The Good Ones Aren’t All Taken

I was wandering the library looking for something new to read and I found this book with the little chocolate truffle in the front and I thought it looked delicious so I brought it home. I finished this book in about 2 days. The Good Ones Aren’t All Taken,The Good Ones Aren’t All Taken
It describes several personality types and psychological problems that may commonly occur with women that prevents them from having a long-lasting relationship. The author describes these personality types as the following:

+ The Old Faithful – if you stay attached to an ex for an unusually long time comparative to others around you, if you’re feeling like you missed out on your “one true” chance for love, or have beliefs in “The One”

+ The Whirlwind Dater – this is someone who dates a lot but has not settled on one man for a long period of time, this is also someone who has a hard time relaxing

+ The Standstill – this person rarely if ever dates, this can be common with those that are still a virgin or have only had sex a handful of times or less. This person is afraid of anyone finding out how little they have dated or have been intimate and often get embarrassed when someone asks them when was their last date and how often they’ve dated.

+ The Forbidden Fruit Hunter – this person is continually attracted to those that are unavailable or married, they may reject nice guys who show interest that are available, they may come from a single-parent home or has strong emotional connections with their family

+ The Compassionate Rescuer – this person has a hard time saying no to people, they feel like they have to rescue someone or is habitually with someone that they feel needs them, they continually try to stay flexible in order to please others, they give more then they receive in relationships, they are often condescended to or controlled by family or partners

+ The Wanderer – this woman is the life of the party, can make friends very easily but has a hard time staying faithful and hops from one relationship to another, they can get anxious if they’re not in a relationship and like to indulge in things that are pleasurable or celebratory

+ The Uptown Girl – she enjoys compliments and dresses or looks the part so she can get a lot of compliments. They look for men that either have money, status or power.

+ The Runaway Bride – very similar to the movie, this person is somebody that really doesn’t know themselves and doesn’t stay in a relationship very long, they commonly bolt when the relationship gets too serious

The book mainly outlines some common psychological issues that prevent you from seeing the situation as it truly is. One of which that she talks about is subconscious beliefs that are sabotaging you. If you find yourself in a situation after a date or when someone finds you attractive that you start having a lot of negative thoughts then you may need to work on your subconscious beliefs. I recommend using Theta healing which I do provide on my website which has turned much of my life around towards the positive as well as my thinking. Theta can affect Law of Attraction and the type of people that you draw to you as well as how they treat you when they are in your life. It can affect those that are already in your life as well and how they treat you but in a different more positive way. You can find my Theta healing offerings here. Theta healing works on current life, past life, and other soul level beliefs, removing the negative beliefs and replacing it with positive which in turn affects how people see you, how you think and what you attract to you.

Two other of the more common issues that she discusses is the signs that you may have intimacy issues because you are trying to fit in a man’s world so you act professionally when you should act more sexual or feminine to a love interest. Essentially you have not learned how to be feminine, open or sexy and are uncomfortable in that role.

The other common issue she describes is feeling overly responsible for your parents’ happiness, usually one parent over the other. You’ve taken on a role that subconsciously and consciously you will have a hard time separating yourself from. You may enter into a relationship and start wondering, “but who’s going to take care of Mom?”

This is just a quick summary of the book, there are other issues and solutions provided. I highly recommend you get the book from your local library or Amazon to see which of these personality types best describes you. You may be a combination of all the above. Once you’ve figured out your patterns that will give you a launching point to then find the healing modality that best works for you to turn your life and thinking around.

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Working with Archangels versus Wicca

When I formally trained to do readings for others I worked mostly with archangels and ascended masters like Jesus because that’s how I was taught. Different beings on the second or first planes (fairies, gnomes, elves, elementals and nature spirits) have popped in and out of my life on occasion for different reasons, either I would be studying or researching different beings and I’d see them clairvoyantly or through my own meditations. Since I majored in zoology in college and being interested in nature, I have a strong connection with animals or nature in general. The second and first planes of existance, as they call it in Theta healing, pops up strongly for me from time to time, and many times it is a positive experience. The vibration and feelings associated with being on a more grounded level and seeing on that level versus going to a higher vibrational level to doing mediumship reading can feel and clairvoyantly look different.

Ultimately, I wanted to pass along some information I obtained during a reading I had with a client recently. Essentially the client was asking if she should look into Wiccan spells for protection after she’s been using Angels, Archangels and Saints previously. What I saw as advice in this reading was when you go to the second plane to ask for something (protection or love, etc) the reason why it doesn’t always work well or something negative may happen is the second plane can reflect to us (mirror) the things we need to work on, in other words our belief systems and fears. They showed this to me by having a small being representing a nature spirit or elemental presumably holding a mirror up.

