Clairaudience blocks and imbalances

I had a client come to me for problems with her love life. So I was helping her with her love life I got a vision that sometimes she hears negative voices. She told me her solution was to say “Return to Sender”. We started to talk about her clairaudience a bit and it was explained to me through the reading by spirit guides that she has some blocks and imbalances on her side chakras and meridians. Then they showed me an image of a donut and I got concept that we spend a lot of time healing our front and back chakras and meridians, but we don’t always pay attention to the sides. Donuts will be more tan on the front and back but their sides will be a lighter color due to less direct contact with the oil while cooking (see image). So I relay this information to her to heal her side chakras’ and meridians’ blocks and imbalances that will help with the backups of negative energy that her system may be interpreting is negative voices. I have also noticed when you concentrate on healing the sides that it helps you better ground to Mother Earth, therefore release some of other people’s energies, and help you focus.

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Grounding, Basics

One common side effect of being ungrounded is a lack of mental clarity, where it is hard to concentrate and focus as you used to (light headedness). Here are some common symptoms of being ungrounded:

-Loss of focus

-Feeling less intelligent

-Swift changing moods

-Hunger that can’t be satisfied

-Feeling more drained or fatigued than you’ve ever felt

-Anxieties that are not explainable

-Feeling everything and everyone around you

I talk a lot about grounding, and I’ve included additional methods and modes in the past, but I haven’t done a basic grounding blog as I figured it has been covered quite a bit on the internet. However, it has come up multiple times this past week so I decided to get it done. There are many YouTube meditations on this as well.

Do this when you get up in the morning and whenever you feel you are getting less grounded again. Grounding does not negatively affect your metaphysical abilities, think of it as you are washing them off in a waterfall, washing away the psychic “dirt” and when you come up again you can see clearer. Hopefully that helps some of you with your fears of grounding. If you have other fears of grounding, ask your archangels to heal them on all levels before you go to bed for the next 7 nights.

Method:

First imagine God sweeping away all the energies from the environments, family, friends, strangers that you may have absorbed and sprinkling them back towards where they came from. Then imagine any energy that you’ve left behind in the environment and with other people, including those you think a lot about like soulmates, coming back to you in a transmuted positive form, commonly seen in green.

Close your eyes and visualize black cords from the core of the earth extend up until they hook on to your feet, hips and end of your spine. I usually ask for this connection to core for 24 hours and wait for mother earth to acknowledge with a check mark clairvoyantly. Visualize the rest of your body turn into the branches and the leaves, extending into your energy field and your energy field turning a dark green as well as the rest of your body. Visualize air blowing away any energetic debris, then a waterfall wash over you to toss energies to the ground where they become soaked into the earth. Lastly visualize green fire surrounding you and your energy field, dissolving any negative energy or energies that no longer serve you. Using this process you will have used all 4 elements.

Imagine antennae that extend from the crown of your head open to a river of energy above you, representing the energy of others, their thoughts another spiritual information. Imagine those antennae retracting down back into your head.

Lastly if you’ve been doing a lot of spiritual work I highly recommend visualizing God turning down a nobb like you’re turning down the volume of something until you feel your energy become more grounded and less high vibrational. This will help bring you peace as well.

Sometimes after a very ungrounding reading I’ll take an actual shower, and light candles asking for grounding, open windows for air to blow in and put black stones in my pockets for additional intention. You should feel your feet become heavier, like putting on heavier boots and they should stay that way for the length of the time you ask. Lastly, visualize any portals open in your home closing (or around you if outside the home). I usually see a field of energy sweep through the home, closing any portals as it scans through like a copy machine.

You can also visualize your home grounding its energy as well. I usually see a forest in the home, with a stream of water in the middle, campfire, lightning bugs in the air, air blowing through the forest rustling the leaves. This way you are incorporating all 4 elements in your grounding visualization.

There are other guided meditations for grounding online but they do take rather a long period of time. In the morning I usually like to get going, so you can do this in the shower or in bed. Also, if you are clairsentient, check out my blog on how to maintain your energies so you can clear more of what no longer serves you.

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When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Tell You How He Feels

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I do many readings for others and many of my readings are with a woman that are attracted to a guy who she keeps in good contact with but he’s not revealing his feelings enough to her verbally. Clients often ask me why they have this pattern where the man is not revealing his feelings enough in the relationship. Many times I will receive that he reveals feelings in others ways as verbal expression can be difficult depending on how he was raised.  Other ways can be acts of service, affirmations, quality time, physical gifts and longer than usual eye contact.  Check out my 5 love languages article for more on this.

 

Some of this can be explained by Attachment Theory as someone is attracted to another person who is what they call an “avoidant” and it makes the client very anxious waiting for some sort of validation of his feelings in a verbal sense.  These personality times have some psychological challenges to work through and can be a difficult partner for someone who gets anxious with separation.

