, time to put on the brakes and go in a better direction. When I type this I see a car going down a dusty, rough, long road into grey energy, and turning 90 degrees onto a road with a bright horizon and beautiful colors. If you continue to heal do the above steps again every once and awhile to correct your course.
Take a break from healing for a while. Let the dust settle and enjoy the benefits. Tell yourself you are good enough now. Do some grounding. Notice the positive changes and concentrate on them. Do lists or meditations on what is going right in your life, not into what needs to improve. You may be constantly looking at things that need to be healed or improved and your energies are constantly “on” looking for opportunity areas.
Read my article on Empathy and Clairsentient maintenance to remove the energies of others and feel like yourself.

New healer’s tip: I’ve noticed lately with big projects where you are healing something with a large surface area it is helpful to “zoom out”, perceive this “problem” as small, then it is easier for the energy to transform because you’ve gotten around the belief that this issue is too big, but rather it is small. Then zoom back in on the energy and see the energy transformed but at a faster pace because you perceived it as small. Think of how big the universe is, and then mentally realize that this issue, or opportunity area, is actually quite small for God to heal. This will help with any negative belief systems you may have.

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Empathy Modes, Dealing with your Clairsentience

July 7, 2019Healing, Psychic Mediumship, Soul Mates, theta healingbrain fog, clairsentience, empathic, empathy, energy healing, Psychic Mediumship, psychic mediumship readings, psychic readings, reiki, Reiki master, spiritually awakened, theta healingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

As a clairsentient, or empath as some like to refer to it, you may feel a lot of energy from people, places and even inorganic material. Not all of it is important for us to interpret and can become overwhelming. One concept that is important to keep in mind is that our energy may pick up some of this energy it is feeling and bring it with you, or it may leave parts of itself behind. Before you know it you are feeling people and places you have left hours ago! That is why it is important to do some empathic energy maintenance.

Empathic energy maintenance

First return everyone’s energy back to them and your energy back to yourself. Imagine God removing all energies and entities you’ve picked up or absorbed around the world. Friends, family, soul mates, places and clients. Imagine God releasing them back to where they came from. Now imagine every where your energy may have gone as well, including those you may have read, healed, thought about, even energy in stores you may have stopped by that day. Imagine God’s hand above the Earth vacuuming that energy up transforming it green to heal it and then returning it back to you in healed form. End with “please and thank you God.”

Grounding, Our Ally Against Brain Fog

When I first started my metaphysical journey no one really emphasized grounding enough. The higher chakras were the rock stars that received a lot of attention as everyone was looking to receive higher guidance from the divine. I found that my life had shifted a lot after my energy healing certifications, and preferring stability, I looked for an answer to keep my abilities but also regain some mental clarity. clairsentience

Here are some common symptoms of being ungrounded:

Loss of focus
Feeling less intelligent
Swift changing moods
Hunger that can’t be satisfied
Feeling more drained or fatigued than you’ve ever felt
Anxieties that are not explainable
Feeling everything and everyone around you
Headaches or migranes

I will talk a lot about grounding as I went through a difficult time without it, and because my clients still struggle with this concept. When we are not grounded we kind of float up into this stream of energy connecting us and capture, absorb, and interpret this data. Some of it we can take down with us. When we ground, we are returning that back to earth or leaving it up in the stream. Therefore, when grounded we are interpreting and receiving much less information and can think more clearly. We can also regain a sense of individuality, and instead of experiencing everyone else’s fear, emotions and cravings, we can just feel like “us” again. With all of that we regain mental clarity and peace.

The main reasons why clients struggle with grounding include:

Fear of loss: Many of them are looking for love, and want to be “present” for any guidance they may receive on their love interest. I remind them that they will still receive guidance intuitively, when you are grounded your angels don’t leave you and can still deliver guidance. I even receive clairaudient and clairvoyant messages while grounded. They are also afraid they will lose their “powers” if they ground and go back to being metaphysically asleep. Not true. I ground after readings, and if anything readings can be clearer as grounding removes the other clients’ energies from me.
Fear of the underworld: Many years ago, the underworld was supposedly in the ground, deep in the earth. This fear is most likely subconscious in your life now, but needs to be removed. I recommend theta healing or any subconscious healing modality.
Fear of being unaware: They are afraid they won’t “feel” people as much and therefore not know when they are in danger. You will still have your intuition, ask God and angels to intuitively guide you so you can have peace and cleansing by being grounded. From personal experience, feeling less can be a relief for a time.

