Addictions, some Metaphysical Explanations

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I’ve done some research over the years on addictions, in my case food, and in my family’s case alcohol.  Much of what I have read is science and psychology based, which has value by itself.  While the biological process certainly does play a role in how we feel and what we do, as does the mind, I wanted to know the spiritual side because I do know that is a piece of the puzzle as well.

During a reading I received that addictions and cravings for what you are addicted to sometimes arise when you are trying to shut something or someone up, like a feeling or a voice.  What you are trying to shut up may be anxiety, voices in your mind you don’t want to hear such as your ego or someone else’s, mixed in with your angels, guides or God.  You may be trying to numb a feeling such as grief or a heart break you haven’t quite healed from yet. Go here on my blog on how to heal grief.  If the divine is trying to warn you of something, this may cause some anxiety, from the higher vibration as well as other factors, and that is usually an indication to stop what you are doing and do a self check.  It was explained to me the higher the vibration, the more anxiety you may feel, particularly if you are not in the light.  More to come of this in my book to be published hopefully in 2019.

The recommendation is to stop. Stop. Do nothing. Let the anxiety ground.  Then just chill. Do Nothing for a while. 5-15 minutes of do nothing time. Don’t look at your phone, sit or lay down and do nothing.  If you are sensitive enough you will feel the energy go down from your head all the way down to you feet.  After the 15 minutes, thank your angels, guides and God for being there to bring them forth, imagine a while light around you and ask for guidance or whatever the problem seems to be. The problem may be you’re working too hard or doing too much. You may be using the addiction to get away from worries or work.  Its time to do nothing and receive guidance.

The other metaphysical reason for an addiction seems to be a combo of other people asking for more money and abundance as well as your actions in the past.  As others ask for more money, you may “answer the call” as I put it to buy what they are selling.  What you’ve enjoyed buying in the past is typically what you get pulled in buying again, essentially your actions and law of attraction.  So if you’ve felt happy buying chocolate cake, tortilla chips, going out to eat, alcohol etc. that may be what you are pulled into buying again.  This is with the combination with the physical and mental highs you receive from these actions.

Other non-metaphysical reasons for addictions usually involve serotonin, opioids and dopamine’s affect on your brain.  An excellent book that describes this is “The End of Overeating…” by David Kessler, MD.  Intellectually understanding why you feel a certain way can help you to stop yourself in your tracks, rise above the problem and find another solution.

Addiction provides an escape.  An escape from work, worries, distraction of the mind, what we don’t want to look at, as well as a mental high.  You are ignoring something, many times something deep inside.  My recommendation is to stop and do nothing, grief healing, or look into changing habits (actions).

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Absolution of Sins

Absolution

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I heard very clearly when in a reading state one day the word “Absolution”.  Kind of hilarious, I went to 10+ years of Catholic school, and while I had heard of the word before I had to look it up after the vision to make sure I knew what it meant.  I thought it had something to do with sinning, maybe forgiveness.  I received several times in my energy healing and readings that we can beat ourselves up sometimes over what we have done in this current life and in past lives.  A very clear vision popped up after I received this word “Absolution” after asking how to do this.   This is what I received and hurriedly wrote down.

“pain of existence
hopelessness
we think we are sinners – should change, sometimes we know energetically or soul level we have been bad in the past
complicated forces cause us to “misbehave” (not all our fault that we do)
we are punishing ourselves physically
instead of going through each cause and “I forgive myself, others…” there is a faster way
absolve sins
saw a vision of Jesus under a rain cloud, rain falling on him, on knees praying, also saw myself on knees praying by bed, then rising up and saying thank you. Say a prayer asking God to absolve my sins both in current and past lives on your knees (picture Jesus next to you with the intention that Jesus not get hurt). say amen. the rain represented the healing water to wash away sins”

The vision outlined a method with which to absolve your sins in past lives and current lives without the need for a priest.  I’ve struggled with the word “sin” since taking the metaphysical journey, knowing that sometimes there are other forces within and outside of us that cause us to act negatively.  I won’t go into that now, but if you feel that you continually pull yourself down mentally, physically, energetically for the past, this is a wonderful healing to lift you up.  I really felt energetically refreshed afterwards with more positive energy.

Method

Like the vision said, kneel (or lay down), and imagine Jesus with you in the rain which is cleansing both of you.  Imagine yourself in the white light.  Then see yourself floating above the clouds, up into the universe as high as you can go until you reach an area of the universe that is all white.  Imagine you and Jesus in this area either kneeling or lying down with God watching over you.  Tell yourself that Jesus won’t get hurt in the process (I had a problem with this that I didn’t want him dying or getting hurt for my sins, you might too).  Thank God, your angels, archangels and Jesus for being there. Ask God out loud to absolve your sins in past lives and current life.  End with please and thank you, Amen.  Watch or feel what happens.  Wait until the vision or feelings stop and your feet feel heavy or grounded.  Say “Thank you God, Jesus and angels”.  Imagine yourself going back down into the universe, through earth’s atmosphere, back into your body.  Imagine your feet turning into roots and going down to the core of the earth, bringing green light to fill your body and energy field around you.  Say out loud, “I am grounded, I am grounded, I am grounded” and wait until your feet feel like heavy rocks.  Then continue about your day.

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Elemental Series IV: Air Elementals and Nature Spirits

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Air is an important element that many people forget about as it is mostly invisible. You notice it on a hot day and the breeze comes in to cool you down, and when you hear it pass through the trees, rustling the leaves. However many times it is forgotten or passed over due to it being less visible. sylph, sylph, sylph

Intelligence and mental clarity

Air in most metaphysical literature is mentioned as being excellent to call upon when the user needs help with intelligence and mental clarity. There are references to the name “sylph” as one type of air elemental. In my grounding article I speak of mental clarity and how grounding can help with mental clarity and focus. In that process you use all 4 elements to achieve a grounded state. I’ve found a combination of fire and air can really aid in achieving mental clarity fast, but for sustained grounding and clarity I would recommend using all 4 elements in your visualization along with empathic clearing (article here). Feathers, birds, and other winged insects can also be signs or symbols for air.