The third reason that comes up is metaphysical.  If you see the same pattern come up in your life where your partners have trouble expressing emotion, law of attraction may be sending you the same person with similar patterns.  Look into your past.  How many people in your life act similarly in ways that bother you?  How much time, attention, action and feeling have you put into these people?  Many times these people were just in you life from the get go, like parents, but over the years you have put energy, thought, feeling and action into people with similar personality traits.   To manifest according to the book “The Secret” by Rhonda Bryne it helps to put thought, feeling, and action behind what you want.  According to this book the law doesn’t really discriminate “bad” versus “good” desires, if you put the energy into it it is possible to get the same thing out over and over again.  Now I do believe that spiritual forces protect us from ourselves but they do show us the same patterns as well so we can correct for it.

Some clients ask me how do I stop this pattern of being with these guys that don’t openly express their feelings. My recommendation is two fold. First reverse you’re thinking and reactions when you encounter someone who openly shows emotion. If you find yourself taking a step back in fear the problem may not be the person that is expressing themselves; it may be time to look at why you’re uncomfortable with someone showing you affection. The second recommendation is to look for either a behavioral psychiatrist who can do some sort of hypnotherapy on your subconscious or a Theta healer who essentially does the same thing but on multiple metaphysical levels including past lives, soul level, current life and genetic levels. My own Theta Healing also concentrates on the mind or mental level as well as the Akashic records. Theta healing removes the negative beliefs and fears that cause you to react this way and replaces them with something more positive and in line with what you really want.  If you’d like to look at some of my energy healing options feel free to look on my website here.   I also do psychic mediumship readings here.

Additional Reading:

The Secret” by Rhonda Bryne

Attached” by Amir Levine

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray

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Do Nothing: Finding Peace

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This past weekend I was doing theta healing on myself, and I was going through areas to work on. At some point I was asked what I wanted. I thought peace.

At some point we’d like to just chill. Not stress, not worry, not feel an obligation to be productive. As I am told by my guides & angels, “to do nothing”. Then when I make up in my mind that I will do nothing, this is “do nothing time”, I relax.

The healing visualization I wanted to impart to you that was clairvoyantly given to me was to imagine a white bubble around yourself and energies. Imagine a dove on it, and the word peace written on it. Relax your muscles and tell yourself this is do nothing time and concentrate on the white dove bubble.

Second, imagine God removing all energies you’ve picked up or absorbed around the world. Friends, family, soul mates, places. Imagine God releasing them back to where they came from. Now imagine every where your energy may have gone as well, including those you may have read, healed, thought about, even energy in stores you have stopped by that day. Imagine God’s hand above the Earth vacuuming that energy up transforming it green as in healing it and and then returning it back to you in healed form. End with please and thank you God.

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Reiki lotion, How to Relieve Joint Pain and Anxiety

I wanted to impart some knowledge I gained over the weekend that really helped me to relax and unwind after a long, active week. I can fill up my day with a lot of activities and sometimes it helps to have a way to relax mentally as well as physically. For those of you dealing with anxiety or with muscle aches or pains this should help you out. I learned online that you can use essential oils specifically lavender, eucalyptus, and peppermint to help relax your muscles and joints. Essential oils work on multiple levels and in multiple ways.

I already had these essential oils available to me as I use them for my candle manifesting. All three are good for healing when using them in conjunction with your candles. Peppermint has the added benefit of increasing more positive energy both in the environment as well as when you inhale it. I also drink mint and peppermint tea help me relax.

How to: Take an aloe based lotion of your choice, about 2-3 ounces, and combine it with two drops of each of these essential oils: peppermint, lavender, and eucalyptus. With the mixing container in hand you can also apply any energy healing you know into the lotion as well.  Then stir the lotion together to combine with the oils and rub the lotion from shoulder to toe or only use on your joints.

The lotion feels really good by itself but for an extra relaxing, luxurious feeling apply it while in a nice warm bubble bath with some sea salts.

I also apply energy healing to my lotions for additional grounding effect.  You can buy my reiki lotions and other bath products at my store here.

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Why He is Not Calling and What You Can Do About It. Attachment Theory.

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Are you stuck in an unequal relationship that displays any of these characteristics:

– He doesn’t follow up with contact
– He doesn’t initiate enough or give you enough attention
– He isn’t expressing his feelings but you can tell he has them
– You find yourself in cycles of push/pull, hot/cold, chase/run

I highly recommend this book on attachment theory. It discusses each of the types and how to best deal with their behaviorial issues.

It talks about both perspectives, why you are stuck having feelings for this person who doesnt give you enough love back and why they are pulling away, occasionally coming back to string you along. While there may be deeper metaphysical issues as well which we can discuss in a reading here : www.feathersinfinity.com, this book does give some great pointers on what to heal as well as how to react to your love interest. Sometimes knowing why they are acting this way helps us to react less emotionally and take it less personally.

The books discusses 3 types, the anxious, the stable and the avoidant.

In summary (we can be a mix of any 3 of theThe Anxious – This person is always wondering why he doesnt call, why he doesnt initiate the dates or contact enough, and feels they are constantly chasing someone who does not show enough appreciation for them. However they find themselves in love with the other party, stuck in an unending cycle, hoping he’ll change. Often times lack of action from their love interest ruins their day or part of their day and can be a source of anxiety for the person.