Do this when you get up in the morning and whenever you feel you are getting less grounded again. Grounding does not reverse your progress on your metaphysical abilities, think of it as you are washing them off in a waterfall, washing away the psychic “dirt” and when you come up again you can see clearer. If you have other problems with grounding, ask archangels Raphael and Uriel to heal them on all levels before you go to bed for a few nights until you notice a difference.

Method:

First return everyone’s energy back to them and your energy back to yourself as noted at the beginning of the article. This will help with grounding.

Close your eyes and visualize black cords from your feet extend down until they meet the core of the earth, with mother earth grabbing them and securing them into the core. I usually ask for this connection to core for 24 hours. Visualize the rest of your body turn into the branches and the leaves, extending into your energy field and your energy field turning a dark green as well as the rest of your body. Visualize air blowing away any energetic debris, then a waterfall wash over you to toss energies to the ground where they become soaked into the earth. Lastly visualize green fire surrounding you and your energy field, dissolving any negative energy or energies that no longer serve you. Using this process you will have used all 4 elements. Sometimes I’ll take an actual shower, light candles asking for grounding, open windows for air to blow in and put black stones in my pockets for additional intention.

You should feel your feet become heavier, like putting on heavier boots and they should stay that way for the length of the time you ask. The other thing you can do is ask God to turn down your clairsentience to a level that’s more comfortable for you for that same amount of time so you’re not feeling the electronics, the people, and the energy around you which is really too much information. I watch a hand turn a knob all the way to the left until it clicks, meaning the clairsentience is turned down low or off depending on what you want. Remember you have your intuition and really that is what you want to use when you are out and about as it is less confusing. Intuition is a “knowing” of what you want to do without having to hear or see spiritually.

The other thing I recommend is to go into what I call “Modes”. These are essentially different grounding methods depending on the situation you’re about to enter or be in. Ask God to put you in these modes before you engage in each of these activities.

Reading Mode – After I’m done with a reading as well as when I wake up in the morning I ask God to take me out of reading mode. This makes me less sensitive to the energies around me that I don’t really need to be feeling and helps you feel more grounded and safe. I also find that you’re automatically put into reading mode once you ask God to help you do a reading. I don’t feel like you have to ask to be put into reading mode but I do ask to be taken out of it in the best highest way for me. End with please and thank you for intention. I will often see a door close and be locked with the word “readings” on it along with a time amount that I want to be out of reading mode such as 8 hours.

Travel mode – For any of you in the metaphysical fields that can feel the EMF, static electricity, and radiation around you, planes, cars and airports are not always fun. However, I was told to ask to be put into travel mode before I go on my trip. When I did this I became even more grounded then when I ask to be taken out of reading mode. I can also focus more and have more mental clarity. This is essentially “super grounded” you so you’re not feeling everybody’s “stuff” and not as fearful.

Work mode – If you have found after your spiritual awakening you can’t focus at work and you feel more fatigued this is because you’re feeling the energy from electronics, the people around you and their thoughts as well as the environment. You don’t need all of this information. I would highly recommend asking God to put you in some sort of “work mode” as I would call it, so you can focus more at work and have more mental clarity. Sometimes your coworker’s energy may be negative for reasons that have nothing to do with work and may have to do with their personal life so it’s not always useful information.

You will still have your intuition in any of these modes. Don’t forget to use affirmations on intelligence and mental clarity for an additional boost in these areas.