Air elementals may also be part of the raising vibrations process.

Static Electricity

I did once see an image where an Air Elemental was pushing what looked like static electricity away and transforming it into some other energy that was less intense. Sometimes EMF, static electricity and radiation can create energetic blocks to be cleared during energy healing. Once a nurse who worked with large electronics for work felt significantly better once blocks due to EMF, static and radiation were removed during a theta session. If you are interested in theta healing I perform it over distance. You can sign up for a theta healing here.

Mood

Air elementals can also affect how a person feels as in the temperature of the room as well as mood. If you are comfortable with working on this plane, I’ve found sprites are some of the best for transforming the energy in a room or place into positive energy.

Other benefits

During a reading I asked those crossed over to show me how air elementals can help people depending on the level in their hierarchy. I received a vision of someone who looked like a sultan or king. When I asked how they can best help us if we were looking for aid I was shown many of the things you might guess, such as to cool a person’s temperature down, and to move negative energy particles in the air via wind.

Other benefits shown to me were removing negative energy from an area or person by carrying it elsewhere by dispersing it, healing, as well as carry clairaudient messages over distances. They showed me they have a role in lightning as well as receiving a few images of winged spiritual beings being a part of this group. Their group does like to party or have social occasions. Their energy can be used sometimes to lead people in another direction, remind them of something forgotten and to avoid danger. It has also been brought to my attention that they are one of the spiritual being types responsible for aid in sexual arousal, including some earth, and water beings.

When asking Jesus and my archangels about Air Elementals I received that they work with water a lot, which actually makes sense if you think about the cycle of water (water evaporating to the clouds, creating rain where it returns to earth, etc). I saw an image of wind currents and how they can influence what direction they can go around the world. They also showed me that they are in the cells of living beings and can fill in between the spaces of the organelles. They are also helpful in areas of love/romance healing and clairvoyance.

Higher level Air Elementals have shown themselves to me as Sultans, or can appear as other royal figures like Kings or Queens, and can be very good at helping with this plane.

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Soul Mates and the Stages of Grief

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Sometimes a rejection from those we are interested in can lead to us entering the grief cycle. Many of my clients have been rejected by those they feel are either their soulmates or twin flames. I’ve noticed that many people go through the stages of grief when they are rejected by someone they are attracted to, interested in or in love with. The problem is I don’t think they recognize that are going through the stages, instead they’re just feeling they’re emotions and reacting to them.

The denial stage is obvious. It’s essentially when you’re in denial and you can’t believe what just happened to you. Sometimes there’s a shock stage before denial but the denial stage is very real. It prevents you from seeing what is really happening, often times our ego wall might come up and we won’t see from the other person’s perspective. Next comes anger which is usually from being in a place of the ego reacting to getting rejected and trying to make up another story (they have issues, it is their fault, something is wrong with them) as well as lashing out at whoever rejected you. This can be in varying degrees, some people may not get that angry and instead get sad (low self esteem) and some people might start thinking about revenge. Bargaining comes around when someone often thinks that this is the only one they have a chance to be with or they’re not going to find someone else that they have a strong feelings for, which is not true, we have multiple soul mates. This can be a very embarrassing, uncomfortable stage that I don’t wish on anyone. They may turn to God or psychics for extreme solutions that they may feel embarrassed about later or when they realize what they asked for or tried to do. During this stage I will often put them in their love-interest shoes. I ask them how would you like it if somebody tried to force you to love them using God or spirits if you were not initially interested? They all calm down at that point and answer that they wouldn’t like it very much. It is an eye opener.

Then I usually share with them a more realistic solution. There’s some excellent books out there such as “The Like Button” that tells you how to gradually get somebody to be more comfortable in your presence or be curious about you. A lot of times this is just being around them, being in the same room, not necessarily always talking to them. A great way to explain this is to use the example of a deer and a bunny in a prairie. When the bunny first enters the prairie the deer might get spooked and run off. Overtime the bunny continues to enter the prairie but stays at a distance, not threatening the deer. This lets the deer know that the bunny is not dangerous because over time the bunny is not actually doing anything harmful. Slowly, the bunny can get closer without spooking the deer. I highly recommend “The Like Button” as well as Dale Carnegie’s “How to Make Friends and Influence People”. Some people may get spooked when you first show that you’re interested in them but it is possible to come back in a less scary manner and over time they can become curious about you, and more comfortable around you. You may become friends or you may become something more, this may just depend on a number of variables on both sides.

If you feel like you’re going through any of these stages of grief I highly recommend that you go through a healing process where you can get to the acceptance stage. I usually call an ascended Master such as Jesus, Mary, or Buddha as well as Archangel Artiya’il while laying down on my bed and ask them to help me get to the acceptance stage with whatever I’m struggling with at that time. Wait and feel much of the healing at the bottom of your lungs to clear before returning to your day. When the soreness or feeling in your lungs dissipate the healing is done. This can help push you past the stages of bargaining, anger and depression and into a more peaceful place. When you get to this peaceful place you no longer feel this urge or anguish over wanting to change the situation at any means possible. The sadness and depression go away. Then you’re more open to other options and no longer have that heart block that prevents you from seeing them or considering them.

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Prophets and Psychic Mediums, is there a difference?

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I had a client last night asking me if it was sinful as a Christian to believe in and talk to psychics. I reminded her that many people in the Bible, including many of the saints in Catholicism, were prophets, which is an old time-y way to say psychic. Noah knew there would be a flood before anyone else, Jesus knew that Judas would betray him beforehand, and Jesus even knew he would be crucified and asked God to remove this from him under an olive tree. Don’t forget about the miracle of Fatima in 1917, which had thousands of witnesses, and Catholics established a special festival and day around.

Psychics have been around for millennia, predicting everything from the weather, deaths, wars and births. In fact many of the saints and ascended masters are psychic! They were predicting things all the time and receiving messages from the other side in the form of booming voices and visions of angels. The vatican keeps The Prophecy of the Popes in their archives among many other references to prophecies. Think of how many times an angel or other being appeared to those in the bible; Archangel Gabriel to Mary (kinda a big announcement), the burning bush to Moses, a voice to Saul who later turned into Pope Paul and started the church.