  • Avoidant – An avoidant personality wants to maintain their independence, is afraid of getting hurt but tries not to show it, and often pulls away for a time until they miss a person and then pop back into the love interests life when they feel ready. They are consistantly inconsistant, they think people should hide their emotions and have difficulty expressing themselves. They have deep feelings too but try to push them away and control them due to lack of trust.
  • Stable – This is the personality type that we hope to achieve, a good balance of empathy to know when your partner needs affection and attention, expressing their own emotions and is able to be more vulnerable on a healthy way with their partner. Stable people can be with all 3 personalities because they have the wisdom and empathy to understand the others’ point of view and can tend to their needs without as much emotional turmoil.

Elementals Series I: The Fire King

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I was visited by an elemental king of fire the other day. He’s been making himself known pretty prominently for the past couple days. So during my next reading I asked what he is responsible for or what he helps out with. I felt a warm sensation on my face and on my arms so through a series of questions I found out that they can warm an area or body part such as when we get upset, embarrassed or angry we’ll feel our face get warm or prickly (fire elementals specifically). I also asked if they’re responsible for creating many of the sensations throughout my body I’ve been experiencing since I took Reiki and I saw clairvoyantly that all the Elementals have something to do with the sensations we feel. When I asked to be cooler during a hot part of the day I first asked for water and that didn’t quite do it. Then I saw the word “air”, so I asked for air and then I cooled down. As the years have gone by I have clairvoyantly seen as well as intuitively received that some of these feelings are controlled by elementals and nature spirits.

Over the years I would ask about different sensations and the answers were consistently elementals or nature spirits rather than my angels. For a week or two after this meeting I wanted to know more about what Elementals do to help us out. After looking through some sources of information seems like they clean up a lot of negative energy in different areas on Earth. In a reading I asked why are they creating some of these unusual sensations such as prickling, warming, heaviness and I received that they wish to help out. One way they can help out is by allowing us to feel the blocks and imbalances that need to be healed by creating some of these sensations in our body and around us. Affirmations, meditation and energy healing such as theta, crystals and Reiki can remove those blocks and imbalances. Energetic blocks can be indicators of what beliefs you have about yourself and the world around you as well as the chakras/meridians/energy fields that need to be cleansed or healed. Know that this is only part of what they do to help us raise our vibration. Use it as an indication that something is out of balance and get your metaphysical tool belt out to clear some stuff out. As we heal, we raise our vibration.

Some items that fire elementals can help out with and given to me in a mediumship reading with a high level fire elemental:

  •  Healing – one worked on my joints the other day, it felt great!
  •  Warming
  •  Energy
  •  Teach or make us feel like going in another direction or to not do something
  •  Remove negative energy & entities
  •  Ground
  •  Protection
  •  Manifesting
  •  Transmute energy (purple flame I was told was not fire elementals, that was connected to Christ energy)

They did want others to know that not all of them are evil, even though many evil characters on TV and movies are pictures associated with fire.  Some fire elementals try to steer you in another direction and that may be done in less pleasant ways but not always for malevolent reasons.  Their healing and grounding can be quite awesome and I would recommend including them not just earth in your grounding routine.  They can also help give you energy and remove negative energy from your body/aura as well.

Common issues:

Fatigue – Wow, this can be multiple things. The simplest answer I can give you is clear the root chakra, or carry a red stone in your pocket. The root chakra seems to be one of the major energy boosting centers. Also imagine red energy in your legs down to your feet while exercising, I’ve noticed this gives me an energy boost. Fatigue could also be someone else’s energies stuck in your energy field. In this case say mentally this is not me and the energy will go away. If it is a block, do a clairsentient body scan and see where the energy is concentrated, then clear chakras and meridians on the spot as well as above and below. The other common reason is lack of enthusiasm, use affirmations for this (“I am enthusiastic about life”, “Love and Joy runs through my arteries and veins”) because sometimes we have to do things we aren’t always thrilled with.

Mental slowness, lack of mental clarity – First check both sides of your throat including the area where the spinal cord meets the skull. Also check chakras in the middle of your head, behind the nose and in the back of your mouth. Second, Ground! Do a great grounding including grounding the back chakras, each of your joints in arms, shoulders and legs. Grounding helps with mental clarity and focus when out of a reading.

Here is a summary of solutions to clear some of the discomfort, fatigue or blocks:

1. Appreciation – say out loud what you appreciate, even if it is materialistic, like “I appreciate my bed, I appreciate my TV, I appreciate the beach…”

2. Mediation with crystals – I highly recommend full chakra sets with grounding stones for your legs. I practice what I preach and sell full sets which include stones for your legs and feet (go here: www.ebay.com/usr/all1059). The additional leg stones can help with anxieties, stress and help you have a more clear flow of energy. I have seen no one else provide a full chakra set which includes feet and knee chakra stones. They really make a difference.

3. Affirmations – Louise Hay has a book, “How to heal your life” that gives you affirmations for the areas where you feel discomfort. Also there are many affirmations on the internet if you google “knee pain affirmation”.

4. Energy healing – Crystals, theta or Reiki as well as many other modalities can help you restore balance and peace.

When I ask what high level elemental beings do, often I am presented with a being that looks like a king, sultan or other royal being.  So far I’ve seen Sultans and Kings representing high level fire beings.