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The Good Ones Aren’t All Taken

May 3, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, Soul Mates, theta healingcreator of all that is, God, love, psychic, psychic medium, relationship, relationship advice, theta healing, unavailable men, why are all the good ones takenPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

I was wandering the library looking for something new to read and I found this book with the little chocolate truffle in the front and I thought it looked delicious so I brought it home. I finished this book in about 2 days. The Good Ones Aren’t All Taken,The Good Ones Aren’t All Taken
It describes several personality types and psychological problems that may commonly occur with women that prevents them from having a long-lasting relationship. The author describes these personality types as the following:

+ The Old Faithful – if you stay attached to an ex for an unusually long time comparative to others around you, if you’re feeling like you missed out on your “one true” chance for love, or have beliefs in “The One”

+ The Whirlwind Dater – this is someone who dates a lot but has not settled on one man for a long period of time, this is also someone who has a hard time relaxing

+ The Standstill – this person rarely if ever dates, this can be common with those that are still a virgin or have only had sex a handful of times or less. This person is afraid of anyone finding out how little they have dated or have been intimate and often get embarrassed when someone asks them when was their last date and how often they’ve dated.

+ The Forbidden Fruit Hunter – this person is continually attracted to those that are unavailable or married, they may reject nice guys who show interest that are available, they may come from a single-parent home or has strong emotional connections with their family

+ The Compassionate Rescuer – this person has a hard time saying no to people, they feel like they have to rescue someone or is habitually with someone that they feel needs them, they continually try to stay flexible in order to please others, they give more then they receive in relationships, they are often condescended to or controlled by family or partners

+ The Wanderer – this woman is the life of the party, can make friends very easily but has a hard time staying faithful and hops from one relationship to another, they can get anxious if they’re not in a relationship and like to indulge in things that are pleasurable or celebratory

+ The Uptown Girl – she enjoys compliments and dresses or looks the part so she can get a lot of compliments. They look for men that either have money, status or power.

+ The Runaway Bride – very similar to the movie, this person is somebody that really doesn’t know themselves and doesn’t stay in a relationship very long, they commonly bolt when the relationship gets too serious

The book mainly outlines some common psychological issues that prevent you from seeing the situation as it truly is. One of which that she talks about is subconscious beliefs that are sabotaging you. If you find yourself in a situation after a date or when someone finds you attractive that you start having a lot of negative thoughts then you may need to work on your subconscious beliefs. I recommend using Theta healing which I do provide on my website which has turned much of my life around towards the positive as well as my thinking. Theta can affect Law of Attraction and the type of people that you draw to you as well as how they treat you when they are in your life. It can affect those that are already in your life as well and how they treat you but in a different more positive way. You can find my Theta healing offerings here. Theta healing works on current life, past life, and other soul level beliefs, removing the negative beliefs and replacing it with positive which in turn affects how people see you, how you think and what you attract to you.

Two other of the more common issues that she discusses is the signs that you may have intimacy issues because you are trying to fit in a man’s world so you act professionally when you should act more sexual or feminine to a love interest. Essentially you have not learned how to be feminine, open or sexy and are uncomfortable in that role.

The other common issue she describes is feeling overly responsible for your parents’ happiness, usually one parent over the other. You’ve taken on a role that subconsciously and consciously you will have a hard time separating yourself from. You may enter into a relationship and start wondering, “but who’s going to take care of Mom?”

This is just a quick summary of the book, there are other issues and solutions provided. I highly recommend you get the book from your local library or Amazon to see which of these personality types best describes you. You may be a combination of all the above. Once you’ve figured out your patterns that will give you a launching point to then find the healing modality that best works for you to turn your life and thinking around.

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Why We Want Those Who We Are Not With and What To Do About It

April 27, 2019Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingalone, attachment theory, boyfriend contact, breadcrumbing, die alone, divorce, facebook, he's just not that into you, lonely, love, love and relationships, love story, mediumship, mediumship reading, men are from mars, psychic reading, psychology, relationships, soul connection, Soul Mates, twin flames, why do I want what I can't have, why men act this way, women are from venusPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

There are a few psychological and metaphysical reasons why you may be interested in somebody who is either not interested in you or that treats you poorly.

1. You are connecting to their soul energy, you’ve pierced through their outer layers and have gotten to a spiritual side of them that contains unconditional love. As you try to concentrate on other things, thoughts of them pop up in your mind because your energies are communicating. The problem is if on a physical level they are not as aware of this as you are, and are not interested in you in that way, they may not treat you very well or really contact you much at all. This leads me to the psychological problems that can lead to feeling “stuck” on a person.