Kind of ridiculous if you really think about it for people to think that psychics are evil or wrong.

I think what happened is we revere or put the word “prophet” on a pedestal. Then down the line we created a new word, “psychic”, which conjures images of homeless rogues in red carriages and hoop earrings. The image is slightly ridiculous. Also don’t forget Saul who was a bit on the naughty side turned into Paul after hearing God. He turned his life around. You don’t have to be a saint from birth to hear God or your angels.

So next time you feel a bit bad about going to a psychic, remind yourself of all the visions and booming voices in the bible. The caution is just society or the culture you were raised in, not because you shouldn’t listen to what your angels and guides are telling you.

I’ve had dreams that came true within 24 hours of having them. Two of the most notable is having a dream of being in a plane crash 24 hours before a plane disappeared in the news over the mediterranean sea and having a dream of my mother dying 24 hours before her first heart attack. During a reading my maternal grandmother came to me clearly, telling me to teach my mother about energy healing 24 hours before she fell and broke numerous bones on a cruise. I have closeted friends who also hear God or have visions, afraid to come out of their shell because of a cultural taboo around psychics. I think there are many closeted metaphysical people because of the fear to be labeled “crazy”. I hope with the popularity of Long Island Medium and others that the judgement against speaking with those crossed over will be rectified. prophets and psychic

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Archangels and Ascended Master Healers

Here are a few of the archangels and ascended masters I have called on over the years to help me and what they can best help with. I’ll continue to update this as I discover new ones over time. archangel names, archangel names

Archangels:

Raziel: Improving clairvoyance and metaphysical abilities in general

Raphael: Energy healing and belief / fear work, addictions and cravings

Uriel: Grounding, energy healing, problem solving, alchemy, earth

Chamuel: Career and life path, relationships and soul mates

Michael: Protection, energy healing

Aria: Energy Healing, weight loss

Azrael: Crossing Over spirits

David: Protection

Haniel or Hanael: Healing, metaphysical abilities, ease with moon phase energies, leader of the principalities

Archangel Caleb: Energy healer

Ariel: Help with the environment, environmental issues

Jophiel: Joy, positive thinking, enjoying the moment / present

Metatron: Transmutation, organization and focus

Zadkiel: Memory, focus, emotional healing and physical healing

Artiya’il – removes grief

Cherubim
Cherubiel – energy healer, worked on my throat chakra in particular, told me you don’t have to be perfect to receive help.

Gabriel: Communication, art and artists, relationship issues and delivering messages

Principality
Hahasiah – energy healer, teleportation through the universe, magic

Ascended Masters:

Mary (Mother Mary): Negative entity removal, love, energy healing, peace

Jesus: Physical healing, energy healing, peace, love

Buddha: Peace, weight loss, false hunger removal, grounding, balancing chakras, balancing in general, meditation

Other Healers:

Ganesha: Removal of obstacles, financial abundance

St. Francis: Animal healing, animal communication, environmental issues, life’s purpose

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Feng Shui, Basics

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Feng shui can get pretty complicated, so this blog is to focus on the basics, for beginners. If you’d like to dig deeper I recommend any of the many books found in your local library or Amazon.

Basically, Feng shui is more than how to just rearrange your furniture, its about bringing good energy and luck to you, and protect you from the inauspicious. Experts say there are energy lines that are auspicious (good luck) and some that bring shar chi (bad luck). I got into it intuitively when I started wondering if there was a more passive way to bring me positive energy and good luck in my life.

Wealth

Wealth is probably the most asked about but as I write this I’ll remind you to find balance by reviewing and paying attention to all areas and sides of your home to bring peace and overall happiness. Place in the southeast area of your home any or all of the following:

  • Affirmations list such as “I enjoy what I already have and own”, “I am rich”, “I am financially abundant.”
  • Water fountain or a representation of water (picture, cup of water, color blue). If you use water refresh it every 2-3 days.
  • Wood in the form of a live plant; but no dead wood or drift wood, no dead or wilting plants
  • Abundance Crystal grid – youtube videos online on how to construct these
  • Green and prosperous plant (not cactus or spiky plant)
  • Avoid putting : metals, fire

Fame

For success and positive energy in Fame, or as I put it a positive reputation, put the following in the South area of your home:

  • Positive affirmations about your fame such as “People like me”, “People speak well of me”, “I have a positive reputation”
  • Fire (lit candles) or pictures of fire
  • An image or statue of the Phoenix, particularly auspicious if you are a rooster year (as the author is)
  • Avoid putting in the South corner: water

Career

For success and positive energy in career put the following in the North area of your home:

  • Positive affirmations about your career such as “My career is successful”, “I am good at what I do”, “I appreciate my career”
  • A bell for success
  • A turtle to represent the celestial turtle
  • Water or representions of water

School and learning

If you are in school or have children that are, or you are continually improving on your own education, put on the NorthEast corner of your home:

  • Yellow candle for intelligence
  • Quartz
  • Positive affirmations such as “I learn easily”, “I am intelligent”, “Others know I am intelligent”, “I do excellent in school or better”

Love and relationships

To bring more love, relationships or marriage into your life put into the southwest corner of your home or room:

  • The color red
  • Fire
  • A list of positive qualities you bring to your relationship
  • Positive affirmations about your relationships such as “I have a successful loving relationship”, “I am attractive”, “I have a long term, compatible relationship now”
  • The double happiness symbol
  • The red Chinese knot
  • A list of qualities you are looking for in a partner (be realistic)

Mentors and helpful friends

Good mentors can launch your career or improve other areas of your life such as romance or fame. To bring good or better mentors into your life but in the northwest corner of your home the following:

  • Quartz crystals
  • A list of what you look for in a mentor
  • Metal
  • Positive affirmations about your mentor(s)

Family

  • East side of the home
  • Water or wood
  • Positive affirmations concerning your family

Health

For better health for yourself put in the center of your home:

  • Affirmations for areas you want to improve such as “I enjoy exercising”, “I can fit exercise into my schedule”, “I eat healthfully”
  • Pictures of healthy food
  • Pictures of healthy people with healthy bodies that inspire you
  • Wood
  • Pictures of you healthy and happy

Children & Creativity

To improve areas in your life concerning children or creativity put in the West side of your home:

  • Metal
  • Wind chime
  • No wood
  • Pictures of children if you want children
  • Positive affirmations concerning your children or creativity

Celestial animals

There is a whole philosophy on how your home should be situated in a Valley between mountains and that the Green Dragon Mountain to the north should be higher than the White Tiger Mountain to the south. Mostly bringing in these celestial animals is an additional way to bring in positive Chi, protection, and clairity into your home and life. If you would like to bring the celestial animals into your home the green dragon should be on the east side, the white tiger should be on the West Side, the turtle should be on the North side and the Phoenix should be on the south side. Some say you should picture in your mind a yellow snake and the center of your home as well. I have pictures of these beings in my home but you can also purchase ceramic figurines and pictures online as well.

https://www.fengshuinatural.com/en/five-animals.html

For the most part these Celestial animals can provide protection as well as stable positive Chi for the home.

There are other aspects of Feng shui that involve the position of your furniture and goods in your home as well as what to do about Corners that are inauspicious. Much of it has to do with balance so be aware of having too much of one color or having too much light in one room and not enough light in another. There are many good books out there if you want to learn more about feng shui, go with your intuition when choosing one best for you.

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Clairaudience blocks and imbalances

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I had a client come to me for problems with her love life. So I was helping her with her love life I got a vision that sometimes she hears negative voices. She verified that she indeed was having this issue, and she told me her solution was to say “Return to Sender”. We started to talk about her clairaudience a bit and it was explained to me through the reading by spirit guides that she has some blocks and imbalances on her side chakras and meridians. Then they showed me an image of a donut and I got concept that we spend a lot of time healing our front and back chakras and meridians, but we don’t always pay attention to the sides. Donuts will be more tan on the front and back but their sides will be a lighter color due to less direct contact with the oil while cooking (see image). So I relay this information to her to heal her side chakras’ and meridians’ blocks and imbalances that will help with the backups of negative energy that her system may be interpreting is negative voices. I have also noticed when you concentrate on healing the sides that it helps you better ground to Mother Earth, therefore release some of other people’s energies, and help you focus.

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Grounding, Basics

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One common side effect of being ungrounded is a lack of mental clarity, where it is hard to concentrate and focus as you used to (light headedness). Here are some common symptoms of being ungrounded:

-Loss of focus

-Feeling less intelligent

-Swift changing moods

-Hunger that can’t be satisfied

-Feeling more drained or fatigued than you’ve ever felt

-Anxieties that are not explainable

-Feeling everything and everyone around you

I talk a lot about grounding, and I’ve included additional methods and modes in the past, but I haven’t done a basic grounding blog as I figured it has been covered quite a bit on the internet. However, it has come up multiple times this past week so I decided to get it done. There are many YouTube meditations on this as well.

Do this when you get up in the morning and whenever you feel you are getting less grounded again. Grounding does not negatively affect your metaphysical abilities, think of it as you are washing them off in a waterfall, washing away the psychic “dirt” and when you come up again you can see clearer. Hopefully that helps some of you with your fears of grounding. If you have other fears of grounding, ask your archangels to heal them on all levels before you go to bed for the next 7 nights.

Method:

First imagine God sweeping away all the energies from the environments, family, friends, strangers that you may have absorbed and sprinkling them back towards where they came from. Then imagine any energy that you’ve left behind in the environment and with other people, including those you think a lot about like soulmates, coming back to you in a transmuted positive form, commonly seen in green.

Close your eyes and visualize black cords from the core of the earth extend up until they hook on to your feet, hips and end of your spine. I usually ask for this connection to core for 24 hours and wait for mother earth to acknowledge with a check mark clairvoyantly. Visualize the rest of your body turn into the branches and the leaves, extending into your energy field and your energy field turning a dark green as well as the rest of your body. Visualize air blowing away any energetic debris, then a waterfall wash over you to toss energies to the ground where they become soaked into the earth. Lastly visualize green fire surrounding you and your energy field, dissolving any negative energy or energies that no longer serve you. Using this process you will have used all 4 elements.

Imagine antennae that extend from the crown of your head open to a river of energy above you, representing the energy of others, their thoughts another spiritual information. Imagine those antennae retracting down back into your head.

Lastly if you’ve been doing a lot of spiritual work I highly recommend visualizing God turning down a nobb like you’re turning down the volume of something until you feel your energy become more grounded and less high vibrational. This will help bring you peace as well.

Sometimes after a very ungrounding reading I’ll take an actual shower, and light candles asking for grounding, open windows for air to blow in and put black stones in my pockets for additional intention. You should feel your feet become heavier, like putting on heavier boots and they should stay that way for the length of the time you ask. Lastly, visualize any portals open in your home closing (or around you if outside the home). I usually see a field of energy sweep through the home, closing any portals as it scans through like a copy machine.

You can also visualize your home grounding its energy as well. I usually see a forest in the home, with a stream of water in the middle, campfire, lightning bugs in the air, air blowing through the forest rustling the leaves. This way you are incorporating all 4 elements in your grounding visualization.

There are other guided meditations for grounding online but they do take rather a long period of time. In the morning I usually like to get going, so you can do this in the shower or in bed. Also, if you are clairsentient, check out my blog on how to maintain your energies so you can clear more of what no longer serves you.

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When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Tell You How He Feels

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I do many readings for others and many of my readings are with a woman that are attracted to a guy who she keeps in good contact with but he’s not revealing his feelings enough to her verbally. Clients often ask me why they have this pattern where the man is not revealing his feelings enough in the relationship. Many times I will receive that he reveals feelings in others ways as verbal expression can be difficult depending on how he was raised.  Other ways can be acts of service, affirmations, quality time, physical gifts and longer than usual eye contact.  Check out my 5 love languages article for more on this.