I saw in my reading that elementals and nature spirits would like to be known for what they do to help. They help us throughout the day, either by being our guides through feelings as well as cleaning up the energy around us. An excellent way to feel better is to take a walk outside in nature and you’ll instantly realize how much better the energy is. The other thing I saw clairvoyantly in my reading clearly when I was asking about fire Elementals was lightning. After perusing some of the sources about Elementals I saw them mention lightning as well. I read that fire Elementals might be responsible for much of the energy around us including lightning. One particular source said that they may be responsible for the energy even within our atoms. They also may help with energizing your crystals and stones.

If you have fears concerning elementals and nature spirits due to fairy tales or movies as a child (many of us do), I recommend affirming to yourself that they are kind and always visualize them as such. If something feels wrong assume it is not them, ask and visualize your archangels removing the offending party or energy. If you need more proof that they are here to help go outside on a nice day and see how much better you feel being in nature. I have additional information on how to connect with and notice nature spirits / elements in other blogs on this site or you can sign up for a reading with me to find out more on my psychic mediumship page: www.feathersinfinity.com.

Other articles on elemental beings:

Water
Air
Earth

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Budgets and Financial Abundance practical tips

Some people find it difficult to dig themselves out of old habits, particularly when it comes to not keeping within their budgets so they can save money. With any habit or lifestyle change it helps to have an easy monitoring system so you can track your progress regularly. When you first begin, monitoring for weight loss is done daily, for budgets it is best to be done daily & weekly until you have a rhythm then you can go monthly.

I have a spreadsheet I look at daily where I track how much I spent that day, then it totals for the week and month. Before you start tracking you need goals and limits you are trying to achieve. To figure out what goals and limits you should have to track you need to look at your past “actuals”, which is essentially what you’ve actually spent in the past few months. You can go back, 3, 6, or 12 months and take an average based on category; categories being groceries, gas, utilities, entertainment, etc. You do this by downloading all your statements from your checking, credit cards and anything else expenses would come out of or go on. After you have all your statements on Excel (often downloaded as *.csv files), separate them by month and combine them in a spreadsheet, all you need is the transaction date, description and the amount. In the next column assign a category such as income, gas, groceries, restaurant etc. Once that is all filled in for each category you can do one of two things based on your Excel expertise. You can filter by month, then by category and sum the amount for that category, saving that number to the side. Or, you can create a pivot table, by month, category and then amount (recommended). With this information you can average by month what you spend on each category. Then create a budget or a standard from which to compare your actuals with every month. If you find that you are spending more than you are making, adjust your budget accordingly but realistically. Typical areas easy to cut are restaurants, groceries, entertainment and clothes. Once you have you plan in place, start a spreadsheet in a place where you will see it everyday, on your cell, your laptop, or at work. Put at the top the categories you need to monitor (not utilities or non-variable expenses like rent, just variable non-essential spending) then list every day what you spend in each appropriate category. Sum by day and by week.

Once you start doing this you can catch yourself at an earlier period of time when you are overspending in a certain category such as going out to eat or clothes. Then you know by let’s say Wednesday that you need to stop going out to eat because you’ve reached your limit for that week on restaurant expenses. At this time I find that I usually get more creative or I start appreciating more of what I already have and own. Particularly what it comes to groceries you can get creative in the kitchen and start mixing and matching what you already have at home. This also helps you spend more time with what you’ve already bought if you’re one of those people who buys things because they interest you at the time but don’t really use them or appreciate them after you’ve brought them home. At the end of the month you will feel much better about how you’re doing financially, your credit card bills will not be much of a surprise and you’ll feel more in control of your expenses. how to create a budget, how to create a budget

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The Past Is Not Your Future

As you can probably imagine I get a lot of calls at this time of the year, being the new year. People usually want to know if some aspect of their life is better than the year past. Before I get to the main point of this article I do want to say to not wait for the beginning of every year to make your life better. Everyday you can do something that makes you happy. Try your best not to rely on others to make you happy but to do the things that move you or motivate you. Whether that’s playing a game on your cell, watch your favorite TV show, cooking/baking something, taking a walk in the park, going to the zoo, or anything else that makes you happy. Start today, don’t wait for the next month or the beginning of the year to have your happiness or results.  You CAN make yourself happy now. The Past is Not your Future,The Past is Not your Future

The main reason for this article was to address something I commonly hear and to give you the advice I received from the other side. Someone mentioned that they hadn’t dated anyone for years and they couldn’t believe that they would have more than one romantic option in 2018.  The answer that I heard from the other side was the future is not your past. Which is very true. Just because it hasn’t happened for the past 5 years does not mean it’s not going to happen this year. Especially if you’ve been working on yourself, you’ve had some sort of Spiritual Awakening, or you’ve done some energy healing on yourself, you can certainly change your vibrations and what you’re bringing to you. So know that the past is not your future and just because it was a pattern in the past doesn’t mean it’s going to happen in your future.

Have a happy and healthy 2018!

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I’m Lonely, Should I Get a Pet to Fill the Emptiness?