2. When someone is busy or doesn’t take much interest in us we think that they’re more special or have more value. When someone is busy sometimes we interpret that as they’re more important, that they have more friends, and are more popular than us. We put them on a pedestal thinking they are more rare and harder to get, increasing their “scarcity“, and therefore boosting their value in our mind. This is also why someone who “breadcrumbs” you, in other words only contacts you every once in awhile, can get you addicted to them as well.

3. If you have a pattern of wanting people that are either taken or hard to actually be with in a relationship you may have a fear of your relationships failing. In other words you put yourself in a position where you never actually get together with the person so it can never really fail, thereby avoiding heartbreak, humiliation, social judgement from friends and family. You may have to face the beliefs as to why you don’t actually want to be in a real relationship due to fears of it failing. For this I recommend theta healing, which works on fears and beliefs on a subconscious level, which I can provide over distance on my website here.

4. You get more of a rush mentally with dopamine when you have a roller coaster ride relationship than with a steady one. If you fantasize or are around that person for a shorter period of time you get that jolt of dopamine and then you leave them it allows you to reset so when you come back to them you get that jolt of dopamine again. To stay with them for a longer period of time where it is consistently good doesn’t give you that rush of dopamine after a period of absence.

5. Something feels unresolved or incomplete after you’ve been chasing them for a while? Maybe it feels unbalanced and you want it to feel equal. If you look up the reciprocity principal as I learned in Marketing, people feel obligated to return a favor. In this case you may have given this person a lot of attention, a lot of energetic love, and a lot of your mental time. Your brain wants something back in other words you want reciprocity. The unfortunate instance here is that you just may not get it back. What I recommend is a grief healing to get you to acceptance which I can also provide through my energy healing services on my website.

6. Possession. You feel like they are “yours”. What I receive in readings is a feeling like this person that is not their current partner (an interest, an ex) is “theirs” or belongs to them in some way and they don’t want them to move on or be with another. A lot of psychological articles will discuss a feeling of what they call “possession” of those you love. Much of this comes from the beliefs of “the one”, scarcity and insecurity. It can cause clients to feel jealous when their love interest is with another woman/man even though they do not have exclusivity with their love interest. In some cases the love interest may not even know my client very well yet and very little communication has been exchanged, yet my client can still feel like their love interest is “theirs”. Break free and realize we have more than one soul mate, many past lives and can feel a connection even with someone new. Ask God to heal your feelings of scarcity and “the one” in the best and highest way for you.

Recommendations:

1. Compartmentalize – this is a coping mechanism that helps you to focus on things like work and other areas of your life while shelving your romantic life for a while. It helps you not lose your life while you are thinking about or feeling stuck on another person.
2. Watch something that puts you in a better mood – for me this is YouTube videos on comedy, interviews with mentors or animals. Get out of depression and feeling spent or empty from giving them so much love and attention and receiving little back.
3. Date other people – know you’re worth it and receive some of those compliments you are giving to someone else.
4. Work on yourself – psychologically and metaphysically, change how you see the situation. Someone treating you like crud should not be attractive and shouldn’t pull you towards them, instead know intellectually why this is happening to you by reading articles like this or books so when you encounter it you can change the situation and bring someone to you that treats you better. Go to my website, I provide theta healing which work on the fears and beliefs that sabotage you.

Soul Mates and the Stages of Grief

December 28, 2018Healing, Love & Relationships, Past lives, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingboyfriend, boyfriend rejected, clairaudience, clairvoyance, depression, energy healing, girlfriend rejected, grief, how to deal with rejection, how to influence people, how to make friends, influence people, loss, love, love and relationships, Love spells, Magic, make friends, mediumship, psychic, psychic medium, psychic reading, reiki, rejection, sin, sinful, stages of depression, stages of grief, the like buttonPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

By Andrea Knight

Sometimes a rejection from those we are interested in can lead to us entering the grief cycle. Many of my clients have been rejected by those they feel are either their soulmates or twin flames. I’ve noticed that many people go through the stages of grief when they are rejected by someone they are attracted to, interested in or in love with. The problem is I don’t think they recognize that are going through the stages, instead they’re just feeling they’re emotions and reacting to them.