Some of this can be explained by Attachment Theory as someone is attracted to another person who is what they call an “avoidant” and it makes the client very anxious waiting for some sort of validation of his feelings in a verbal sense.  These personality times have some psychological challenges to work through and can be a difficult partner for someone who gets anxious with separation.

The third reason that comes up is metaphysical.  If you see the same pattern come up in your life where your partners have trouble expressing emotion, law of attraction may be sending you the same person with similar patterns.  Look into your past.  How many people in your life act similarly in ways that bother you?  How much time, attention, action and feeling have you put into these people?  Many times these people were just in you life from the get go, like parents, but over the years you have put energy, thought, feeling and action into people with similar personality traits.   To manifest according to the book “The Secret” by Rhonda Bryne it helps to put thought, feeling, and action behind what you want.  According to this book the law doesn’t really discriminate “bad” versus “good” desires, if you put the energy into it it is possible to get the same thing out over and over again.  Now I do believe that spiritual forces protect us from ourselves but they do show us the same patterns as well so we can correct for it.

Some clients ask me how do I stop this pattern of being with these guys that don’t openly express their feelings. My recommendation is two fold. First reverse you’re thinking and reactions when you encounter someone who openly shows emotion. If you find yourself taking a step back in fear the problem may not be the person that is expressing themselves; it may be time to look at why you’re uncomfortable with someone showing you affection. The second recommendation is to look for either a behavioral psychiatrist who can do some sort of hypnotherapy on your subconscious or a Theta healer who essentially does the same thing but on multiple metaphysical levels including past lives, soul level, current life and genetic levels. My own Theta Healing also concentrates on the mind or mental level as well as the Akashic records. Theta healing removes the negative beliefs and fears that cause you to react this way and replaces them with something more positive and in line with what you really want.  If you’d like to look at some of my energy healing options feel free to look on my website here.   I also do psychic mediumship readings here.

Additional Reading:

The Secret” by Rhonda Bryne

Attached” by Amir Levine

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray

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Do Nothing: Finding Peace

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This past weekend I was doing theta healing on myself, and I was going through areas to work on. At some point I was asked what I wanted. I thought peace.

At some point we’d like to just chill. Not stress, not worry, not feel an obligation to be productive. As I am told by my guides & angels, “to do nothing”. Then when I make up in my mind that I will do nothing, this is “do nothing time”, I relax.

The healing visualization I wanted to impart to you that was clairvoyantly given to me was to imagine a white bubble around yourself and energies. Imagine a dove on it, and the word peace written on it. Relax your muscles and tell yourself this is do nothing time and concentrate on the white dove bubble.

Second, imagine God removing all energies you’ve picked up or absorbed around the world. Friends, family, soul mates, places. Imagine God releasing them back to where they came from. Now imagine every where your energy may have gone as well, including those you may have read, healed, thought about, even energy in stores you have stopped by that day. Imagine God’s hand above the Earth vacuuming that energy up transforming it green as in healing it and and then returning it back to you in healed form. End with please and thank you God.

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Reiki lotion, How to Relieve Joint Pain and Anxiety

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I wanted to impart some knowledge I gained over the weekend that really helped me to relax and unwind after a long, active week. I can fill up my day with a lot of activities and sometimes it helps to have a way to relax mentally as well as physically. For those of you dealing with anxiety or with muscle aches or pains this should help you out. I learned online that you can use essential oils specifically lavender, eucalyptus, and peppermint to help relax your muscles and joints. Essential oils work on multiple levels and in multiple ways.

I already had these essential oils available to me as I use them for my candle manifesting. All three are good for healing when using them in conjunction with your candles. Peppermint has the added benefit of increasing more positive energy both in the environment as well as when you inhale it. I also drink mint and peppermint tea help me relax.

How to: Take an aloe based lotion of your choice, about 2-3 ounces, and combine it with two drops of each of these essential oils: peppermint, lavender, and eucalyptus. With the mixing container in hand you can also apply any energy healing you know into the lotion as well.  Then stir the lotion together to combine with the oils and rub the lotion from shoulder to toe or only use on your joints.

The lotion feels really good by itself but for an extra relaxing, luxurious feeling apply it while in a nice warm bubble bath with some sea salts.

I also apply energy healing to my lotions for additional grounding effect.  You can buy my reiki lotions and other bath products at my store here.

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Why He is Not Calling and What You Can Do About It. Attachment Theory.

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Are you stuck in an unequal relationship that displays any of these characteristics:

– He doesn’t follow up with contact
– He doesn’t initiate enough or give you enough attention
– He isn’t expressing his feelings but you can tell he has them
– You find yourself in cycles of push/pull, hot/cold, chase/run

I highly recommend this book on attachment theory. It discusses each of the types and how to best deal with their behaviorial issues.

It talks about both perspectives, why you are stuck having feelings for this person who doesnt give you enough love back and why they are pulling away, occasionally coming back to string you along. While there may be deeper metaphysical issues as well which we can discuss in a reading here : www.feathersinfinity.com, this book does give some great pointers on what to heal as well as how to react to your love interest. Sometimes knowing why they are acting this way helps us to react less emotionally and take it less personally.

The books discusses 3 types, the anxious, the stable and the avoidant.

In summary (we can be a mix of any 3 of theThe Anxious – This person is always wondering why he doesnt call, why he doesnt initiate the dates or contact enough, and feels they are constantly chasing someone who does not show enough appreciation for them. However they find themselves in love with the other party, stuck in an unending cycle, hoping he’ll change. Often times lack of action from their love interest ruins their day or part of their day and can be a source of anxiety for the person.

  • Avoidant – An avoidant personality wants to maintain their independence, is afraid of getting hurt but tries not to show it, and often pulls away for a time until they miss a person and then pop back into the love interests life when they feel ready. They are consistantly inconsistant, they think people should hide their emotions and have difficulty expressing themselves. They have deep feelings too but try to push them away and control them due to lack of trust.
  • Stable – This is the personality type that we hope to achieve, a good balance of empathy to know when your partner needs affection and attention, expressing their own emotions and is able to be more vulnerable on a healthy way with their partner. Stable people can be with all 3 personalities because they have the wisdom and empathy to understand the others’ point of view and can tend to their needs without as much emotional turmoil.