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Nope. Yep, you heard that right.  No.  Why? The reason is because that animal is not going to fill the void or make you feel less lonely enough to resolve the real problem. lonely pet, lonely pet

When I do my psychic medium readings often times I will hear ladies make common jokes that if they don’t meet “him” by the age of 40,50, or 60 that they’ll get 5 cats. I tell them that the animal will not be able to fill their emptiness, instead what can happen is you’ll feel worse because when you look at that cat you’ll realize it was not really what you wanted, not to mention common memes out in social media to make you feel pathetic. You can also fall into resentment when you have to care for the animal and realize while you are scooping their litter or trying to give them pills that this is not the life you were wanting after all. The animal, or even 5 of them, will not fill the emptiness you feel. My clients usually agree after I remind them of this.

What are some solutions instead?

Ask God for the love you need to not feel lonely feel loved every morning.

“God, please send my the best and highest love from you to me so I don’t feel lonely and I feel loved, whole and complete,  Please and thank you.”

– Ask God for an unconditional love download.

“God, please send me your unconditional love.  Please and thank you.”  Wait and feel the healing and love coming through until you feel it is complete.

– Meditate concentrating on the heart chakra (including the chakras along your back) and balancing it with other charkas (I have gorgeous full chakra sets with black tourmaline here: www.ebay.com/usr/all1059)

Think about someone who makes you happy – That can be an imaginary friend, lover or someone else but make sure they make you smile.  If you don’t have someone like this, ask God to send you someone, you’ll be glad you did.

Reach out to an old friend – It can be someone you haven’t spoken to in a while but someone who you are currently on good terms with.  Many of us have those friends we’ve had for years or decades but only talk to once a quarter or once a year and pick up like there was no time between contacts.

Join a meetup group – Meetup.com has great groups of all kinds whether your interest is board games, cards, hiking, bowling, beaches, movies, or food they probably have a group suited to your needs.  Get out there and meet new people!

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Depressed or Scared After Your Spiritual Awakening?

Many people find that fears and depression have increased after their spiritual awakening.  Some of it is because once you discover that we are interconnected you start feeling the energies around you, in the ground, the air, the people you are connected with and those next to you. spiritual awakening

The 3 things that will help lift you up in a hurry are:

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1.  Affirmations – Louise Hay has a number of books, the one I own is “Heal your Life”.  Now that you are so good at feeling things do a self-check. Then look up through either Google or the Louise Hay book where you feel sluggish or in pain. This might be an indication of a belief or might be an actual energy block. Affirmations are lovely, quick ways of clearing those blocks and making you feel better.  Say them out loud 3 times or write them three times for intention.

2. Mediation –  I prefer to mediate laying down on my bed with crystals, which enhances the experience and makes it fun for me.  (Check out my chakra crystal sets here)

3. Appreciation – Look around you room and list off the things you appreciate out loud.  Concentrate on something beautiful and focus on the details.  This will help you ground which will make you less sensitive to the energies around you and will also help refocus your energy on to something more pleasant and positive.

4. Grounding – In your efforts to learn more about the metaphysical I have found that my clients become more ungrounded, resulting in mania, fear, loss of self and anxiety.  I highly recommend receiving some grounding.  Feel free to review in more detail the subject here.

5. Turn off the reading mode – I talk a little bit about empathic modes in another article here.  However, another way I have found to cut off the information is to imagine a black door closing.  The category of people or beings I am cutting off is written above the door (“Friends, family, acquaintances”) and I hang a sign on the front.  Sometimes the sign says “Do Not Disturb”, which gives me privacy, and sometimes it says “Be Kind with your Energies and Entities” which slows down the barrage of information coming from them.  Angels blow out any “lights” extending from my crown, third eye and throat chakras indicating that “I’m on” or receiving information.

The other article I would recommend is to review the emotions, actions and thoughts you may have put into the wrong things in the past.  This may have affected patterns you see today in your life.  I was given insight into reversing what you are attracting that is negative to you and replacing it with more of what you want in my article here: Jacob’s Method of Healing: Law of Attraction.

Another good article to review is my article on finding peace here.

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Spiritual Attachments

A spiritual attachment is a spirit that has attached itself to your energy field/aura. I see them a little balls of energy usually orange or black. If you see them as cute little fuzzy balls of energy I find it helps me not to react in fear.

Some energy or entities that is not yours can cause your energy field to be sluggish or you to not feel like yourself at times. Attachments can take advantage of those just getting into the metaphysical or going through a soul mate roller coaster ride.  I ask every day for God to make my energy field a comfortable size for me for 24 hours and it helps me maintain higher energy levels as you pick up less of other people’s negative energy.
There are some common experiences that can happen when you have an unwelcome spiritual attachment, although some can be from having other issues:

  • Nausea that a doctor can’t explain
  • Aches and pain in different areas of your body (this can be multiple things as well)
  • Shoulder, head or neck discomfort
  • Your life is very overly melodramatic.
  • People around you are over reacting to your presence and things you say. Many times the energy is interfering with your relationships.
  • You keep getting ill and cannot seem to shake the cycle of illness.
  • Chronic depression
  • Drug and alcohol addictions.

Interested in getting some help? I recommend Theta healing which I can provide over the phone and in person at Psychic Fairs.  Go to my energy healing page to set up an appointment.