The denial stage is obvious. It’s essentially when you’re in denial and you can’t believe what just happened to you. Sometimes there’s a shock stage before denial but the denial stage is very real. It prevents you from seeing what is really happening, often times our ego wall might come up and we won’t see from the other person’s perspective. Next comes anger which is usually from being in a place of the ego reacting to getting rejected and trying to make up another story (they have issues, it is their fault, something is wrong with them) as well as lashing out at whoever rejected you. This can be in varying degrees, some people may not get that angry and instead get sad (low self esteem) and some people might start thinking about revenge. Bargaining comes around when someone often thinks that this is the only one they have a chance to be with or they’re not going to find someone else that they have a strong feelings for, which is not true, we have multiple soul mates. This can be a very embarrassing, uncomfortable stage that I don’t wish on anyone. They may turn to God or psychics for extreme solutions that they may feel embarrassed about later or when they realize what they asked for or tried to do. During this stage I will often put them in their love-interest shoes. I ask them how would you like it if somebody tried to force you to love them using God or spirits if you were not initially interested? They all calm down at that point and answer that they wouldn’t like it very much. It is an eye opener.

Then I usually share with them a more realistic solution. There’s some excellent books out there such as “The Like Button” that tells you how to gradually get somebody to be more comfortable in your presence or be curious about you. A lot of times this is just being around them, being in the same room, not necessarily always talking to them. A great way to explain this is to use the example of a deer and a bunny in a prairie. When the bunny first enters the prairie the deer might get spooked and run off. Overtime the bunny continues to enter the prairie but stays at a distance, not threatening the deer. This lets the deer know that the bunny is not dangerous because over time the bunny is not actually doing anything harmful. Slowly, the bunny can get closer without spooking the deer. I highly recommend “The Like Button” as well as Dale Carnegie’s “How to Make Friends and Influence People”. Some people may get spooked when you first show that you’re interested in them but it is possible to come back in a less scary manner and over time they can become curious about you, and more comfortable around you. You may become friends or you may become something more, this may just depend on a number of variables on both sides.

If you feel like you’re going through any of these stages of grief I highly recommend that you go through a healing process where you can get to the acceptance stage. I usually call an ascended Master such as Jesus, Mary, or Buddha as well as Archangel Artiya’il while laying down on my bed and ask them to help me get to the acceptance stage with whatever I’m struggling with at that time. Wait and feel much of the healing at the bottom of your lungs to clear before returning to your day. When the soreness or feeling in your lungs dissipate the healing is done. This can help push you past the stages of bargaining, anger and depression and into a more peaceful place. When you get to this peaceful place you no longer feel this urge or anguish over wanting to change the situation at any means possible. The sadness and depression go away. Then you’re more open to other options and no longer have that heart block that prevents you from seeing them or considering them.

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Grounding, Basics

June 1, 2018Healing, Nature spirits and Elementals, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingelementals, ground energy, grounding, mother earth, nature Spirits, psychic medium AndreaPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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One common side effect of being ungrounded is a lack of mental clarity, where it is hard to concentrate and focus as you used to (light headedness). Here are some common symptoms of being ungrounded:

-Loss of focus

-Feeling less intelligent

-Swift changing moods

-Hunger that can’t be satisfied

-Feeling more drained or fatigued than you’ve ever felt

-Anxieties that are not explainable

-Feeling everything and everyone around you

I talk a lot about grounding, and I’ve included additional methods and modes in the past, but I haven’t done a basic grounding blog as I figured it has been covered quite a bit on the internet. However, it has come up multiple times this past week so I decided to get it done. There are many YouTube meditations on this as well.

Do this when you get up in the morning and whenever you feel you are getting less grounded again. Grounding does not negatively affect your metaphysical abilities, think of it as you are washing them off in a waterfall, washing away the psychic “dirt” and when you come up again you can see clearer. Hopefully that helps some of you with your fears of grounding. If you have other fears of grounding, ask your archangels to heal them on all levels before you go to bed for the next 7 nights.