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Elementals Series I: The Fire King

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I was visited by an elemental king of fire the other day. He’s been making himself known pretty prominently for the past couple days. So during my next reading I asked what he is responsible for or what he helps out with. I felt a warm sensation on my face and on my arms so through a series of questions I found out that they can warm an area or body part such as when we get upset, embarrassed or angry we’ll feel our face get warm or prickly (fire elementals specifically). I also asked if they’re responsible for creating many of the sensations throughout my body I’ve been experiencing since I took Reiki and I saw clairvoyantly that all the Elementals have something to do with the sensations we feel. When I asked to be cooler during a hot part of the day I first asked for water and that didn’t quite do it. Then I saw the word “air”, so I asked for air and then I cooled down. As the years have gone by I have clairvoyantly seen as well as intuitively received that some of these feelings are controlled by elementals and nature spirits.

Over the years I would ask about different sensations and the answers were consistently elementals or nature spirits rather than my angels. For a week or two after this meeting I wanted to know more about what Elementals do to help us out. After looking through some sources of information seems like they clean up a lot of negative energy in different areas on Earth. In a reading I asked why are they creating some of these unusual sensations such as prickling, warming, heaviness and I received that they wish to help out. One way they can help out is by allowing us to feel the blocks and imbalances that need to be healed by creating some of these sensations in our body and around us. Affirmations, meditation and energy healing such as theta, crystals and Reiki can remove those blocks and imbalances. Energetic blocks can be indicators of what beliefs you have about yourself and the world around you as well as the chakras/meridians/energy fields that need to be cleansed or healed. Know that this is only part of what they do to help us raise our vibration. Use it as an indication that something is out of balance and get your metaphysical tool belt out to clear some stuff out. As we heal, we raise our vibration.

Some items that fire elementals can help out with and given to me in a mediumship reading with a high level fire elemental:

  •  Healing – one worked on my joints the other day, it felt great!
  •  Warming
  •  Energy
  •  Teach or make us feel like going in another direction or to not do something
  •  Remove negative energy & entities
  •  Ground
  •  Protection
  •  Manifesting
  •  Transmute energy (purple flame I was told was not fire elementals, that was connected to Christ energy)

They did want others to know that not all of them are evil, even though many evil characters on TV and movies are pictures associated with fire.  Some fire elementals try to steer you in another direction and that may be done in less pleasant ways but not always for malevolent reasons.  Their healing and grounding can be quite awesome and I would recommend including them not just earth in your grounding routine.  They can also help give you energy and remove negative energy from your body/aura as well.

Common issues:

Fatigue – Wow, this can be multiple things. The simplest answer I can give you is clear the root chakra, or carry a red stone in your pocket. The root chakra seems to be one of the major energy boosting centers. Also imagine red energy in your legs down to your feet while exercising, I’ve noticed this gives me an energy boost. Fatigue could also be someone else’s energies stuck in your energy field. In this case say mentally this is not me and the energy will go away. If it is a block, do a clairsentient body scan and see where the energy is concentrated, then clear chakras and meridians on the spot as well as above and below. The other common reason is lack of enthusiasm, use affirmations for this (“I am enthusiastic about life”, “Love and Joy runs through my arteries and veins”) because sometimes we have to do things we aren’t always thrilled with.

Mental slowness, lack of mental clarity – First check both sides of your throat including the area where the spinal cord meets the skull. Also check chakras in the middle of your head, behind the nose and in the back of your mouth. Second, Ground! Do a great grounding including grounding the back chakras, each of your joints in arms, shoulders and legs. Grounding helps with mental clarity and focus when out of a reading.

Here is a summary of solutions to clear some of the discomfort, fatigue or blocks:

1. Appreciation – say out loud what you appreciate, even if it is materialistic, like “I appreciate my bed, I appreciate my TV, I appreciate the beach…”

2. Mediation with crystals – I highly recommend full chakra sets with grounding stones for your legs. I practice what I preach and sell full sets which include stones for your legs and feet (go here: www.ebay.com/usr/all1059). The additional leg stones can help with anxieties, stress and help you have a more clear flow of energy. I have seen no one else provide a full chakra set which includes feet and knee chakra stones. They really make a difference.

3. Affirmations – Louise Hay has a book, “How to heal your life” that gives you affirmations for the areas where you feel discomfort. Also there are many affirmations on the internet if you google “knee pain affirmation”.

4. Energy healing – Crystals, theta or Reiki as well as many other modalities can help you restore balance and peace.

When I ask what high level elemental beings do, often I am presented with a being that looks like a king, sultan or other royal being.  So far I’ve seen Sultans and Kings representing high level fire beings.

I saw in my reading that elementals and nature spirits would like to be known for what they do to help. They help us throughout the day, either by being our guides through feelings as well as cleaning up the energy around us. An excellent way to feel better is to take a walk outside in nature and you’ll instantly realize how much better the energy is. The other thing I saw clairvoyantly in my reading clearly when I was asking about fire Elementals was lightning. After perusing some of the sources about Elementals I saw them mention lightning as well. I read that fire Elementals might be responsible for much of the energy around us including lightning. One particular source said that they may be responsible for the energy even within our atoms. They also may help with energizing your crystals and stones.

If you have fears concerning elementals and nature spirits due to fairy tales or movies as a child (many of us do), I recommend affirming to yourself that they are kind and always visualize them as such. If something feels wrong assume it is not them, ask and visualize your archangels removing the offending party or energy. If you need more proof that they are here to help go outside on a nice day and see how much better you feel being in nature. I have additional information on how to connect with and notice nature spirits / elements in other blogs on this site or you can sign up for a reading with me to find out more on my psychic mediumship page: www.feathersinfinity.com.