Other tips:
1) Before you enter your home ask Archangel Michael or David to remove any spiritual attachments to you that are no longer serving you in the best and highest way. Be present, feel the healing, and wait until you feel better then enter your home.
2) Ask God to put a shield around you every morning that prevents you from having spiritual attachments with entities that have vibrations less than your angels and guides for 24 hours. Visualize an electric field around you and little balls of black and orange bouncing off of them.
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4) Meditate with stones that specifically help with spiritual attachments. Black tourmaline is one of my personal favorites. Jet, labradorite, fluorite, blue kyanite are some others.  I sell full chakra crystal sets here.
5) Ask Archangel Raphael during your next meditation to heal your energy field and aura in the best possible way for you.
6) Meditate with crystals and stones, from head to toe, asking your angels to help remove what is no longer serving you and what doesn’t belong to you.
7)  Ask Archangel Michael to remove cords to others who no longer serve you and then visualize him remove them. spirit attachment

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What is Ego?

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A lot of people in the metaphysical and psychological community talk about the ego. They describe it as a person or being that is working against us, something to be attacked and conquered. At some point in the middle of my energy healing journey I was questioning that and for whatever reason that didn’t quite jive with me.

I became interested in egos when I found that I couldn’t stay humble or say that I was sorry for something when I knew I should.  It was like a block that prevented me from saying or acting in a certain way, and it was affecting my relationships, keeping me separate from others.

So I asked my angels and God to send me to the right literature that would accurately tell me what is “ego”.  When I scanned through different metaphysical and psychological literature none of it felt right at that time. Usually I am very good at selecting the right books for me so I knew this meant something significant.  Eventually I received clairvoyantly what it was while at work.

What they showed me was that it was a layer in the energy field around people. They showed it as just a black sheet in one of the layers on my back side. It wasn’t a person or spirit, which really made it less scary.  Knowing this I asked God to heal my ego’s in the best highest way for me, ending in please and thank you. Instantly, this helped me by removing the blocks I was experiencing that were preventing me from being humble and from saying I’m sorry. Some people feel like egos actually protect us, and in some ways I can see that because it prevents you from doing things you don’t want to that make you feel low, such as saying you’re sorry. However, it also hinders us as it keeps us disconnected, because people won’t always tolerate arrogance or someone treating them badly without apologizing.  There are times in social situations where you have to act humble, even if you are good at something, to better get along with others.  I would highly recommend most, if not everyone, do this healing.  You can say it verbatim as I’ve listed below:

” God, please heal my ego’s in the best highest play for me, please and thank you.”

Then, if you’d like, visualize a black layer of your energy field being removed and replaced with green healing light.  If you are more of a Clairsentient, or someone who likes to feel their healing, wait until you feel a tingling or warming sensation dissipate. ego

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Love Spells or Magic?

I used to get this question a lot when I first started doing readings and I haven’t encountered it much lately. However  recently it’s come to mind that maybe some people still need this question answered.

My clients used to ask me if a love spell that they paid for from another psychic/wiccan worked on their person of interest. In other words would that person love them or react to them more lovingly. Whenever I asked the Archangels, Jesus, or God this question I always received a no. Think about it from this perspective. At some point in your life you’re going to encounter someone who has a romantic interest in you but you don’t have feelings for them. Many times this can be a lesson for them or some sort of motivation to change something in their lives. Whatever their journey is, it is unfortunate and it happens to most of us. Now consider that this person might go and pay someone to cast a spell on you so that you love them back. How would that make you feel? Many times I hear psychics talk about free will and it has been a constant question in my mind how much free will really exists and how much we’re being led through our feelings that are created by God or our angels. In any case, to get to the point, I think that there are number of reasons why whatever these people have paid for doesn’t work. It may have to do with free will, that we are protected at all times or that this person has a lesson to learn. In summary, it doesn’t look like these “spells” work, however they are delivered (no I don’t know how to do a love spell so don’t ask), so save your money.

Instead I would highly recommend you do healing on yourself. Throughout the years as I did healing on myself I found that more people found me attractive.  I think this is because I’ve risen my vibration, I’m happier on the inside and outside, and I make others feel better around me. That’s the best advice I can give you, is to rather heal yourself internally rather than send energy outward towards someone else. Your conscience will thank you and you’ll have one less thing to forgive yourself for later, not to mention way more options for Romance. 😉

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Candle Manifesting

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I’ve been using candles to help manifest the things that I desire for a number of years now and found them to be wonderful, positive tools. Some people tell you to buy expensive candles through metaphysical stores although I’d have to say most of the candles I use are tealights and 7 day candles (that really only last 3 days) that you find in grocery stores with pictures of Archangels or ascended masters on them. I’m going to share with you some ways that I use candles to help manifest the things I desire.