Method:

First imagine God sweeping away all the energies from the environments, family, friends, strangers that you may have absorbed and sprinkling them back towards where they came from. Then imagine any energy that you’ve left behind in the environment and with other people, including those you think a lot about like soulmates, coming back to you in a transmuted positive form, commonly seen in green.

Close your eyes and visualize black cords from the core of the earth extend up until they hook on to your feet, hips and end of your spine. I usually ask for this connection to core for 24 hours and wait for mother earth to acknowledge with a check mark clairvoyantly. Visualize the rest of your body turn into the branches and the leaves, extending into your energy field and your energy field turning a dark green as well as the rest of your body. Visualize air blowing away any energetic debris, then a waterfall wash over you to toss energies to the ground where they become soaked into the earth. Lastly visualize green fire surrounding you and your energy field, dissolving any negative energy or energies that no longer serve you. Using this process you will have used all 4 elements.

Imagine antennae that extend from the crown of your head open to a river of energy above you, representing the energy of others, their thoughts another spiritual information. Imagine those antennae retracting down back into your head. Imagine your energy fields and other cords that extend outside of your protective “front line” to retract into and behind your “front line” protectors. Ask them to stay there for a period of time such as 24 hours, etc.

Lastly if you’ve been doing a lot of spiritual work I highly recommend visualizing God turning down a nobb like you’re turning down the volume of something until you feel your energy become more grounded and less high vibrational. This will help bring you peace as well.

Sometimes after a very ungrounding reading I’ll take an actual shower, and light candles asking for grounding, open windows for air to blow in and put black stones in my pockets for additional intention. You should feel your feet become heavier, like putting on heavier boots and they should stay that way for the length of the time you ask. Lastly, visualize any portals open in your home closing (or around you if outside the home). I usually see a field of energy sweep through the home, closing any portals as it scans through like a copy machine.

You can also visualize your home grounding its energy as well. I usually see a forest in the home, with a stream of water in the middle, campfire, lightning bugs in the air, air blowing through the forest rustling the leaves. This way you are incorporating all 4 elements in your grounding visualization.

There are other guided meditations for grounding online but they do take rather a long period of time. In the morning I usually like to get going, so you can do this in the shower or in bed. Also, if you are clairsentient, check out my blog on how to maintain your energies so you can clear more of what no longer serves you.

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When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Tell You How He Feels

May 13, 2018Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingattachment theory, boyfriend, buddhism, closed off, emotionally unavailable, emotionally unavailable men, heal your life, love, love and relationships, mediumship, mediumship reading, psychic reading, psychology, push and pull, reiki, relationships, sex, stoic men, theta healing, why men act this wayPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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I do many readings for others and many of my readings are with a woman that are attracted to a guy who she keeps in good contact with but he’s not revealing his feelings enough to her verbally. Clients often ask me why they have this pattern where the man is not revealing his feelings enough in the relationship. Many times I will receive that he reveals feelings in others ways as verbal expression can be difficult depending on how he was raised. Other ways can be acts of service, affirmations, quality time, physical gifts and longer than usual eye contact. Check out my 5 love languages article for more on this.

Some of this can be explained by Attachment Theory as someone is attracted to another person who is what they call an “avoidant” and it makes the client very anxious waiting for some sort of validation of his feelings in a verbal sense. These personality times have some psychological challenges to work through and can be a difficult partner for someone who gets anxious with separation.

The third reason that comes up is metaphysical. If you see the same pattern come up in your life where your partners have trouble expressing emotion, law of attraction may be sending you the same person with similar patterns. Look into your past. How many people in your life act similarly in ways that bother you? How much time, attention, action and feeling have you put into these people? Many times these people were just in you life from the get go, like parents, but over the years you have put energy, thought, feeling and action into people with similar personality traits. To manifest according to the book “The Secret” by Rhonda Bryne it helps to put thought, feeling, and action behind what you want. According to this book the law doesn’t really discriminate “bad” versus “good” desires, if you put the energy into it it is possible to get the same thing out over and over again. Now I do believe that spiritual forces protect us from ourselves but they do show us the same patterns as well so we can correct for it.