I received the concept of if you’re not ready and you haven’t worked on your belief systems they may reflect something back to you that you don’t want. It has been explained to me in the past that elementals and nature spirits help us manifest some of the things we want and can react automatically to our energies, although I have seen that in some cases they can control what happens. The next concept I received was when you work with the Angelic plane or higher they can adjust for your belief systems (I see an angel sidestepping obstacles) and they can bypass them so that you get more of what you really are looking for not necessarily what you may be asking for (if its not quite what is right for you) or even what you fear. I thought that was very interesting and worthy to pass along for those of you looking into the different areas of metaphysics, energy and magic.

The general message was that it’s not necessarily “wrong” or “evil” to ask for help on the second plane but to be careful and to try not to do it when you don’t feel prepared with your belief systems and haven’t worked on some of your fears. Go in with the right intentions, with peaceful or kind intentions and then that may be a safer manifesting route for you. If you are looking for a quick way to heal your beliefs and fears blocking or affecting your abilities, I recommend theta which I provide over the phone and skype here.

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Redundant Patterns in our Life

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Does it seem like you go through the same kind of relationship over and over again?  Or do you have the same thing happen to you continuously but doesn’t seem to happen to anyone else?  You may have a fear or belief in your subconscious that is running like a program in the background.  These fears and beliefs can bring to us situations that we do not want, because we are creators of our reality.  The beliefs can be on the core (current life beliefs), genetic, historical (past life) or soul levels.  Sometimes we are aware of these beliefs because they come up as thoughts and sometimes we are not aware of them.  How do you stop the cycle?  Energy healing is the fastest, most painless way to remove and resolve these fears and beliefs.  Of all the healing modalities I have come across, Theta Healing is the best for them, and I have personal experience that if you take care of these your life will change and the cycles stop.  I’ve had to do repairs on my beliefs and fear concerning love, relationships, family, money, jobs, abundance, and health.  The list goes on.  Think about how many lives you’ve probably had.  You probably have a lot of fears and beliefs that need to be removed or resolved after all of that time.  Once I cleared or resolved these beliefs I was able to improve by career, money, health, weight and relationships.   If you are interested in repairing some of your subconscious beliefs, feel free to check out my website, www.feathersinfinity.com.  I offer Theta Healing over the phone so you can sit in the comfort of home while receiving Theta.

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Use your Intuition!

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Are you intuitive?  Do you just know things for no logical reason but know you are right?  Do you seem to know things about others without hearing about them from somewhere else.  You are probably an intuitive and have a great gift from God.  How do you use it?  Continue to listen to your hunches and urgings.  If it is positive and feels good it came from your higher self or from the light.  If it’s negative then it probably came from fear, so don’t listen to the negative advice, thoughts and feelings for now.  If your idea seems to come from nowhere and feels good to you, go for it.  Over time you will receive enough validation that you’re intuition is leading you in the right direction!  Want to know more?  Go to www.feathersinfinity.com to setup a reading with me.  I’ll be happy to discuss this with you.  Good Luck!

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How to Cleanse your Crystals

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It is very important to cleanse and energize your crystals regularly.  How often you need to cleanse your crystal depends on how often it is used.  If you meditate with your crystal you’ll notice that the vibration may not be as strong as it has been over time.  If you hold your crystal in your left hand, ask it if it is cleansed and energized, and it doesn’t vibrate, it’s probably time to cleanse that crystal.  One way to cleanse and energize is to put your crystals in the sun and moonlight for 24 hours (except amethyst, only use moonlight for amethyst).  This removes any lower energy and energizes the crystal.  Another method is to put your crystals in sea salt water from 4-24 hours depending on how much you’ve used your crystal.  You have to be careful with this method because there are certain crystals that you can’t put in water or they’ll disintegrate like selenite.  If you are unsure of your new crystals preferred cleansing method, you can always google “metaphysical” and the crystal’s common name.  You can also use any number of vibrational instruments such as tuning forks, singing bowls, bells and cymbals to cleanse your crystals.  Burning sage & sweetgrass and waving the smoke over your crystals is also recommended for removing negative energy and replacing it with positive.  Enjoy your new crystals!

How Can One Person Save the Earth?