Other articles on elemental beings:

Water
Air
Earth

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Budgets and Financial Abundance practical tips

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Some people find it difficult to dig themselves out of old habits, particularly when it comes to not keeping within their budgets so they can save money. With any habit or lifestyle change it helps to have an easy monitoring system so you can track your progress regularly. When you first begin, monitoring for weight loss is done daily, for budgets it is best to be done daily & weekly until you have a rhythm then you can go monthly.

I have a spreadsheet I look at daily where I track how much I spent that day, then it totals for the week and month. Before you start tracking you need goals and limits you are trying to achieve. To figure out what goals and limits you should have to track you need to look at your past “actuals”, which is essentially what you’ve actually spent in the past few months. You can go back, 3, 6, or 12 months and take an average based on category; categories being groceries, gas, utilities, entertainment, etc. You do this by downloading all your statements from your checking, credit cards and anything else expenses would come out of or go on. After you have all your statements on Excel (often downloaded as *.csv files), separate them by month and combine them in a spreadsheet, all you need is the transaction date, description and the amount. In the next column assign a category such as income, gas, groceries, restaurant etc. Once that is all filled in for each category you can do one of two things based on your Excel expertise. You can filter by month, then by category and sum the amount for that category, saving that number to the side. Or, you can create a pivot table, by month, category and then amount (recommended). With this information you can average by month what you spend on each category. Then create a budget or a standard from which to compare your actuals with every month. If you find that you are spending more than you are making, adjust your budget accordingly but realistically. Typical areas easy to cut are restaurants, groceries, entertainment and clothes. Once you have you plan in place, start a spreadsheet in a place where you will see it everyday, on your cell, your laptop, or at work. Put at the top the categories you need to monitor (not utilities or non-variable expenses like rent, just variable non-essential spending) then list every day what you spend in each appropriate category. Sum by day and by week.

Once you start doing this you can catch yourself at an earlier period of time when you are overspending in a certain category such as going out to eat or clothes. Then you know by let’s say Wednesday that you need to stop going out to eat because you’ve reached your limit for that week on restaurant expenses. At this time I find that I usually get more creative or I start appreciating more of what I already have and own. Particularly what it comes to groceries you can get creative in the kitchen and start mixing and matching what you already have at home. This also helps you spend more time with what you’ve already bought if you’re one of those people who buys things because they interest you at the time but don’t really use them or appreciate them after you’ve brought them home. At the end of the month you will feel much better about how you’re doing financially, your credit card bills will not be much of a surprise and you’ll feel more in control of your expenses. how to create a budget, how to create a budget

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The Past Is Not Your Future

As you can probably imagine I get a lot of calls at this time of the year, being the new year. People usually want to know if some aspect of their life is better than the year past. Before I get to the main point of this article I do want to say to not wait for the beginning of every year to make your life better. Everyday you can do something that makes you happy. Try your best not to rely on others to make you happy but to do the things that move you or motivate you. Whether that’s playing a game on your cell, watch your favorite TV show, cooking/baking something, taking a walk in the park, going to the zoo, or anything else that makes you happy. Start today, don’t wait for the next month or the beginning of the year to have your happiness or results.  You CAN make yourself happy now. The Past is Not your Future,The Past is Not your Future

The main reason for this article was to address something I commonly hear and to give you the advice I received from the other side. Someone mentioned that they hadn’t dated anyone for years and they couldn’t believe that they would have more than one romantic option in 2018.  The answer that I heard from the other side was the future is not your past. Which is very true. Just because it hasn’t happened for the past 5 years does not mean it’s not going to happen this year. Especially if you’ve been working on yourself, you’ve had some sort of Spiritual Awakening, or you’ve done some energy healing on yourself, you can certainly change your vibrations and what you’re bringing to you. So know that the past is not your future and just because it was a pattern in the past doesn’t mean it’s going to happen in your future.

Have a happy and healthy 2018!

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I’m Lonely, Should I Get a Pet to Fill the Emptiness?

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Nope. Yep, you heard that right.  No.  Why? The reason is because that animal is not going to fill the void or make you feel less lonely enough to resolve the real problem. lonely pet, lonely pet

When I do my psychic medium readings often times I will hear ladies make common jokes that if they don’t meet “him” by the age of 40,50, or 60 that they’ll get 5 cats. I tell them that the animal will not be able to fill their emptiness, instead what can happen is you’ll feel worse because when you look at that cat you’ll realize it was not really what you wanted, not to mention common memes out in social media to make you feel pathetic. You can also fall into resentment when you have to care for the animal and realize while you are scooping their litter or trying to give them pills that this is not the life you were wanting after all. The animal, or even 5 of them, will not fill the emptiness you feel. My clients usually agree after I remind them of this.

What are some solutions instead?

  • Ask God for the love you need to not feel lonely feel loved every morning.

“God, please send my the best and highest love from you to me so I don’t feel lonely and I feel loved, whole and complete,  Please and thank you.”

  • Ask God for an unconditional love download.

“God, please send me your unconditional love.  Please and thank you.”  Wait and feel the healing and love coming through until you feel it is complete.

  • Meditate concentrating on the heart chakra (including the chakras along your back) and balancing it with other charkas (I have gorgeous full chakra sets with black tourmaline here: www.ebay.com/usr/all1059)
  • Think about someone who makes you happy – That can be an imaginary friend, lover or someone else but make sure they make you smile.  If you don’t have someone like this, ask God to send you someone, you’ll be glad you did.
  • Reach out to an old friend – It can be someone you haven’t spoken to in a while but someone who you are currently on good terms with.  Many of us have those friends we’ve had for years or decades but only talk to once a quarter or once a year and pick up like there was no time between contacts.
  • Join a meetup group – Meetup.com has great groups of all kinds whether your interest is board games, cards, hiking, bowling, beaches, movies, or food they probably have a group suited to your needs.  Get out there and meet new people!

Need more ideas and custom hints from your angels?  I do psychic medium readings connecting with your archangels and ascended masters.  Go here to view my reading offerings. 

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Depressed or Scared After Your Spiritual Awakening?