Some clients ask me how do I stop this pattern of being with these guys that don’t openly express their feelings. My recommendation is two fold. First reverse you’re thinking and reactions when you encounter someone who openly shows emotion. If you find yourself taking a step back in fear the problem may not be the person that is expressing themselves; it may be time to look at why you’re uncomfortable with someone showing you affection. The second recommendation is to look for either a behavioral psychiatrist who can do some sort of hypnotherapy on your subconscious or a Theta healer who essentially does the same thing but on multiple metaphysical levels including past lives, soul level, current life and genetic levels. My own Theta Healing also concentrates on the mind or mental level as well as the Akashic records. Theta healing removes the negative beliefs and fears that cause you to react this way and replaces them with something more positive and in line with what you really want. If you’d like to look at some of my energy healing options feel free to look on my website here. I also do psychic mediumship readings here.

Additional Reading:

“The Secret” by Rhonda Bryne

“Attached” by Amir Levine

“Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray

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Do Nothing: Finding Peace

April 5, 2018Healing, Soul Mates, theta healinganxiety, calm, how to calm, how to stop eating, no stress, peace, stop being anxious, stop worrying, stress, weight, weight lossPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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This past weekend I was doing theta healing on myself, and I was going through areas to work on. At some point I was asked what I wanted. I thought peace.

At some point we’d like to just chill. Not stress, not worry, not feel an obligation to be productive. As I am told by my guides & angels, “to do nothing”. Then when I make up in my mind that I will do nothing, this is “do nothing time”, I relax.

The healing visualization I wanted to impart to you that was clairvoyantly given to me was to imagine a white bubble around yourself and energies. Imagine a dove on it, and the word peace written on it. Relax your muscles and tell yourself this is do nothing time and concentrate on the white dove bubble.

Second, imagine God removing all energies you’ve picked up or absorbed around the world. Friends, family, soul mates, places. Imagine God releasing them back to where they came from. Now imagine every where your energy may have gone as well, including those you may have read, healed, thought about, even energy in stores you have stopped by that day. Imagine God’s hand above the Earth vacuuming that energy up transforming it green as in healing it and and then returning it back to you in healed form. Then imagine God removing spirit energy from you, such as earthbound, wayward, those crossed over, anyone from the spirit world no longer serving you. Do the same exchange mentioned above. End with please and thank you God.

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Why He is Not Calling and What You Can Do About It. Attachment Theory.

March 15, 2018Healing, Love & Relationships, Past lives, Psychic Mediumship, reiki, Soul Mates, theta healingalone, anxiety, attachment theory, breakup, can't let go, communication problems, lonely, love, love and relationships, psychic, Psychic Mediumship, psychic reading, relationship ended, Romance, soul mate, Soul Mates, the one, theta healing, twin flame, why is he not calling mePsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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Are you stuck in an unequal relationship that displays any of these characteristics:

– He doesn’t follow up with contact
– He doesn’t initiate enough or give you enough attention
– He isn’t expressing his feelings but you can tell he has them
– You find yourself in cycles of push/pull, hot/cold, chase/run

I highly recommend this book on attachment theory. It discusses each of the types and how to best deal with their behaviorial issues.

It talks about both perspectives, why you are stuck having feelings for this person who doesnt give you enough love back and why they are pulling away, occasionally coming back to string you along. While there may be deeper metaphysical issues as well which we can discuss in a reading here : www.feathersinfinity.com, this book does give some great pointers on what to heal as well as how to react to your love interest. Sometimes knowing why they are acting this way helps us to react less emotionally and take it less personally.

The books discusses 3 types, the anxious, the stable and the avoidant.

In summary (we can be a mix of any 3 of theThe Anxious – This person is always wondering why he doesnt call, why he doesnt initiate the dates or contact enough, and feels they are constantly chasing someone who does not show enough appreciation for them. However they find themselves in love with the other party, stuck in an unending cycle, hoping he’ll change. Often times lack of action from their love interest ruins their day or part of their day and can be a source of anxiety for the person.