I use a number of tealights throughout the day for boosting my psychic mediumship abilities, financial abundance, losing weight, and for blessings to others when they ask for it. During full and new moon cycles I usually light three to four candles to ask for my main goals (vision boards) and then surround them with a full chakra set of Crystals and Stones. When you do intend to use candles to manifest things that you desire first start off blessing your candles either with Reiki or asking God to bless your candles. Then ask God to remove any negative energy when using or manifesting the candles that may have happened either when you’re praying or during the manifesting process (sometimes negative thoughts creep in).  End with please and thank you for intention and visualize this happening.  When I visualize the negative energy leaving I see a colors other than blue, white or green leaving the candle and God putting it in a vat of gold to transmute into positive energy. Then visualize God replacing the energy in the candle with green, blue or white light. Start off with two prayers and hold your candles when you are saying these prayers, I usually do the Our Father and the Hail Mary but you can use whatever to prayers you’re comfortable with. Then after you are finished with your prayers you ask for what you desire but in an appreciative tone as if you already have what you desire. For instance, “thank you for my new job”, “thank you for making me a protected clairvoyant and intuitive psychic medium”, “thank you for my financial abundance”, “thank you for helping me lose fat”, and “thank you for the great clients of customers I have”.  Once you’ve decided on what you are going to ask for, say it out loud while holding the candle three times in a row. Number 3 is significant; think of the Trinity or the triquetra and other religious & spiritual symbols associated with the number three. After you have asked for what you wanted, light the candle and then end with two prayers.

Green candles are great for using when you are attempting to manifest abundance, money, or luck. I usually light 1 to 3 green candles a week to manifest financial abundance for myself. A lot of people ask for abundance in their lives but if it’s really money that you want not just more stuff I recommend asking for financial abundance. You can also ask for a new job using the green candle with Saint Judas Tadeo on the front that you can find in the tortilla section of your local grocery store.  White candles are great to use around the house for safety and protection. Blue candles have been used in the past for healing. Some individuals put additional spices such a cinnamon or essential oils on top of the candle before they light it; this adds additional intention and can be useful as well. I have only used cinnamon, frankincense, and some other oils in the past. I do find them helpful and fun to add to the process. There are whole books and blogs written on the different spices and oils that can help you manifest what you desire so I would recommend Googling what you’re looking for, whether that is abundance or weight loss or healing, to find the right combination of candle color and other associated spices & oils.

An additional tip is to put your candles in areas of the house that have been denoted by feng shui as areas good for abundance or love depending on what you’re asking for. The south east corner is supposed to be good for money & abundance and the south west corner is supposed to be good for your love life.

Happy manifesting!

Destiny, Soul Mates and “Meant to Be”

Original article by Psychic Medium Andrea.  

I get this question a lot when doing psychic mediumship readings for others. “Are we meant to be?”, “Are we destined to be together?” or “Is it written in stone that we are to be together?”  I asked my Archangels and Jesus, who I usually connect to during a reading, what the answer was. It seems like there are several scenarios. One scenario is that two people are meant to meet, meant to be together to produce children who’s souls they are meant to journey with and learn from. In this scenario, they can still stay together or split at the end after the children are produced depending on free will and whether they work out their issues.  Our parents didn’t split as much as later generations because of cultural and familial pressure, not to mention it was much harder to be a single mother before the 1990’s.   The second scenario seems to be that the two are meant to meet in a lifetime, and learn relationship lessons with each other.  It doesn’t always mean they will be together in a romantic relationship but they were still meant to meet, which gets confusing to many of my clients.  The connection feels so strong they think the connection itself will do the work for them.  The length of the relationship in this latter scenario seems to rely more on whether they work on their issues.  Put into the mix people’s own pride, beliefs and fears and the relationship becomes more complex.

Many times I do receive that two people were meant to meet, but they may not always work out usually due to communication issues. Communication issues, commonly the lack of expressing emotion, feelings and their interest for the other person, is one of the most common scenarios I run into in relationship readings to date. Many of these issues arise from societal and cultural beliefs that we pick up from many different sources such as family, friends, media, movies and co-workers.  Many parents still tell boys to not show emotion, although hopefully that is taking a turn for the better from what I’ve seen of the millennial generation. This leaves many women wondering what their men think and want.  It leaves them frustrated, especially in the world of texting where women expect an immediate answer to their text as we know our cell phones are near us most of the time. We also tell ourselves to be independent and not rely on others, creating the anxious/avoidant (push/pull, chase/run) dynamic seen in attachment theory.  Other common scenarios I encounter is one person wants the other to reach out as they are too afraid to reach out themselves and not receive an answer (fear of rejection). If one person feels this way it is very possible the other person is feeling the same, leaving them in a stalemate.

To sum up, watch out for areas that you can learn and grow, be honest with compassion, and communicate out your problems with your partner in a wise, empathic way. Look past pride to see both sides of the issue and don’t rely on “meant to be” to carry your relationship until death do you part.

Original article by Psychic Medium Andrea.  Do not copy or distribute without author’s permission.

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God & your Archangels can Guide you through your Interests

Many people I do readings for wonder or worry that they aren’t in the right career or that they won’t be in the right place at the right time to meet someone special. In my experience, God and your Archangels can guide you through your positive feelings. In other words, they can make you feel interested in something you’ve cared about for a while or create a new interest in the moment. Then all one has to do is follow their positive feelings to meet that special someone or go in the right direction. So my recommendation has always been to follow your positive feelings when trying to figure out what to do with your day or life. That could be coffee, books, music, clubs, or amusement parks. Then you will receive more angelic signs, you will be happier and meet other people with similar interests. It sounds simple but many people struggle with doing what “is expected” by parents or what will make others like them even though it doesn’t bring them joy. So be independent, ask yourself what you want to do in the moment, notice the things that interest you and pursue them.  Note that interests can change and that is alright.  Follow your positive feelings and not only find yourself happier but also bringing more of what you want into your life.