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Many people find that fears and depression have increased after their spiritual awakening.  Some of it is because once you discover that we are interconnected you start feeling the energies around you, in the ground, the air, the people you are connected with and those next to you. spiritual awakening

The 3 things that will help lift you up in a hurry are:

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1.  Affirmations – Louise Hay has a number of books, the one I own is “Heal your Life”.  Now that you are so good at feeling things do a self-check. Then look up through either Google or the Louise Hay book where you feel sluggish or in pain. This might be an indication of a belief or might be an actual energy block. Affirmations are lovely, quick ways of clearing those blocks and making you feel better.  Say them out loud 3 times or write them three times for intention.

2. Mediation –  I prefer to mediate laying down on my bed with crystals, which enhances the experience and makes it fun for me.  (Check out my chakra crystal sets here)

3. Appreciation – Look around you room and list off the things you appreciate out loud.  Concentrate on something beautiful and focus on the details.  This will help you ground which will make you less sensitive to the energies around you and will also help refocus your energy on to something more pleasant and positive.

4. Grounding – In your efforts to learn more about the metaphysical I have found that my clients become more ungrounded, resulting in mania, fear, loss of self and anxiety.  I highly recommend receiving some grounding.  Feel free to review in more detail the subject here.

5. Turn off the reading mode – I talk a little bit about empathic modes in another article here.  However, another way I have found to cut off the information is to imagine a black door closing.  The category of people or beings I am cutting off is written above the door (“Friends, family, acquaintances”) and I hang a sign on the front.  Sometimes the sign says “Do Not Disturb”, which gives me privacy, and sometimes it says “Be Kind with your Energies and Entities” which slows down the barrage of information coming from them.  Angels blow out any “lights” extending from my crown, third eye and throat chakras indicating that “I’m on” or receiving information.

The other article I would recommend is to review the emotions, actions and thoughts you may have put into the wrong things in the past.  This may have affected patterns you see today in your life.  I was given insight into reversing what you are attracting that is negative to you and replacing it with more of what you want in my article here: Jacob’s Method of Healing: Law of Attraction.

Another good article to review is my article on finding peace here.

Need more tips?  I offer psychic mediumship readings as well as energy healing.  Follow the links to see current services offered.

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Spiritual Attachments

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A spiritual attachment is a spirit that has attached itself to your energy field/aura. I see them a little balls of energy usually orange or black. If you see them as cute little fuzzy balls of energy I find it helps me not to react in fear.

Some energy or entities that is not yours can cause your energy field to be sluggish or you to not feel like yourself at times. Attachments can take advantage of those just getting into the metaphysical or going through a soul mate roller coaster ride.  I ask every day for God to make my energy field a comfortable size for me for 24 hours and it helps me maintain higher energy levels as you pick up less of other people’s negative energy.
There are some common experiences that can happen when you have an unwelcome spiritual attachment, although some can be from having other issues:

  • Nausea that a doctor can’t explain
  • Aches and pain in different areas of your body (this can be multiple things as well)
  • Shoulder, head or neck discomfort
  • Your life is very overly melodramatic.
  • People around you are over reacting to your presence and things you say. Many times the energy is interfering with your relationships.
  • You keep getting ill and cannot seem to shake the cycle of illness.
  • Chronic depression
  • Drug and alcohol addictions.

Interested in getting some help? I recommend Theta healing which I can provide over the phone and in person at Psychic Fairs.  Go to my energy healing page to set up an appointment.

Other tips:
1) Before you enter your home ask Archangel Michael or David to remove any spiritual attachments to you that are no longer serving you in the best and highest way. Be present, feel the healing, and wait until you feel better then enter your home.
2) Ask God to put a shield around you every morning that prevents you from having spiritual attachments with entities that have vibrations less than your angels and guides for 24 hours. Visualize an electric field around you and little balls of black and orange bouncing off of them.
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4) Meditate with stones that specifically help with spiritual attachments. Black tourmaline is one of my personal favorites. Jet, labradorite, fluorite, blue kyanite are some others.  I sell full chakra crystal sets here.
5) Ask Archangel Raphael during your next meditation to heal your energy field and aura in the best possible way for you.
6) Meditate with crystals and stones, from head to toe, asking your angels to help remove what is no longer serving you and what doesn’t belong to you.
7)  Ask Archangel Michael to remove cords to others who no longer serve you and then visualize him remove them. spirit attachment

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What is Ego?

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A lot of people in the metaphysical and psychological community talk about the ego. They describe it as a person or being that is working against us, something to be attacked and conquered. At some point in the middle of my energy healing journey I was questioning that and for whatever reason that didn’t quite jive with me.

I became interested in egos when I found that I couldn’t stay humble or say that I was sorry for something when I knew I should.  It was like a block that prevented me from saying or acting in a certain way, and it was affecting my relationships, keeping me separate from others.

So I asked my angels and God to send me to the right literature that would accurately tell me what is “ego”.  When I scanned through different metaphysical and psychological literature none of it felt right at that time. Usually I am very good at selecting the right books for me so I knew this meant something significant.  Eventually I received clairvoyantly what it was while at work.

What they showed me was that it was a layer in the energy field around people. They showed it as just a black sheet in one of the layers on my back side. It wasn’t a person or spirit, which really made it less scary.  Knowing this I asked God to heal my ego’s in the best highest way for me, ending in please and thank you. Instantly, this helped me by removing the blocks I was experiencing that were preventing me from being humble and from saying I’m sorry. Some people feel like egos actually protect us, and in some ways I can see that because it prevents you from doing things you don’t want to that make you feel low, such as saying you’re sorry. However, it also hinders us as it keeps us disconnected, because people won’t always tolerate arrogance or someone treating them badly without apologizing.  There are times in social situations where you have to act humble, even if you are good at something, to better get along with others.  I would highly recommend most, if not everyone, do this healing.  You can say it verbatim as I’ve listed below:

” God, please heal my ego’s in the best highest play for me, please and thank you.”

Then, if you’d like, visualize a black layer of your energy field being removed and replaced with green healing light.  If you are more of a Clairsentient, or someone who likes to feel their healing, wait until you feel a tingling or warming sensation dissipate. ego

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