Avoidant – An avoidant personality wants to maintain their independence, is afraid of getting hurt but tries not to show it, and often pulls away for a time until they miss a person and then pop back into the love interests life when they feel ready. They are consistantly inconsistant, they think people should hide their emotions and have difficulty expressing themselves. They have deep feelings too but try to push them away and control them due to lack of trust.
Stable – This is the personality type that we hope to achieve, a good balance of empathy to know when your partner needs affection and attention, expressing their own emotions and is able to be more vulnerable on a healthy way with their partner. Stable people can be with all 3 personalities because they have the wisdom and empathy to understand the others’ point of view and can tend to their needs without as much emotional turmoil.

The Past Is Not Your Future

January 2, 2018Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, Soul Mates, theta healingenergy healing, happiness, love and relationships, love predictions, new year, new year predictions, new year psychic reading, new year reading, new years, psychic, Psychic Mediumship, psychic reading, reiki, relationship predictions, Romance, spirituality, yearly readingPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

As you can probably imagine I get a lot of calls at this time of the year, being the new year. People usually want to know if some aspect of their life is better than the year past. Before I get to the main point of this article I do want to say to not wait for the beginning of every year to make your life better. Everyday you can do something that makes you happy. Try your best not to rely on others to make you happy but to do the things that move you or motivate you. Whether that’s playing a game on your cell, watch your favorite TV show, cooking/baking something, taking a walk in the park, going to the zoo, or anything else that makes you happy. Start today, don’t wait for the next month or the beginning of the year to have your happiness or results. You CAN make yourself happy now. The Past is Not your Future,The Past is Not your Future

The main reason for this article was to address something I commonly hear and to give you the advice I received from the other side. Someone mentioned that they hadn’t dated anyone for years and they couldn’t believe that they would have more than one romantic option in 2018. The answer that I heard from the other side was the future is not your past. Which is very true. Just because it hasn’t happened for the past 5 years does not mean it’s not going to happen this year. Especially if you’ve been working on yourself, you’ve had some sort of Spiritual Awakening, or you’ve done some energy healing on yourself, you can certainly change your vibrations and what you’re bringing to you. So know that the past is not your future and just because it was a pattern in the past doesn’t mean it’s going to happen in your future.

Have a happy and healthy 2018!

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I’m Lonely, Should I Get a Pet to Fill the Emptiness?

December 10, 2017Healing, Love & Relationships, Psychic Mediumship, Soul MatesPsychic Medium Andrea Knight

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Nope. Yep, you heard that right. No. Why? The reason is because that animal is not going to fill the void or make you feel less lonely enough to resolve the real problem. lonely pet, lonely pet

When I do my psychic medium readings often times I will hear ladies make common jokes that if they don’t meet “him” by the age of 40,50, or 60 that they’ll get 5 cats. I tell them that the animal will not be able to fill their emptiness, instead what can happen is you’ll feel worse because when you look at that cat you’ll realize it was not really what you wanted, not to mention common memes out in social media to make you feel pathetic. You can also fall into resentment when you have to care for the animal and realize while you are scooping their litter or trying to give them pills that this is not the life you were wanting after all. The animal, or even 5 of them, will not fill the emptiness you feel. My clients usually agree after I remind them of this.

What are some solutions instead?

Ask God for the love you need to not feel lonely feel loved every morning.

“God, please send my the best and highest love from you to me so I don’t feel lonely and I feel loved, whole and complete, Please and thank you.”

Ask God for an unconditional love download.

“God, please send me your unconditional love. Please and thank you.” Wait and feel the healing and love coming through until you feel it is complete.

Meditate concentrating on the heart chakra (including the chakras along your back) and balancing it with other charkas (I have gorgeous full chakra sets with black tourmaline here: www.ebay.com/usr/all1059)

Think about someone who makes you happy – That can be an imaginary friend, lover or someone else but make sure they make you smile. If you don’t have someone like this, ask God to send you someone, you’ll be glad you did.

Reach out to an old friend – It can be someone you haven’t spoken to in a while but someone who you are currently on good terms with. Many of us have those friends we’ve had for years or decades but only talk to once a quarter or once a year and pick up like there was no time between contacts.

Join a meetup group – Meetup.com has great groups of all kinds whether your interest is board games, cards, hiking, bowling, beaches, movies, or food they probably have a group suited to your needs. Get out there and meet new people!

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