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First, you are not alone. We are all interconnected by the group consciousness and that includes with nature. We can all do something and collectively when we make the effort we are setting an example for others and it will catch on over time. Other people will look up to you and watch the decisions you make and will want to emulate this in their lives. However, if you want to take a more holistic, metaphysical approach to this subject, I recommend a good meditation that I have tried and have been asked to pass on to each of you. how can one person save the earth,how can one person save the earth,how can one person save the earth
Get into your meditative state and imagine you are surrounded by the Creator’s white light of love and protection. Expand that bubble to surround your home. Then expand it to surround your city, until it grows to surround your state. Eventually expand your white bubble to surround mother earth with positive white light. Imagine that the Creator is sending this light from above and see it completely surrounding the earth from space. Then imagine a green light coming down from Creator, surrounding the earth. Imagine the green light healing the land and the trees, transmuting or removing any pollution. Then imagine a blue light around earth. Imagine the blue light is cleaning up all the water, healing the sea creatures and removing pollution from the water and air. Lastly, imagine a pink light coming down and surrounding the earth. Imagine the pink light surrounding each of it’s inhabitants with love energy around the world. Imagine the pink light sending love to the elementals, the spirits, rocks, trees and surrounding nature. Imagine every person on every continent happy, wars ending, and everyone embracing and smiling. Continue to imagine earth surrounded in each of these lights and leave space, reentering the atmosphere, your home and eventually come back to yourself.

Why can’t God just heal the earth herself?

We have free will. If we want to use up the resources and pollute and not clean it up, we are free to do so. Angels, elementals, and the creator is not allowed to interfere with our free will.

What does this meditation do?

It does a number of things. It sets your intention that you want the earth, its inhabitants and nature saved. It tells the universe, which has infinite abundance, what you want by visualizing the healing occurring. Also, it asks the Creator, angels, elementals and other spirits to please help us and the visualization gives the request energy.

If you have been blessed with abundance, you can also help the planet and its inhabitants by buying more organic food, choosing environmentally kind electricity (wind, solar) and using environmentally safe chemicals. This will create a demand for these items, making them more available to other people and cheaper over time. If you want to feel better in your home and neighborhood, buy house plants and plant a tree. All of these actions create love energy in and around your home and helps the environment. Another thing I do is unplug anything I’m not using, like the stereo, can opener, toaster, and other kitchen appliances. You can’t unplug everything but you’d be surprised at how much energy you’d save with very little effort. Even though you may not be using that can opener, it still may be using something called “phantom energy” just by being plugged in. Appliances still drain energy when they are plugged in even though they are not being actively used.

When each of us does what we can, we can really make a difference in our world.

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How do I clear myself or a loved one of an attached spirit?

There a multiple ways to do this, but for someone not trained in healing you can buy a simple pink candle from Wal Mart or Target for around a buck with the virgin Mary on the front. I usually say an Our Father and a Hail Mary plus the prayer on the back of the candle then state my intention that I want whatever attachment in me or my family member to be taken away by Archangel Michael. Then I put a teaspoon of cinnamon in the pink candle, moving it away from the wink so the candle will burn, and light the wick. I then close with an Our Father and Hail Mary. If you say other prayers to your creator/source/God whatever you believe in and just use a pink candle with no image on the front, that may work too, although I haven’t tried that yet. I received this advice from Ann Simon, a wonderful medium and healer. If you want more advice, feel free to set up an appointment with me here: www.feathersinfinity.com.

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Q: How do I clear my home of negative energy?

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I use a mixture of Sage and Sweet grass to clear my home of negative energy and entities. You can buy these online, at some psychic fairs or at metaphysical shops. It’s mostly about intention and rituals help us state our intentions. Counterclockwise undoes while clockwise puts back in. Open your windows and go around your home in a counterclockwise path with your smoking sage wand and say the following prayer:

“Archangel Michael, I ask that you remove and banish all negative energies and spirits from our home with the energy of Divine Light and Love. Bless our home with your pure white light of love and protection.”

Make sure to get white sage on the walls, corners, in the middle of the room, and in closets. Anywhere and everywhere a spirit can potentially hide, including attics if you can get to yours. Wave the wand counterclockwise around doorways and windows. Tell them in a firm voice from the gut to leave. Once you have completed your counterclockwise circle around the home, open the front door and wave the wand towards it, telling them to leave. Put the sage wand out outside your door either by putting it in water or rubbing it out.

Then go back around your home in a clockwise fashion with the sweet grass. This replaces the energy that is now vacant with positive energy. After you are done you can rub your sweet grass outside your front door and close your windows. You may also use Tibetan singing bowls to restore positive energy in our home along with the sweet grass. Good luck!

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