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Past Life Regression and Healing

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I did some past life regression and healing on myself today and wanted to pass along some of the techniques I used to heal some of my past lives that may be affecting how I perceive or vibrate in this life.

First it is important to relax, I usually do this lying on my bed, and meditate with some crystals.  The crystals I recommend from crown to toe are as follows:

Amethyst
Sodalite or Iolite
Larimar or angelite or aquamarine
Malachite or Serpentine or Tree Agate
Citrine
Sunstone or Moonstone
Red Jasper
Black Tourmaline (legs, knees and feet)

I relax and try to clear my mind.

Next I ask God to send me Jesus, and my 5 archangels, however you can ask for the ascended master of your choice (Buddha, Mary, etc.) and your archangels.

Say:

“Jesus and my archangels, thank you for being here.”

“Please show me a past life I need to heal from.”  or “Please show me a past life with …[person or soul connection].”

It may not be happy, since we are healing from this particular life.

Wait and allow them to show you.

Once you feel you were shown a representation of what happened you can ask for it to be healed.

Healing 1: “God please pull any regrets, resentments, rejections from the situation shown to me on all levels they exist in the best and highest way.  Replace anything removed with energy that is best and highest for me.  Please and thank you.”

Wait and feel the healing to be done.  Sometimes I ask them to make my feet feel less heavy when they are done.

Healing 2: Technically, I think this karmic healing should take care of #1, but it doesn’t hurt to do both.

Creator of all that is, I’m sorry, I forgive myself and I forgive others concerning this situation.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

Wait and feel the healing to be done.

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Self Healing

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There are a few methods that I learned in self healing my past that I wanted to share.

  1. “Healing through the decades”

Get into a meditative state (close your eyes and breathe in and out 3 times).  Imagine God and your angels sitting next to you.  Say:

  “Creator of all that is, please pull any negative emotions and negative energy from me when I was ages 0-10 years old.  Replace anything removed with healing energy that is best and highest for me.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

Wait and feel the energy being removed and replaced or until you intuitively know it is complete.  Then repeat the above prayer, replacing 0-10 with 11-20, then 21-30, until you reach your current age.  This will help with much of the anxiety and negative energy you have been feeling over the years.

2. “Stop the arguing”

Do you get into arguments with someone in your head over and over again concerning what happened in the past or some other reason?  I know some of you won’t want to do what I am about to tell you, but know that is your ego or some other negative side of you.  This prayer Heals significantly and I highly recommend it.  Just say the words, you don’t even have to feel it, or get to the wisdom of the situation before using it.  Mainly it is to release the energy that is no longer serving you and is bothering you (and probably only bothering you at this point).  It will still work even if you don’t feel humble enough to mean it fully at the time.  The healing will take care of that.

Think of situations that to this day still bother you.  Even if you don’t want to give this person anything, even if you hate them, or think you hate them, say this:

 “Creator of all that is, I’m sorry, I forgive myself and I forgive others concerning this situation.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

Wait and feel the energy being removed and replaced or until you intuitively know it is complete. There may be multiple reasons why you are going through this with someone else.  It could be due to someone’s insecurities, past lives,  a learning experience to make you more empathic or wise in the future. Whatever the reason, this helps to relieve a lot of that energy stuck in the past.

The other thing you can do daily to stay out of arguing with other people’s egos, shadow selves, or energies is to ask for this every morning:

 “Creator of all that is, please block me from connecting to others, unless I consciously ask for it or you feel it is important.  Please and thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done, and so it is.”

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Client’s Love & Relationship Question

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LOVE & RELATIONSHIP QUESTION

A client the other day asked me why her relationship not working out if she and her love interest had so much in common.

The answers I received from spirit were two-fold.  One, soul connections are brought into our lives and there is often a purpose to it.  You may pick up on the uniqueness of the connection, however that doesn’t mean it will work out forever, or “til death do you part”.  Sometimes you learn something from them and move on.  Both partners need to work through their issues.  Spirit showed me paths splitting due to a fork in the road; in other words your life paths may not be parallel for the rest of your lives and it can cause a struggle or feeling of incompleteness later in the relationship.  Some couples, including soul connections & Soul Mates, are short term for various reasons.  The second message I received was to discuss my parents.  My parents have been married over 51 years and still going strong.  They are almost complete opposites; one extremely logical and the other very good at expressing her emotions.  In some ways they make up for what the other lacks and can be a very good paring.  Sometimes they don’t understand each other at all, but they accept it, or ask their children what the other means as we have become translators for each side.  They make it work doing their own thing as they are very independent people with unique interests.

Society today, probably because of movies and other forms of entertainment, make us feel that we are to match up and be completely like our mate, however 50+ years ago the opposite was believed.  The full spectrum of similarities and differences can work out potentially.  If you have differences, great!  That could make it interesting for you and they can turn out to be helpful to you in the future.

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